QUESTIONS!!!

There's this guy I work with and when I first started he tried making small talk but I completely brushed him
Off , so we never talked again for months . Until recently I added him
To fb , and since then he's been trying to make conversation , what I did notice is that he asks a lot if questions about my bf , more than the average person .
He asked his age , nationality , if I'm in love , what he looks like , what he does , if we live together ...

Now I'm
Wondering if that's just him making conversation , or if he has a hidden agenda

Could be both ask him.

You brush him off, then add him to fb ....



*** wonders what your hidden agenda is ***

Did he ask you to email all pertinent info to Zimbabwe because there's a fortune to be had? Is he stuck in another country with no way out unless you transfer ??500 to some secret account or magic address ( in the middle of a cow pat somewhere )? 😄

In other words..is he talking to you, or culling personal information you shouldn't be discussing with a stranger about your boyfriend?

yes, yes he is talking to me...

Update :
So since then little progress has been made ...
But he still asks about my relationship
Things like :
How many guys have I been with ?
Am I actually in love ?
Who loves who more ?
How's the bf ?
Are things still going steady ?
( he asked if things were going steady cuz he said he read my fb statuses and he thought something was up . But they were just stories I wrote)

Posted by capgirl75
Scenario 1: he likes you and wants to know how "taken" or "serious" you are.

Scenario 2: he's having trouble with his significant other, and wants to talk about it.

Scenario 3: both 1&2

This has been my experience with men asking me questions like that.

in regards to scenerio two, he is a massive flirt, and has especially been going between two girls, his ex and this other girl who he claims he loves.
i can see how hed want to talk about it, how can i get him to talk about it?

he keeps tellin me how he wants to be in love.

he says he loves everyone...

actually yesterday he came to my deprartment and started mesisng around with the flowers, picking off pedals syaing, she loves me, she loves me not...

i said : ohh she loves you,
and he laughed....
then i said: but u love her not...
he laughed again...
then thats when he asked who loves who more in my relationship...
i answered:
in order to have a long lasting relationship its always best that the guy loves the girl alittle bit more...

hes like, thats sooo true isnt it, its like, once you get them, it becomes too easy, and gets boring..

then he said he wants to be in love..

i told him not yet, ... and he laughed then walked away...

lol flirting back with him i see

mmhrmmmm

whatever his agenda is... he's got the ball rolling on it

he doesnt want to talk about either of his two chicks... he wants a play thing and you are in his cross hairs.

thats just my take on it