JUST CURIOUS (SCORP MALES)

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by neiki on Friday, August 1, 2014 and has 14 replies.

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@neiki
12 Years

If you're in a date with someone (whom you really like) and you noticed some boys/men were looking at her. Do you actually feel proud being with her or gets jealous? What are some of your gestures when you feel jealous?

Thank you.

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@Scorpio1288
12 YearsScorpio

It wouldn't matter because the girl is with me and I will be territorial as I am the Alpha. Now if they speak to you or you enjoy that kind of attention that's a different story. We are aggressive against threats and we don't like games where you can invoke our jealousy.

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@Scorpio1288
12 YearsScorpio

To clarify my previous statement --- We act like that for those who we REALLY care about not just for some girl for a one night stand or who is our "play thing"

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@MrFirebird
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by neiki
If you're in a date with someone (whom you really like) and you noticed some boys/men were looking at her. Do you actually feel proud being with her or gets jealous? What are some of your gestures when you feel jealous?

Thank you.

rule numero uno - don't play games to find out what will make a man jealous. Risky business.

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@nov13thscorp
14 Years

Posted by Rabbit
Immature ones notice and get jealous.

Mature ones are only concerned with their date.

false...its means im human "rabbit"....the immature ones makes a scene/big fuss abt it...I would notice im jealous, understand why im jealous & just move on from the situation

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@nov13thscorp
14 Years

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by nov13thscorp

Posted by Rabbit
Immature ones notice and get jealous.

Mature ones are only concerned with their date.

false...its means im human "rabbit"....the immature ones makes a scene/big fuss abt it...I would notice im jealous, understand why im jealous & just move on from the situation

That's more or less what I meant.

Your date wouldn't even notice your jealousy if this is the path you take.

If you try to stifle the feeling instead of letting yourself feel it, it will linger and cause more problems.

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Sorry abt that rabbit lol I thought your comment was a quick jab at my response...agreed totally

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@Andalusia
12 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by neiki
If you're in a date with someone (whom you really like) and you noticed some boys/men were looking at her. Do you actually feel proud being with her or gets jealous? What are some of your gestures when you feel jealous?

Thank you.

rule numero uno - don't play games to find out what will make a man jealous. Risky business.

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+1

Don't play games at all.

Unless it's 'Settlers of Catan' or 'Cards Against Humanity'

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@neiki
12 Years

Hi everyone ! Thanks for sharing your insights/opinions.

Just to clarify, im not for revenge here. Just curious if the scorp guy im dating is capable of jealousy since astrology says scorps are intense jealous (lovers or friends). With this man, i may say he's really very cool.i cant see any trace of jealousy at all.

Neiki (taurus)

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@TheLioness79
13 Years1,000+ PostsLeo

Posted by neiki
Hi everyone ! Thanks for sharing your insights/opinions.

Just to clarify, im not for revenge here. Just curious if the scorp guy im dating is capable of jealousy since astrology says scorps are intense jealous (lovers or friends). With this man, i may say he's really very cool.i cant see any trace of jealousy at all.

Neiki (taurus)

How old are you? Right here is showing a couple of things. One: you may be very young. Two: you are very insecure in yourself and in a your relationship and need a whole lot of validation.

So what if he doesn't show jealousy? What does it matter? I actually get pissy when a man shows his jealousy. Why? First, I am a dominate/proud female and you are telling me I can not handle myself. Two, I would never put our relationship in a position to make you feel jealous as I have control over my actions. So you are telling me you don't trust me. I can't control what another person says or does to me, only my response to them. Three, it shows you do not trust me and you lack trust in our relationship. It just irks me.

Stop worrying about if his jealous, not something to be concerned about.

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@Shruikan
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by Shruikan

Posted by Rabbit
Immature ones notice and get jealous.

Mature ones are only concerned with their date.

Hm... I still tend to feel jealous. Or at least protective.... I have some growing up to do in this regard.

Feeling jealous and getting/being jealous are two different things to me.

It may be semantics...but it's how I view things.

I've felt possessive and protective at times too when I've seen guys checking my wife out, but I just smile and let it go.

THEY NO CAN HAZ MRS RABBIT

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Hm... You know you're right. I guess it's two different things to feel jealous or protective or to act on it. I haven't acted on it for a long while. I'm doing better at that I guess.

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@Shruikan
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Rabbit

Posted by Shruikan

Posted by Rabbit
Immature ones notice and get jealous.

Mature ones are only concerned with their date.

Hm... I still tend to feel jealous. Or at least protective.... I have some growing up to do in this regard.

Feeling jealous and getting/being jealous are two different things to me.

It may be semantics...but it's how I view things.

I've felt possessive and protective at times too when I've seen guys checking my wife out, but I just smile and let it go.

THEY NO CAN HAZ MRS RABBIT

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Just curious? Did you ever find yourself acting out on jealous or possessiveness or getting down about it when you were younger?