online....

maybe he's keeping his choices open? is it official? define kicking it
and nice eye

Thanks.
Nothing is official...its been a little over a month. I guess I'm being a Scorpio.
KICKIN IT:bangin /(in our case -also hanging out and not banging). Kickin it used in a sentence: I was kickin it with that chick last night

sorry, didn't read the last bit. sounds strange to me if your fillet why would he look ?

My point exactly!

And I can "fillet" with the best of them 😉

oh. never heard that phrase like that used before like that
yes yes i would be suspicious and annoyed if it's a dating website.
if he met you on the site, and is banging you from the site then why still go on site? if he's ALREADY dating someone off the site i.e. being you of course?

Alright, now I'm finding myself more annoyed.
Think i might have to cut my ties. I cant have this!

WO!!! don't listen to me lady. do what you feel is right. i just thimk he's a dick for still looking on there
i mean it's hard to tell without seeing or knowing, what you look like cuz those dating sites are dodgy for that sorts of things y'know? so for all i know mr scorpio dude could of been expecting janet jackson but instead got some fat black bird with humongous ass

but then why would he be banging you evry night?

Far from Janet Jackson, but I'm not hideous...look at that "eye"...lol. I ALMOST WANT TO SEND YOU A PIC OF BOTH OF US AND SEE WHO GOT THE BAD END OF THE STICK~~~~~!!!!!

LS - I've had the S&S combo b4 - and - yes it ended, but it was not b/c of a situation such as this...we just decided it would be better as friends - long distance. This what I have right here is FREAKING F'D up. And you're right, looks like its me that has to be the one laying it on the table... FFS!

NOTE: i suspended my account a bit ago, but when its suspended you are still able to see who is online.

Whatever a quad scorp is... i must be... unless quad is specific to the male gender, then i am not...lol

Thanks ~ some people dont get it the nickname

You'll have to show exclusivity, for him to see you in that light. Don't go with the kickin it flow. He'll see it as just that.

lol @ cyber years ... yeah it's been a minute. How are things, you're holding it down? 😉

i have... suspended my account. begrudgingly - as i am a scorpiO TOO and if hes on i so want to be on too!

I have no problem be exclusive. Thats what im after!

Posted by AA
WO!!! don't listen to me lady. do what you feel is right.

Best line I ever read on DXP.

Back to the topic at hand....I don't understand the problem. It doesn't sound like its exclusive. More importantly though, I don't think you should overlook the possibility that this guy is keeping an eye on you! I think thats a huge possibility.

But also...I find it strange that you brought this up to him and he says 'just in case I got any messages'. Thats basically telling you that he still considers himself on the market, no? I feel like this guy either believes you're not exclusive OR maybe he wanted to see if it would bother you. I don't know...just seems like he gave you a loaded answer.

~ Thanks Peeps ~

I'll secretly start another account and see if hes on...LOL....kidding (looks to the left & right) kinda, such a suspicious one i am 😉

I'll keep ya posted on what transpires....

DO ITTT! post it and i will decide in ,my humble opinion who got the ugly end of the stick lol

now this is good shit...

AA: I said 'almost' - I wouldn't post his pic on here!

Alright, so - i couldnt handle it. i asked him what he thinks that we are...

him: people (was his answer). and asked me the question back...annoyed i said humans and left it at that. the next day, he sends me a txt saying... are you mad at me b/c im scared of making a commitment. reply: nope, not mad. annoyed with the answer... we're not 12. he said he just doesnt know how to express himself yada yada hes had a lot of disappointments in love and is afraid... then some more talk about him not being ready... i said ive had disappointments too, when your there you'll know it, nothing i can do about that...something something enjoy the site, maybe shes on there. he said he doesnt think he'll meet the one on that site but that i dont care about that. and then he said, im a great girl and he hopes the best for me, i said and i you, also i said the question was not to trap you into something, but to determine if you see something here....answer well ya. ( sorry this isnt flowing but im just remembering as i go) then i mentioned about going on the site... if he is seeing other people and so on. answer no - but then he added - that he told me he has girlfriends on there that he talks too, that he doesnt have fb or msn and one of them is a girl that use to work with him, and they talk on this dating site. Ppppfffttt, never mentioned to me, but "thinks" if he says that i will say its okay. and i added to say i dont care it a slap in the face, him: not meant to be but it seems like im all whatever about him now. me: not the case. him: sooooo, we're good? me: i guess

Today not feeling so good about it.
1. cant express himself - man up !
2. afraid of making a commitment - if someones right, you take that chance
3. chatting on dating site still - with girl he knows? - prob had a crush on her when they worked together.
4. so easily brushes the whole thing off - i hope the best for you - clearly im a filler.
and so on and so..

read and advice am i correct?

This may mean nothing to you, but i really admire you asking him whats what with you two. In fact, you inspired me so i thank you for that.

I think you did the right thing.

lovelyscorp: thanks for that last bit... made me smile

shadows: thanks

i got to thinking ( went for a walk) and thought... here i am...analyzing ( like all girls do) everything that was said, all the possibilities, the what ifs... when really why am I not analyzing ME, and why all of the above would be remotely okay with me. Crazy what people do to feel that ounce of false companionship.

Been there, done that. Still doing that.😢