Question for the Scorpio women

Do you ladies like for a guy to chase you or to be persistent in order to win you over?

I agree, if I have already displayed a mutual interest..yes pursue! We are complicated individuals sometimes & I will be the first to admit! I want to be pursued but not so aggresively in the beginning, don't show all your cards too quickly..its takes away from the excitement =)chase me but leave me always wanting more. Your displays of masculine confidence with turn me on. Pay attention to the small details in our conversations it can be of the smallest detail you can use to your advantage and gain huge brownie points..like maybe I mention my favorite ice cream & a few weeks later you show up with it (true story btw!) the little things such as these can be huge. Wow! This guy pays attention! He's hot,actively pursuing me and pays attention. Sometimes it the very little things that matter most. Pushy, aggressive and sometimes be a total turnoff,let me want you, make me want you & I will =)

She says she has a boy friend..but has flirted with me and showed interest in me from day one. Only recently I asked her out, but she claims to have a boy friend, I really don't think she does. My guess is, she's been trying to get my attention or get a response out of me..you know doing little things to get me to notice her through her gestures, I pick up on the non communication perfectly. I can tell she was a lil pissed that I never really responded to her gestures, and now I finally asked her out and she pulls this.

Games people play I tell ya, does she want me to feel like she felt many of times when played her, has the tables turned on me does she now have the ball in her corner?

Listen, if she claims to have a boy friend, then why flirt with me. I catch her always starring at me(I look up and the looks away), she doesn't think I notice but I do, I'm slick as well, the corner of my eye is watching her!!

last but not least, you know there is an attraction between us, so why are playing cat and mouse?

About the boyfriend thing?? Most scorpios I know are very loyal when in a relationship, maybe its in turmoil? Maybe she wants you to want her more? You always want what you can't have, o maybe she's an attention craving scorpio girl...which is not cool if she has a BF..would you want to be him knowing she has single guys after her due to the way she carries herself with them?...I would ignore her advances,gestures etc. It may anger her so in the event she does not have a BF she just may come clean with you out of shear frustration! Hehehe...Trix are for kids! Let her know it!

Posted by DazedScorp
She could very well have a boyfriend, but loves the attention you give her. Scorpio women flirt to gain the upper hand on you. Control. I've had scorp women flirt with me, not because they were interested, but because they wanted me to be interested in them. Even as a scorp man, I do the same thing. Even if I have a g/f, I want women to want me, so I flirt to see if they'll show that interest I'm looking for. I never have the desire to take it further, but I love feeling WANTED.

Yeah me too compliments and being looked at cuz women think that you're attractive is a good feeling.

but I never gave a clear notice up until now, I'll tell you what if she thinks I'm gon build her ego, she got another thing coming!!

Posted by missscorp
About the boyfriend thing?? Most scorpios I know are very loyal when in a relationship, maybe its in turmoil? Maybe she wants you to want her more? You always want what you can't have, o maybe she's an attention craving scorpio girl...which is not cool if she has a BF..would you want to be him knowing she has single guys after her due to the way she carries herself with them?...I would ignore her advances,gestures etc. It may anger her so in the event she does not have a BF she just may come clean with you out of shear frustration! Hehehe...Trix are for kids! Let her know it!

She doesn't come off as an attention seeker, a while back our eyes would always lock, that indicates that we must be attracted to one another..cuz the eyes don't lie, also a few times she walked passed me and pinched my arm and kept walking(I know what that means) We rarely talk to each other cuz I guess we were both shy and afraid to step to one another, I can read her like a book, she can probably read me too.

So my thing is how much longer are we going play this game, I can easily walk, but I don't want to miss what can be potentially a great thing!!


Bottom line, should I walk or go harder and be more persistent? Does she want me to leave her alone or does she want me to hang in there and take what is mine?

Posted by DazedScorp
First off, how old are you? Second, you can't read a scorp woman like a book. Maybe, if you can read ancient chinese scripts.

Old enough, and yes I can read her, what else?

Posted by Ruby01
@ OP: I think he may be right about the ancient chinese scripts bit. If you could read her like a book, you wouldn't be here asking about how to chase her, or wondering what her intentions are when she shows interest in you. You would know already. Everything.

Unless you haven't finished reading the book perhaps? Anyway, the women gave you good advice, if you are thinking of going that way.

Yeah what I meant was I read everything but that, my gut feeling says there is an interest, but I get lost on whether I should pursue or not.

Posted by exoskeleton
yes, and i think most of us do. i like when men are very persistent, a little aggressive, and confident with me. it shows they know exactly what they want and aren't afraid to go for it. there's nothing sexier.

Im trying this!......but all she want is keep her hands in my pockets.

Posted by DazedScorp
I ask how old because something seems very childish about this situation, with the whole pinching the arm and walking away bit.

That, or you really don't understand scorp women at all. If there's one thing I have learned, it's that you can't fully understand/"read" a scorp until you have made it into their inner circle.

Let me use me as an example. Most of my friends, always thought I was this outgoing, charismatic guy. A lot have asked me if I'm a leo, before they really knew me. Then they discovered the deep, emotional, brain churning power that I possess. Now, it's completely obvious to them. They can read me like a childrens book containing nothing but pictures.

My point is, you're not reading her like a book, just like ruby said. She will have a front up until you've made it into that circle.

Stop reading the book and watch the movie.

Posted by DazedScorp
I ask how old because something seems very childish about this situation, with the whole pinching the arm and walking away bit.

That, or you really don't understand scorp women at all. If there's one thing I have learned, it's that you can't fully understand/"read" a scorp until you have made it into their inner circle.

Let me use me as an example. Most of my friends, always thought I was this outgoing, charismatic guy. A lot have asked me if I'm a leo, before they really knew me. Then they discovered the deep, emotional, brain churning power that I possess. Now, it's completely obvious to them. They can read me like a childrens book containing nothing but pictures.

My point is, you're not reading her like a book, just like ruby said. She will have a front up until you've made it into that circle.

it sounds childish cuz it is, I'm playing along cuz I like the chick. Tryin to get an upper hand, but at the same time I'm tired, so I'm continue to do me.

I don't let people in my circle either, if we're cool than that's good.

Yea, we like to be chased. I think that's why I have such a weakness for libras. They're good at it. And then once they convince me to like them back, they waffle. Stupid balancing act.

Posted by QuietSt0rm
There's a thin line between being persistent and annoying. Pay attention to her feedback. If the feedback is positive, if she seems to dig you, persist further. But if she's telling you she's not interested or coming up with other excuses of why she can't see you, BELIEVE HER. lol

I hear ya, that is what I want to avoid, being a pest, that aint my style any way. I usually move on if chick acts too grown "I don't need that stress I got my wifey at home" But seriously I've walked away from some fine ones cuz I hate when chicks act like they shit don't stink or if they play games. I'm guilty as well for playing the game..but I don't want to bug her, but if I disappear then she might be disappointed in me.

Hi S Love,

In my experience if a Scorpio woman tells you anything remotely secretive then this is a good sign because she is beginning to trust you and Scorpios don't confide in many people. They tend to guard their privacy with fervour so if she's told you anything secretive about her life then you're in. Try testing the waters and ask something about her private life - don't be obnoxiously invasive rather be more inquisitive. If she responds in kind then it's a good sign if not then don't give up the ghost just yet - perhaps maybe it needs more time.

A caveat, and this is in my experience, being that you're a Virgo man don't expect to be wearing the pants in the relationship if you make it to the sunset with your Scorpio woman 🙂

Posted by capricornish
Hi S Love,

In my experience if a Scorpio woman tells you anything remotely secretive then this is a good sign because she is beginning to trust you and Scorpios don't confide in many people. They tend to guard their privacy with fervour so if she's told you anything secretive about her life then you're in. Try testing the waters and ask something about her private life - don't be obnoxiously invasive rather be more inquisitive. If she responds in kind then it's a good sign if not then don't give up the ghost just yet - perhaps maybe it needs more time.

A caveat, and this is in my experience, being that you're a Virgo man don't expect to be wearing the pants in the relationship if you make it to the sunset with your Scorpio woman 🙂

She hasn't told me anything.

Posted by woundedbird
SCORPS DONT REQUIRE IT. IF THEY WANT SOMETHING, THEY WILL GET IT. NO NEED FOR ALL THAT!

Word?!

guess she don't want me.

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Posted by S Love
Do you ladies like for a guy to chase you or to be persistent in order to win you over?

Yes, but only if I like him in the same way he likes me.

I totally agree with this statement. When a guy chases me that I don't like, it's irritating, annoying, and a complete turn-off. Now, if it is a guy that I like, am interested in, then the persistance really warms my heart. I don't necessarily want to be chased, but I do want someone who will be persistant. Chasing to me seems to be more overt. I love the subtle nuances. Intrigue me. Keep me thinking. Be spontaneous. Flirt, but do so in a way that leaves me questioning whether you were flirting with me. You'll have me eating out of your hands and then you can go for the kill. Once you have me intrigued and thinking about you all the time, when you make your move, you won't know what hit you because by that time, I'll be jumping at the bit for a chance with you.

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agree 😄

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Posted by missscorp
About the boyfriend thing?? Most scorpios I know are very loyal when in a relationship, maybe its in turmoil? Maybe she wants you to want her more? You always want what you can't have, o maybe she's an attention craving scorpio girl...which is not cool if she has a BF..would you want to be him knowing she has single guys after her due to the way she carries herself with them?...I would ignore her advances,gestures etc. It may anger her so in the event she does not have a BF she just may come clean with you out of shear frustration! Hehehe...Trix are for kids! Let her know it!

She doesn't come off as an attention seeker, a while back our eyes would always lock, that indicates that we must be attracted to one another..cuz the eyes don't lie, also a few times she walked passed me and pinched my arm and kept walking(I know what that means) We rarely talk to each other cuz I guess we were both shy and afraid to step to one another, I can read her like a book, she can probably read me too.

So my thing is how much longer are we going play this game, I can easily walk, but I don't want to miss what can be potentially a great thing!!


Bottom line, should I walk or go harder and be more persistent? Does she want me to leave her alone or does she want me to hang in there and take what is mine?

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IMO, I would say hang in there. Maybe she is just getting out of a relationship, and she might not be into her ex-boyfriend anymore. Maybe she is giving herself some time before starting to date again; and she might not want you to be affected by any "break-up" drama, that might be going on. You know?, breaking-up is a process.

Posted by S Love
Do you ladies like for a guy to chase you or to be persistent in order to win you over?

haha - this is hilarious.

She can't have sexual relations with another human unless this happens.

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Posted by missscorp
About the boyfriend thing?? Most scorpios I know are very loyal when in a relationship, maybe its in turmoil? Maybe she wants you to want her more? You always want what you can't have, o maybe she's an attention craving scorpio girl...which is not cool if she has a BF..would you want to be him knowing she has single guys after her due to the way she carries herself with them?...I would ignore her advances,gestures etc. It may anger her so in the event she does not have a BF she just may come clean with you out of shear frustration! Hehehe...Trix are for kids! Let her know it!

She doesn't come off as an attention seeker, a while back our eyes would always lock, that indicates that we must be attracted to one another..cuz the eyes don't lie, also a few times she walked passed me and pinched my arm and kept walking(I know what that means) We rarely talk to each other cuz I guess we were both shy and afraid to step to one another, I can read her like a book, she can probably read me too.

So my thing is how much longer are we going play this game, I can easily walk, but I don't want to miss what can be potentially a great thing!!


Bottom line, should I walk or go harder and be more persistent? Does she want me to leave her alone or does she want me to hang in there and take what is mine?

IMO, I would say hang in there. Maybe she is just getting out of a relationship, and she might not be into her ex-boyfriend anymore. Maybe she is giving herself some time before starting to date again; and she might not want you to be affected by any "break-up" drama, that might be going on. You know?, breaking-up is a process.

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Good cuz I still want to taste her.

Posted by Marroned
S Love, I tend to stare at people when they intrigue me in some way--sometimes because I appreciate their intelligent humor during dry meetings, sometimes because they are dressed in a way that I admire, sometimes because I am fascinated with their lazy eye, or am counting the gray hairs protruding from her chinny-chin, etc. Occasionally someone will catch me looking and mistake my inappropriate stare as an invitation.

Sometimes they mistake it as an unprovoked attempt at intimidation. It is most often neither. Scorpios are notorious getting lost in staring at someone. They mean no harm. It is rare that Scorpios stare intimately at strangers or acquaintances with perceptible intimacy.

There is a reason she shared that she is already in a relationship. Is the any chance that you are misreading her?

I know Virgos and Scorpios are similar I tend to stare, it's like picking a lock, I sometimes need that upper hand, the more I know the better, and half the time or most of the time I don't even know that I'm staring.

Posted by Marroned
Mutual chasing (kind of a sophisticated version of the Marco Polo game) is only fun when there is mutual attraction. By the time we get to that point, the ultimate (and mutually desired) outcome is already known by both parties!

I think we both like each other but we put up a shield and play silly games instead of just being direct, my bad I'll correct that and step to the occasion!!

Yes I looove being chased....