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it doesnt matter, shes scared of her scorp

she will eventually succmb because she has no self-control. AND he knows hes about to get some.

she's just holding out on sex in hopes that he will get into a relationship with her.

Posted by exoskeleton

Posted by scorpiopics
F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. I hate this board.

Had a real nice posted typed out
but the F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. F.U.C.K. board
cut it off ...

... but ya know what, Scorps?

Even if I take the time to type it out again
she won't take the adivice. Why?

She actually thinks normal people can WALK AWAY
from a bad situation ... but fails to see that

SHE IS NOT NORMAL ... she's in love.

I am done with love advice to non-Scorpio females
involved with Scorpio males. Done. The End.

yo, i may need you soon. you have extremely good insight.

click to expand

You know where I am.
And if I don't respond to a PM - most of the other Scorpio females here
know my email address.

I called today and he let voicemail pick up. I left a simple message. Nothing. No response. It's been hours. Nothing.

I have been told that when a Scorpio man loves you you will know it. I dont feel very loved right now.

@nickydancer

sucks being ignored, now dont it?

you ignored him when he tried to reach you..you kept him waiting and waiting.

and now, hes going to make you wait and you will go CRAZY..wondering where he is and who hes with..

have fun lol

I did not ignore him. I was uncertain on how to respond and yes it does suck and I am wondering.
Oh but I meant to tell you I love your photo by the way it's so adorible.

I am not having fun yet LOL

he is more sensitive than you. your nonresponse to him is a huge red flag. huge. especially early on in your "ship." he probably feels neglected.

so now hes going to ignore you till hes figured out things on his end.

depending on how hurt he is, this may last a day, a week, a month...its up to him

Thanks DMV. A neglected scorpio is a moving Scorpio. As in moving on to the next person.
Well, I called and left a message. Now I will have to wait.

I am sitting here kicking myself because I think I maybe should have not responded to his text at all. No response is better than a late response. Now it looks like I am playing games.

Posted by nickydancer
Thanks DMV. A neglected scorpio is a moving Scorpio. As in moving on to the next person.
Well, I called and left a message. Now I will have to wait.

I am sitting here kicking myself because I think I maybe should have not responded to his text at all. No response is better than a late response. Now it looks like I am playing games.

How is "what you want to do" working for you?

Not so good, eh?

You were given THE solution;
It is: Show submission, then backbone.

Or be stuck on this board for the next few months.
It's up to you.

Scorpiopics I would like to try your advice but he is not calling me back. Should I call him again?

your going to have to grovel your butt off. thats if he picks up. if he doesnt, leave him alone.

ok. I'm going to call him now. I'll tell him I miss him in my message. Grovel. Got it.

Voicemail. "Hi _____ it's _____. I just wanted to tell you hi and say that your on my mind and I miss you".

tell him to call you...

if you leave a message like that, it doesnt mean that he has to call you back

cmon Cancer lol

Called again. Voicemail. "I forgot to tell you to call me, so call me".

No response.

*cricket* *cricket* nothing. I'm going to bed. This sucks.

It;s New Years Eve and no phone call, text, email, nothing. He is ignoring me. I am so upset about it. How long can this go on for, or has he found another?


I bet he has found another. If I was on his mind I would know it.
just venting.

Still nothing. *cricket* *cricket*.
I sent him a text at midnight last night. "Happy New Year, I'd be happier if you were here".
DMV, I'm groveling. Really groveling.

Oh Lord nickydancer,

you re really pining for this guy, aren't you?!! And you thought for a moment you d pull off the 'I'll-sex-you-but-show-I-don't-care' card??
You obviously have fallen harder for this guy than you realise - that, and/or you liked the attention, because of past feelings and you don't want to lose that.
In any case, it 's not good for YOU. Yes, he's ignoring you - and I can only guess, among others, because;
1. He made you an offer you COULD and SHOULD refuse (since you wanted more than no-strings sex and you re not his lady-in-service)
2. After you didn't give him the time of the day - and rightly so, since he only offered sex, which is most likely what he wants (when a guy tells you this outright, your safest bet is to believe him), now you're panicking because he's not pursuing...well, if he just wants sex, he s not MEANT to!!
3. You present yourself as indecisive and insecure...if you re down with his offer, you should tell him so from the beginning...not first ignore him and then go into pursuing mode. Be strong and decide what is that you want!! I am only telling you what I, as an outsider, see and what he probably perceives; you either wanted his offer - and you should say so, openly, from the beginning, OR ignore him and let the matter die. Now, he might see you as weak and not holding firm to a position - whichever this position be. If he's typical, he'll play it a little - to see how far you can go with this back-and-forth behavior. And it doesn't generate much trust, to add this.

Be honest. You are worth more than sb ignoring you and remembering you only for 'dirty' texts and to pass time.
Respect yourself and he'll respect you. And I ve known scorps to admire this more than most digns.

Now, I am not a scorpio and maybe a male one has a different perspective but these are my 2 cents.

PS. I understand you. I feel the frustration of most women, especially when dealing with water men and myself I attracted to them 99,9% of the time out of all others...so keep us posted...🙂

@lilith,

that was actually spot on.

@nicky,

here is whats going to happen next. he will call you and you will lie down faster than a rug. and hes going to get exactly what he wants from you by manipulation. and your going to be stuck like glue to a situation that you didnt want to be in initially.

be happy he didnt curse you out or sting you on his way out. hes doing you a favor by keeping you away from a sex ship that you didnt want to be in.

Posted by QuietSt0rm
If you keep chasing/hounding him it's only going to push him further away.

Agreed. Scorps are the ones who like the chase. You're just proving you're easy to manipulate and not hard to keep around. Poor cancers :/ They're so nice, but terrible at playing the game

Posted by Skykomish
First off, I want to say I can totally understand your feelings. Second, I have to say the op made me want to shake you and say 'are you blind'? Seriously, this guy is looking for one thing, and if he gets it even ONCE he will never respect you again. I would totally stop s-exting and just flirt, without being overtly sexual.. if you feel a need to keep talking to him. Really, the best thing, imo, is to just cut him off. By s-exting you he is disrespecting you. If he really likes you, he'll cut the crap and be a gentleman. All you gotta do is wait and see. If he *doesnt* come back to you, acting respectable, in a few weeks, he never respected you in the first place and you should move on.

Sorry to be blunt and repetitive, but... this is still my advice. You keep acting like a doormat and he will never be interested, too easy. Walk away! He respects you, and wants you, he'll be the one chasing YOU down, begging YOU to come back.

Hi. I don't like being a door mat and that is EXACTLY how I feel right now. A friend at work told me last night that I should walk away. She said if I am what he wants he will realize this and work to get me back.

She keeps telling me to let him miss me. I thought groveling was the way to go, it's not working.

Let's try silence. Maybe he will think my New Years Resolution was to get over him and my silence will freak him out.

Cancers dont play the game well. We actually suck at it.

Posted by nickydancer
Hi. I don't like being a door mat and that is EXACTLY how I feel right now. A friend at work told me last night that I should walk away. She said if I am what he wants he will realize this and work to get me back.

She keeps telling me to let him miss me. I thought groveling was the way to go, it's not working.

Let's try silence. Maybe he will think my New Years Resolution was to get over him and my silence will freak him out.

Cancers dont play the game well. We actually suck at it.

If you don't play the game then why are you dating a game player?

Hehe me and my cancer friend were being silly and I mentioned I'm a survivor to which his response was "Well I guess I'm a die-er" 😆 I don't think you're a die-er, but I think you need to date another sign that's just gonna be straight with you and tell you how it is without the added grief :/

I think I am going to take a break from him. I am going to walk away cold turkey. He will chase me ONLY if he thinks I am gone. I believe this because the more I think about it the more I realize you all are right! We all want what we can't have! He wants a challange. I am going to be his challange! I am going to do this by walking away.

I just wonder if eventually he will seek me out?
:-/

In the meantime I will be doing a whole lot of jogging!

@nickydancer,

theres the spirit. live a happy life. if he wants you, he will make himself be apart of it

LMAO! OMG! DMV! YOU ARE SO CUTE & FUNNY!

Yes I am going to go have fun and live life but for the record, this reeeeeeeeaaaalllllyyyyyy sucks!

Thank you all! I will post if any new developments. Happy New Year!