nickydancer
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That is what I was afraid of. I miss him. I really want him back in my life. Is it possible that if I meet him I may "re-kindle" that feeling for me he once had? Or do you think it's more than likely a sex only thing.
exoskeleton, thank you. I thought by being sexy back in the texts it would be a good idea and keep him on his toes. As of yet I have not met up with him, but like I said he has not suggested a time/date. He just says "cum over" or "when are you going to come over?".
This has been going on for 2 weeks now. He's getting tired of my tap dancing around I can tell.
I just miss him so much. I have tried that approach first to be honest with my feelings but he ignored me. kept it all sex.
This has been going on for 2 weeks now. He's getting tired of my tap dancing around I can tell.
I just miss him so much. I have tried that approach first to be honest with my feelings but he ignored me. kept it all sex.
I like to think he misses me and wants a no pressure type of thing. A girl I know told me to meet up with him have sex and then disappear. She told me to give him a "gift". The gift of missing me and it would also show him I am not emotionally dependant on him.
Exoskeleton, thank you again. She told me if I had any questions to come on this site and to post them and you all would be very helpful and you are.
thank you.
I will have to think all this over.
I just want him back so much. I dont want to mess up the possible one chance I have. I may not get another one.
thank you.
I will have to think all this over.
I just want him back so much. I dont want to mess up the possible one chance I have. I may not get another one.
He's playing you. Probably he's bored and wants some 'fun'.
I don't know your history but even if there were romantic feelings and deep connection,
by playing this game now, and surrendering, you erase all that might have been positive and any chance in the future.
Scorpio, this guy? i bet he's testing you to see how much of a pushover you'd prove to be...just a thought...
He doesn't reciprocate to your 'feeling' messages and he knows/understands that you want more, don't delude yourself...
Out-power him and be teasing if you like (not s-exting back though) yet distant and aloof...and if he gets disrespectful flat out ignore him!!
If he's testing he'll come back with a different approach...in any way, seriously, take everything at face value right now...he wants sex. Period. Prove yourself the classy/strong one and even if he doesnt want sth more in the future, he ll respect you. By giving sex, even if you walk away, he as a 'conquest'. You werent able to resist him at least in THAT way.
Guys think differently.
Unless you want the no-strings-sex.
I don't know your history but even if there were romantic feelings and deep connection,
by playing this game now, and surrendering, you erase all that might have been positive and any chance in the future.
Scorpio, this guy? i bet he's testing you to see how much of a pushover you'd prove to be...just a thought...
He doesn't reciprocate to your 'feeling' messages and he knows/understands that you want more, don't delude yourself...
Out-power him and be teasing if you like (not s-exting back though) yet distant and aloof...and if he gets disrespectful flat out ignore him!!
If he's testing he'll come back with a different approach...in any way, seriously, take everything at face value right now...he wants sex. Period. Prove yourself the classy/strong one and even if he doesnt want sth more in the future, he ll respect you. By giving sex, even if you walk away, he as a 'conquest'. You werent able to resist him at least in THAT way.
Guys think differently.
Unless you want the no-strings-sex.
Posted by ellessque
Your friend was correct, minus the sex.
Relabel his number "Douchebag" in your phone and don't respond....or better yet, delete it.
He sounds like a real idiot.
Every time you answer his sexts you are degrading yourself in his eyes even more.
He'll keep trying that til you give in....and sounds like you have in the past, so he has nothing to lose and a nut to gain.
At this point, the respect for you is gone.
Walk away. Do you. Find your self-respect and then let it shine brightly. The right man, the one who deserves it, will see it like a beacon in the night.
This is GREAT!
1. The phone thing is funny.
2. I was thinking he is acting like a total dick. He knows how I feel about him
3. By (s)texting him back I am not flirting in his eyes——? That's what I thought I was doing.
4. I never gave in. Once I was not his girlfriend I cut off the sex. No free sex here.
5. His respect for me is gone? anyway to help get it back?
6. I know i sound delusional but I really think we connected deeply. I really think thats why he pushed me so far away. I also really think thats why he wants to keep me around. Not because sex was great but because deep inside he thinks I am, that we could be and it scares him. Could I be wrong on this?
My friend and I are both cancers. She agreed that Cancer women and scorpio men connect on a different level. Do you agree with this?
Posted by Lilith
He's playing you. Probably he's bored and wants some 'fun'.
I don't know your history but even if there were romantic feelings and deep connection,
by playing this game now, and surrendering, you erase all that might have been positive and any chance in the future.
Scorpio, this guy? i bet he's testing you to see how much of a pushover you'd prove to be...just a thought...
He doesn't reciprocate to your 'feeling' messages and he knows/understands that you want more, don't delude yourself...
Out-power him and be teasing if you like (not s-exting back though) yet distant and aloof...and if he gets disrespectful flat out ignore him!!
If he's testing he'll come back with a different approach...in any way, seriously, take everything at face value right now...he wants sex. Period. Prove yourself the classy/strong one and even if he doesnt want sth more in the future, he ll respect you. By giving sex, even if you walk away, he as a 'conquest'. You werent able to resist him at least in THAT way.
Guys think differently.
Unless you want the no-strings-sex.
No, I don't want NO STRINGS ATTACHED sex. I want him. I'm going to take the advice given to me. Stay fun via text and no meeting for sex. I love him and he knows it. I try to hide it but he sees right through me.
I feel badly because I was a little tough on her. If she is reading this and knows it's me I hope she knows I am sorry for being mean. Her advice has been in line with all of yours.
The sex advice she said was a last ditch effort but I had to be ready for the consequence.
I think I understand. Keep it sexy, light and fun and my pants on.
If he's having fun with my funny responses that will keep him texting, which will lead to phone calls, which will lead to a dinner invitation.
Just meeting him for sex takes away the challange. He WANTS me to challange him. He WANTS me to make him work for it.
Is this what you mean?
If he's having fun with my funny responses that will keep him texting, which will lead to phone calls, which will lead to a dinner invitation.
Just meeting him for sex takes away the challange. He WANTS me to challange him. He WANTS me to make him work for it.
Is this what you mean?
Verrry funny Don. And yes, I have VERY nice "boobs", however a bomb might be a bit much dont you think? I don't think I need to be SO extreme yet.
Maybe a nice flower corsgae that shoots out water in his face for startes.
Would that work?
Maybe a nice flower corsgae that shoots out water in his face for startes.
Would that work?
I hoping it will become more. I also did ignore him and he started (s)texting me. I should have blown it off but I love him so much.
I think he's trying to keep control over things. When we were together if things were good or after a nice time together he'd dissapear for days but then he always came back.
Like I said I still dont know why we broke up but we did.
I miss him.
I think he's trying to keep control over things. When we were together if things were good or after a nice time together he'd dissapear for days but then he always came back.
Like I said I still dont know why we broke up but we did.
I miss him.
First off, I want to say I can totally understand your feelings. Second, I have to say the op made me want to shake you and say 'are you blind'? Seriously, this guy is looking for one thing, and if he gets it even ONCE he will never respect you again. I would totally stop s-exting and just flirt, without being overtly sexual.. if you feel a need to keep talking to him. Really, the best thing, imo, is to just cut him off. By s-exting you he is disrespecting you. If he really likes you, he'll cut the crap and be a gentleman. All you gotta do is wait and see. If he *doesnt* come back to you, acting respectable, in a few weeks, he never respected you in the first place and you should move on.
Skykomish- wow, thanks. I feel even worse now because that is almost verbatim what my friend from work said. She siad that you all would agree with her.
I was bitchy to her but it's because I was hurt.
Her advice was that Cancer women and Scorpio men connect very deeply and that they feel each other more than most and to just have faith in that. Not have sex and eventually he will be back as most men usally come back. eventually. If he really loves me he will be back even if it takes a year.
I was bitchy to her but it's because I was hurt.
Her advice was that Cancer women and Scorpio men connect very deeply and that they feel each other more than most and to just have faith in that. Not have sex and eventually he will be back as most men usally come back. eventually. If he really loves me he will be back even if it takes a year.
I'm sorry 😢 I didn't mean to make you feel worse. Like I said, I can totally understand your feelings. If you knew my relationship history you'd tell me to take my own advice. Sometimes you really need to hear it straight. Its a lot easier from the outside looking in, I know.
No I dont feel worse. just sad. Thank you all for the advice.
so no more (s)texting only flirt(text)ing and no sex. If he loves me back he will be back.
so no more (s)texting only flirt(text)ing and no sex. If he loves me back he will be back.
I will try.
Thank you all so much.
🙂
Thank you all so much.
🙂
Posted by DapperDon
hahahaha....Too funny! My kids and I have watched that a few too many times. I find them quite entertaining...lol
To Nickydancer, I agree with most of what's been said. If you have sex with him you will probably ruin all chances at what you really want with him. He then would have his cake and get to eat it too. I wouldn't be sexual back to him in the texts and if you feel the need then just be flirty. I think you should ignore his texts when he is being disrespectful or at least tell him something about it..like, I don't appreciate you just texting me about sex only. That way he knows why you are ignoring him when he does do it. If you guys have a strong bond then he may come back for a relationship especially if he has respect for you. In the meantime I do agree that you need to concentrate on yourself and do things you enjoy doing and hang out with your friends and have your own fun. This will make you a healthy woman with even more to give when the right relationship comes along (maybe the Scorpio).
I wish you good luck in this as we do understand that it is very hard. I can tell you from a personal experience with my ex-husband who is a Scorpio, that once they realize what they lost then they do want to come back. Unfortunately for my Scorpio ex it was too little too late and I am not interested. We are now just friends.
I wish you good luck in this as we do understand that it is very hard. I can tell you from a personal experience with my ex-husband who is a Scorpio, that once they realize what they lost then they do want to come back. Unfortunately for my Scorpio ex it was too little too late and I am not interested. We are now just friends.
Posted by DapperDon
Well hello, St. Patricks. Having a fine day, are you?
I am having a nice day! You? Me and my daughter are getting ready to go shop...yay! 😄
Posted by nickydancer
Hi Scorpio signs, can you give me some advice? I am in need of help.
My ex is sending me (s)texts! They all say the same thing: come over and have sex. The reason we broke up was that he said he did not want a relationship. I was not pushing for one I was happy just dating. This has always confused me as to the reason we broke up.
THE PROBLEM IS NOT THE (S)TEXTS
The problem is that he never asks when. He only texts "come over" or "when are you coming over?".
I don't know what to say to him so I have been texting him very teasing sexual responses. Do I text when? Should I text "I'll see you in 20 minutes be naked".
I miss him and want him back. I don't want just sex. I want sex AND him.
I could use some advice.
ha! treat him like the whore that he is.
And when your done with him, leave him some dollars on the night stand and give him a slap on the ass
Posted by ellessque
Figure out what it is about him that you want/miss so much....and find that within yourself, because it's obviously missing.
so many people get blinded by the great sex that they forget to learn who they are so desperate to get to know.
Posted by bluemoon2Posted by ellessque
Figure out what it is about him that you want/miss so much....and find that within yourself, because it's obviously missing.
I agree.
Possibly write down or think of all the things you are attracted to him for. Compare and contrast your world with and without him.click to expand
great advice.
you may find that you dont know a friggin thing about him.
Posted by DMVPosted by nickydancer
Hi Scorpio signs, can you give me some advice? I am in need of help.
My ex is sending me (s)texts! They all say the same thing: come over and have sex. The reason we broke up was that he said he did not want a relationship. I was not pushing for one I was happy just dating. This has always confused me as to the reason we broke up.
THE PROBLEM IS NOT THE (S)TEXTS
The problem is that he never asks when. He only texts "come over" or "when are you coming over?".
I don't know what to say to him so I have been texting him very teasing sexual responses. Do I text when? Should I text "I'll see you in 20 minutes be naked".
I miss him and want him back. I don't want just sex. I want sex AND him.
I could use some advice.
DMV That is SO GANGSTA! I am going to do two things firstly I am going to make that list and secondly if he's not what I want I am going to meet him have sex and then leave a $ 50 bill on his night stand. the more i think about it the less i like feeling I was disrespected.
I wonder what his reaction to that would be!
ha! treat him like the whore that he is.
And when your done with him, leave him some dollars on the night stand and give him a slap on the assclick to expand
yo nicky,
thats exactly what i did to my scorp one day. i smashed him real good and then i treated him like the whore that he is. i for one, know that i sleep around and i wont deny it.
HIM, he will deny..deny..deny...and he used to send me texts like that until....
one morning, i got some "dollar bils" and left it on his nightstand with a message "thanks for a good time" and then slapped him on the ass on his way out..no hug..only a slap on the ass.
he straightened up real quick...
thats exactly what i did to my scorp one day. i smashed him real good and then i treated him like the whore that he is. i for one, know that i sleep around and i wont deny it.
HIM, he will deny..deny..deny...and he used to send me texts like that until....
one morning, i got some "dollar bils" and left it on his nightstand with a message "thanks for a good time" and then slapped him on the ass on his way out..no hug..only a slap on the ass.
he straightened up real quick...
DMV I just called my friend that told me to post here and she read what you wrote and she thinks (if I can do it emotionally) that he would shit his pants if I did this. She said since I've been out of his sight for a while except for this (s)texting I sould lay off and then in like a month contact him. She said if he does not offer me what i want or at the very least be respectful, then I should meet him, have sex with him, throw a $ 50 on his dresser, slap his ass and say "next time give me 100% please, I KNOW you can do better" and just walk out as easy as I came in.
She said he will be stupified. she also said be prepared for the scorpio wrath after as it may be harsh, or hell just fall like a kitten.
What do you think? I can do this, I know I can if it will get him back, I can do it.
She said he will be stupified. she also said be prepared for the scorpio wrath after as it may be harsh, or hell just fall like a kitten.
What do you think? I can do this, I know I can if it will get him back, I can do it.
DMV are you a Scorpio?
Posted by nickydancer
DMV I just called my friend that told me to post here and she read what you wrote and she thinks (if I can do it emotionally) that he would shit his pants if I did this. She said since I've been out of his sight for a while except for this (s)texting I sould lay off and then in like a month contact him. She said if he does not offer me what i want or at the very least be respectful, then I should meet him, have sex with him, throw a $ 50 on his dresser, slap his ass and say "next time give me 100% please, I KNOW you can do better" and just walk out as easy as I came in.
She said he will be stupified. she also said be prepared for the scorpio wrath after as it may be harsh, or hell just fall like a kitten.
What do you think? I can do this, I know I can if it will get him back, I can do it.
lol now we moved to the theatrics 😄
Well if you can do that...it might be...interesting to say the least...
I admit I wouldnt be able to if I had feelings for the guy, so brace yourself.
I stick by method A though.
In this way you ll get at him but I thought you wanted to get HIM or at least some respect back.
Oh well...do share if you proceed, one hell of an experiment 😄
sag sun *hence the bow and arrow in the pic 🙂
scorpio moon
been in a "ship" with a scorpio male for almost a year...wow
forger about getting what you want. that will take time. that you cant force him to do.
but you can demand respect.
yep, sex him up real good, leave some cash on the nightstand and then pat him on the butt on your way out.
now, if you want to say something...dont even say anything about a next time. does a john ever tell a trick, see you next time? nope. just say something sexy like. "bye" in french or something. something seductive. no need to trash his ego because that would be a fib, right?
scorpio moon
been in a "ship" with a scorpio male for almost a year...wow
forger about getting what you want. that will take time. that you cant force him to do.
but you can demand respect.
yep, sex him up real good, leave some cash on the nightstand and then pat him on the butt on your way out.
now, if you want to say something...dont even say anything about a next time. does a john ever tell a trick, see you next time? nope. just say something sexy like. "bye" in french or something. something seductive. no need to trash his ego because that would be a fib, right?
the sex is good, its the respect thing that has gotten your panties in a bunch.
when i gave my scorp a slap on the rear, he was startled!! it objectifies him LOL. he turned around and was a bit thrown off for a second.
when i gave my scorp a slap on the rear, he was startled!! it objectifies him LOL. he turned around and was a bit thrown off for a second.
BUT, you must be prepared that he wants nothing else but sex from you.
I don't think I want just sex. I also don't know if I am ready for him to be out of my life forever. Maybe I'll wait 3-4 weeks and see what happens. I'm all talk. I would like to get all gangsta on him but the truth is I love him and don't want to fuck it up.
Maybe i'll just slap his ass and say "that was fun babe, but I gotta go" no money on the nightstand.
That might work lol
Maybe i'll just slap his ass and say "that was fun babe, but I gotta go" no money on the nightstand.
That might work lol
i just read that your a cancer....
i will tell you a secret, a CANCER gave me this advice
i will tell you a secret, a CANCER gave me this advice
Omg DMV that is hilarious. Yeah, you could do that if you prefer. Sure as shit will wake him up.
Posted by DapperDon
"I am having a nice day! You? Me and my daughter are getting ready to go shop...yay!"
Fantastic. I know you two will have a good time. You should take me with you though. If you play your cards right, I'm sure you can con me into buying you a piece of jewelry. 😉
Well damn! I really should've taken you with us!!!! I would love a nice piece of jewelry! 😉
I did find my New Year's eve dress and it is beautiful! Royal blue and lovely! I just love getting dressed up and going out on the town for NYE! In fact the you could've purchased the jewelry to set off my dress!
That makes very good sense. It wont stop him. How to get his interest back up and away from sex? Any suggestions? What about the slap on the ass thing?!?!?
just live a happy life and if he wants you...he will make himself be apart of your life.
there is no clear cut answer on how to get a scorpio to change their minds. besides, youve probably done a million things wrong already.
there is no clear cut answer on how to get a scorpio to change their minds. besides, youve probably done a million things wrong already.
It is OBVIOUS that:
The only way to correct this problem is to:
1 - Go give him the most INCREDIBLE sex he ever had
2 - Before you leave, you need to state firmly that
if he ever wants to have you again, that requires a
relationship - a real one - with dates outside the
home and other such foolish things you women want
and tell him you will IGNORE any further messages
unless he is asking you to do something NICE and
NON-SEXUAL which may or may not end up in sex.
( NOTE: He will keep it up as long as it is convenient
and try to do less and less and still get the sex )
3 - Stick to the plan.
It is also SO obvious that;
- you are a COP
- your sign is Cancer
- he is an electrician
Have a nice day.
The only way to correct this problem is to:
1 - Go give him the most INCREDIBLE sex he ever had
2 - Before you leave, you need to state firmly that
if he ever wants to have you again, that requires a
relationship - a real one - with dates outside the
home and other such foolish things you women want
and tell him you will IGNORE any further messages
unless he is asking you to do something NICE and
NON-SEXUAL which may or may not end up in sex.
( NOTE: He will keep it up as long as it is convenient
and try to do less and less and still get the sex )
3 - Stick to the plan.
It is also SO obvious that;
- you are a COP
- your sign is Cancer
- he is an electrician
Have a nice day.
Thank you for the advice scorpiopics.
1- I will try that in a month when the (s)texting calms down like she suggested because I think it's a good idea to wait
2- I will say it to him but I have my doubts with all that has happened between us.
3- I can stick to the plan but it will be hard as I cannot turn my feelings on and off.
It is NOT obvious what I do for a living and you are wrong that is HER profession, I just work there.
I stated before in a post my sign is a Cancer
I don't think his profession has anything to do with anything.
I did discuss with her how my business should NOT be discussed without my premission.
I hope YOUR advice works and just so you know she past it off as her advice.
1- I will try that in a month when the (s)texting calms down like she suggested because I think it's a good idea to wait
2- I will say it to him but I have my doubts with all that has happened between us.
3- I can stick to the plan but it will be hard as I cannot turn my feelings on and off.
It is NOT obvious what I do for a living and you are wrong that is HER profession, I just work there.
I stated before in a post my sign is a Cancer
I don't think his profession has anything to do with anything.
I did discuss with her how my business should NOT be discussed without my premission.
I hope YOUR advice works and just so you know she past it off as her advice.
LOL @ AN eletrician..
its also easy for scorpios to manipulate cancers
its also easy for scorpios to manipulate cancers
*****eating popcorn*****
Posted by nickydancer
Thank you for the advice scorpiopics.
1- I will try that in a month when the (s)texting calms down like she suggested because I think it's a good idea to wait
until his passions turn elsewhere? STRIKE WHILE THE IRON IS HOT
2- I will say it to him but I have my doubts with all that has happened between us.
Then maybe this is a lost cause? If you have doubts - perhaps it is.
3- I can stick to the plan but it will be hard as I cannot turn my feelings on and off.
right, I keep forgetting other people can't ignore them. My bad.
It is NOT obvious what I do for a living and you are wrong that is HER profession, I just work there.
I stated before in a post my sign is a Cancer
didn't see it - only the OP
I don't think his profession has anything to do with anything.
lol - wanna bet?
I did discuss with her how my business should NOT be discussed without my permission.
I didn't know you until you introduced yourself
She wanted qualified advice - and since she is a Cancer with a Scorpio problem
...she knew she was not qualified - but certainly UNDERSTOOD your plight.
I hope YOUR advice works and just so you know she past it off as her advice.
She was advised to address it as she saw fit.
She was very uncomfortable about asking - and now she need not be uncomfortable anymore.
However - I will let all others on the board know when we are talking to any member
or affiliate of law enforcement.
However lets remember that when we get mad at her - she was doing her VERY BEST
to help you with your hurtful situation.... and it was going on way before you
spoke to her about it ... and before she spoke to me about it ...
... and you really need to pull your head out of your A.S.S. and go give him
what HE wants?
Why?
You have NO CHANCE at getting what YOU want unless you SHOW HIM that you'll SUBMIT to him
... and that there is a way to get your CONTINUED submission.
See - this is him sorting out who has THE POWER.
If you want to have it - best go feed his ego...or you're worthless to him.
Best
scorpiopics we spoke about you today and G said you would be a big help to me if I did what you said.
I know you said to strike while the iron is hot but I am scared. I think I need to wait because I am scared to get hurt by him. He text me today and asked "How long are you going to make me wait?" and I have not responded yet. I have explained to her and now to you that for the past "invites" from him everytime I have tried to set plans at his request he cancels on me and it leaves me feeling stupid. It's like he builds me up just to cancel.
She said her ex did the same thing to her all the time but it's because he has problems. She told me their whole story. I do not think her Scorpio cares for her. I also think her Scorpio does have serious problems and is mean and callus. She's out of her mind because she actually feels bad for the guy! IMHO she should NOT be giving advice to anybody about anything.
Her Scorpio is a professional mine is more a hands on type of man. Is this why his profession matters?
I just dont want him to hurt me and I dont want to mess up because I still love him.
I'm not mad at her and you are right she does feel awful HOWEVER the fact that she does not hate the guy after everything he has done to her, and would still help him if he needed help, after all that abuse, makes me question her judgement. Normal people know when to walk away.
I know you said to strike while the iron is hot but I am scared. I think I need to wait because I am scared to get hurt by him. He text me today and asked "How long are you going to make me wait?" and I have not responded yet. I have explained to her and now to you that for the past "invites" from him everytime I have tried to set plans at his request he cancels on me and it leaves me feeling stupid. It's like he builds me up just to cancel.
She said her ex did the same thing to her all the time but it's because he has problems. She told me their whole story. I do not think her Scorpio cares for her. I also think her Scorpio does have serious problems and is mean and callus. She's out of her mind because she actually feels bad for the guy! IMHO she should NOT be giving advice to anybody about anything.
Her Scorpio is a professional mine is more a hands on type of man. Is this why his profession matters?
I just dont want him to hurt me and I dont want to mess up because I still love him.
I'm not mad at her and you are right she does feel awful HOWEVER the fact that she does not hate the guy after everything he has done to her, and would still help him if he needed help, after all that abuse, makes me question her judgement. Normal people know when to walk away.
haha @ mean and callus....just you wait!!
haha @ normal people know when to walk away ....just you wait!!
why are you scared of him? cmon Cancer! grow some balls
haha @ normal people know when to walk away ....just you wait!!
why are you scared of him? cmon Cancer! grow some balls
@nicky dancer,
your friend is living the life that you will shortly live. and you should remember this day and time because your going to be eating your words!
dont judge her for sticking by her man. cancers are easy to manipulate. you guys fall for scorpios and you dont let go.
no fault of your own. your submissve to your scorpios
your friend is living the life that you will shortly live. and you should remember this day and time because your going to be eating your words!
dont judge her for sticking by her man. cancers are easy to manipulate. you guys fall for scorpios and you dont let go.
no fault of your own. your submissve to your scorpios
Posted by QuietSt0rmPosted by scorpiopics
... and you really need to pull your head out of your A.S.S. and go give him
what HE wants?
Why?
You have NO CHANCE at getting what YOU want unless you SHOW HIM that you'll SUBMIT to him
... and that there is a way to get your CONTINUED submission.
See - this is him sorting out who has THE POWER.
If you want to have it - best go feed his ego...or you're worthless to him.
*facepalm*
Yes. If you want to be another statistic on DXP as the love slave (and not much more) of a male scorpio, do as he says.
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Respectfully;
You're a GIRL...and you are thinking like a GIRL ... so is Nicky ...and that is why it is not WORKING.
This is about CONTROL - who is MASTER - that is all.
He wants to know she loves him enough to submit to him
BUT
he really would be BORED if she had NO backbone at all.
This gives him what he wants FIRST ( you're a Scorpio, you understand how that will work )
and then shows him she means business about what SHE wants...and he'll see the connection.
He will take it or leave it...but then she'll have her ANSWER at least
and if he keeps up the BS - she will give him the gift of missing her.
( It's a GREAT gift! )
She wants the sex, too - so it's not like a sacrifice. lol
Posted by nickydancer
scorpiopics we spoke about you today and G said you would be a big help to me if I did what you said.
I know you said to strike while the iron is hot but I am scared.
I understand - but the longer it goes on, the more hopeless you'll feel,
and right now YOU kinda have the power...because you have his INTEREST.
Honestly, with us, that can change in a heartbeat.
THEN ...YOU will wonder why he lost interest and contact HIM for sex.
Who wins THEN?
I think I need to wait because
I don't care why you think you need to wait. This isn't working because SO FAR you have been doing what YOU think you should do. Get it?
I am scared to get hurt by him.
I do understand.
He text me today and asked "How long are you going to make me wait?" and I have not responded yet. I have explained to her and now to you that for the past "invites" from him everytime I have tried to set plans at his request he cancels on me and it leaves me feeling stupid. It's like he builds me up just to cancel.
He invites you for sex. And you try to set plans for ...sex? ...or Dinnner, talk, movie, talk about us, blah blah, other shit you want for you, blah blah .
Which is it? Can you see why he CANCELS? I don't know because I don't know the answer to above - but I know women pretty well. lol
She said her ex did the same thing
STOP.
WAIT.
"SHE" was NEVER his girlfriend.
She was a convenient vagina.
She NEEDS to be in relationships that make her FEEL BAD. ( Do YOU? - Seriously? )
She MUST seek guys who talk down to her. She NEEDS it. ( You? )
She is COMPELLED to vomit endless drivel that ONLY SHE Understands - and drives us away.
She also is very NICE and we have a soft spot for that - BUT ...
SHE WAS NEVER his girlfriend.
Not even a regular MISTRESS.
She was his CLIENT. C L I E N T
He is MARRIED.
That "relationship" is ALL IN HER MIND. She was a CLIENT.
The LONGEST time they spend together was when HE WAS IN JAIL
and he was A CAPTIVE AUDIENCE - but - she did STAY with him
which is more than most would do - so - that gets to our heart.
BUT ... she was NEVER in a real relationship with him.
In a BED ...I guess. HIS? Not sure. ( see the problem? )
to her all the time but it's because he has problems.
the both got f'n problems
She told me
F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. I hate this board.
Had a real nice posted typed out
but the F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. board
cut it off ...
... but ya know what, Scorps?
Even if I take the time to type it out again
she won't take the adivice. Why?
She actually thinks normal people can WALK AWAY
from a bad situation ... but fails to see that
SHE IS NOT NORMAL ... she's in love.
I am done with love advice to non-Scorpio females
involved with Scorpio males. Done. The End.
Had a real nice posted typed out
but the F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. board
cut it off ...
... but ya know what, Scorps?
Even if I take the time to type it out again
she won't take the adivice. Why?
She actually thinks normal people can WALK AWAY
from a bad situation ... but fails to see that
SHE IS NOT NORMAL ... she's in love.
I am done with love advice to non-Scorpio females
involved with Scorpio males. Done. The End.
This F..U..C..K..ing board just changed the word F..U..C..K to "run".
Someone please report me to Duncan so he can ban me.
You'll be doing me a big favor.
Someone please report me to Duncan so he can ban me.
You'll be doing me a big favor.
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