oh boy,my black scorpionic kittens, i need help

Leoscoriorising girl : wants her boyfreind to committ.

Scorpio boy: Wants to commit later on in the future, and for now be extremely loyal girlfriend and boyfriend for like 8 years or so, comming over 5 days a week to SEE eachother

24/07/07 UPDATE: Leo girl tells him that now she will only see him on weekends. Then they say bye on the phone.

WHAT IS HE THINKING AT THIS POINT. and more importantly.. WHAT SHOULD I DO??!!!!

I'm confused...did u think doing this would get him to commit?

no i decided that because i think it would be too painful for me to see him constantly knowing that he doesn't want me that way.. i figure he's here either 50% of the time or nothing.. do you think i should reconsider my decision?

he lives with his dad and doesn't have to pay bills and rent and stuff.. i live on my own

no LOL he's 28

You are doing the right thing little kitty. Sometimes it's hard to grow up, especially when others aren't ready. You remember that day you were to old to play with Barbie and you got rid of her? Sometimes you have to do that to your boy toys, too!

he reminds me of a friend of mine.

So you want him to marry you (is this what you mean by committ)? How long you been together?

8 years is ridiculously long. He still lives with dad and pays no bills - why would you want to marry him, he sounds like a teenager in the body of a 28 yr old who doesn't want to settle down or have responsibilities. He needs to grow up and be a man and only he can do that in his own time. And you wonder why he won't committ?! :scratches head:

welp i felt so bad today about it (and i'm so used to seeing him so much) that i've changed my mind and want to see him every wednesday still you all are right about it THO

BTW devils the name you look kinda

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Oopss, I deeply apologize then.

Maybe he thinks ure playing games?

I think being together that long is a commitment...or am i reading it wrong?

Maybe it's all he can give u for now—

Now I am confused!

lol @ Yummy

"Scorpio boy: Wants to commit later on in the future, and for now be extremely loyal girlfriend"

Perhaps, then, if this isn't acceptable .. he'll find his way into a woman's heart who will be thankful for a boyfriend who has vowed to be extremely loyal to her.

p-angel i think you've brought a new awareness about what should be thankful for

yummy mummy yeah I feel confused a lot also

leoScorp .. what is a piece of paper?

You say you did this because he doesn't want you this way .. what way are you referring, since he vowed to remain loyal and want to see you nearly everyday?

You mean a piece of paper that says you are married?

Married people fall apart every single day because the heart wasn't bound to each other.

The heart doesn't know time, it doesn't know paper .. it only knows how to love.

Commiting to marriage means nothing, absolutely nothing .. if the two hearts don't join in honesty, loyalty, devotion and trust that they will protect and serve each others souls.

Please tell me the boy is atleast going to school. Does he have a job—

I need to know these things to offer better advice....

...Or to judge. Whatever!

Good point, juwanapla ..

If everybody would leave judging of themselves to themselves and NOT ask others .. then there wouldn't be this confusion.

If someone answers in favor .. it's advise
If someone answers in opposition .. it's judging

When in reality .. they are all just another person's perspective and should be taken as insight, rather than gospel.

If something is taken subjectively, when we actually have the power in us to use discernment for our own well-being .. then really, we offend ourselves, for we then allow another to judge.