Pluto problem?

So my Pluto is in my 7th house, which is why I've come to you lovely dark mysterious people for advice.
In this group I'm in, there are these two dude that joined a few months ago. (Cap Sun/Sag Moon and Gemini Sun/Cancer Moon) Things were fine until the Cap sun guy called me out over me acting "holier than thou" one too many times, jokingly. (count: 3 incidents over a few days. It only happened due to a thing that happened between a few of us. He was there.) Nobody else cared cause they knew i was talking out of my ass, but since he and his Gemini bud said it wasn't funny, I stopped all together saying outright that I wouldn't have fun with the situation that gave me the pass to act like that. Cap dude tried to back out and say I knew he didn't mean that, but I figured since they were the only two that whined about it and nobody else cared, just to end it like that.

I was going to just keep things more reserved and aloof, since I didn't feel comfortable anymore, but one my good Leo friend threw a fit about it when I told her. So I gave it another go. Things seemed fine until I had a really good day and felt silly and happy. Cap asked if I was drunk and Gemini (who didn't sleep for 24 hours at that time) didn't get what I was saying.

I got pissed. I was so offended my mood died and I had to leave before I snapped, saying "Fuck this", to show I was upset.

During the time I was gone, Gemini made an off color comment on my voice, my Leo friend got upset and told him he needed sleep. He refused. A shitstorm happened so bad, that while Cap dude came and apologized to me, I got pulled back in to deal with the Gemini. He might have had no (self)awareness at the time since he continued to say things that pissed everyone off. It finally ended after I gave Gemini a stern talking to and he left to go to sleep or do errands wit his family.

Is my pluto bring up their issues? I talked to other friends for each incident. One said my ego/confidence rubbed them the wrong way. Other said they wanted a pass for being "insensitive" and that the Gem tried and failed to bullshit his way out things. I don't know what to do besides hold back cause they seem more "sensitive" then they care to think.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
Also 7th house is the house of open enemies among all the good things about this house. Pluto in this house might set off " hidden" enemies or a more subtle form of open. Something to think about.

Well I could let pluto have them, if they self-destruct fro their unfaced demons and unchecked emotions, then it will be a plutian situation, they can heal from the exposure or break over it.

I'm likely just to restrict ties and censor myself around them since they're that weak. If anymore shit happens, it's clearly not gonna stop till either I leave or change happens.

Posted by Whatu
Keep doing what you do an be proud of it, don't change who you are for anybody. I've been called out by people for similar crap. One time this guy with a huge personality came into out friend group. I psych major, he has all kinds of weird ways to make people like him and to hide his delicate little ego from people. He called me out on being "helmet" because I'm so insensitive to other people.

I just about threw him out a window, But instead I calmly asked him If my confidence was making his little self fell hard done by? giving him a taste of his own medicine shut him up good.

chances are the Gemini is just stiring shit because they are Geminis.

*Nods* I refuse to change myself, best I can do is leave them alone all together.
Which would mean leaving the group that has no problem with me over two whiners.
So not really considering that extreme. Do find it odd that I set them while nobody else does...