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Sagitarius vs Cancer girl over Scorpio guy? FIGHT!
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How do I show im affection? How do I talk to him when he is so intimidating? Black, penetrating eyes and a staggering 6 ft 2! He has a dark brooding nature, mysterious and very sarcastic. I think he is a true Scorpio. He fits the description of Tall Dark Handsome. He also has black hair too! His birthday is on Halloween, and I think that influences his Scorp nature.
Posted by Veganpilot
I've got my eyes on a Scorpio guy but this girl is trying to take him away! Originally, I had a crush on him, and I think the Scorpio guy shows interests back too. He stares at me a lot and looks me up and down. His friends are super nice to me and the Scorpio guy always tries to get q good view of me to look me up and down. Once when his friend blocked his view, he strained his neck and moved up and down just to look at me! He never flirts or do this to other girls, and ignore girls when they talk to him.
Recently, this Cancer girl is trying to flirt with him (I never made a move on the Scorpio guy) aggressivepy and follows him everywhere (He is a straight A student and one of the most handsomest guys in out school). I am annoyed, but what I noticed is the Scorpio never gave her a second glance. He ignored her when she tries to flirt and walks away fast when he sees her. He avoids her at all cost and sneers at her attempts, but when I talk to him, he speaks softly and looks at the ground. He gets jealous and posseissive when I talk to other guys. Who would win? I am insecure as many astrology websites claim Cancer women and Scorpio men are a match made in heaven!
Hi, young one. IF he is jealous when you talk to others it's because he likes you. It's probably awkward for him
to be forward with you. It sounds like you have a better chance with this Scorpio than the Cancer. But be prepared
if things progress and take things very slow. You and the Scorp are both on the innocent side of a relationship at
this time. If anyone's heart will be broken it will be the Scorp. And you might not know it. Never EVER lie to him
or cheat on him. Do that and you just might kiss him goodbye.
But he already knows I like him. The school is loaded with rumours and his friends told him.
By the way... Contrary to Nemesis' assumption, mind reading is a peculiar trait some, not necessarily all, Scorpios have.
Also....
Do you know this Scorp's full birthday (plus year)? He could be what they call an "old soul".
Also....
Do you know this Scorp's full birthday (plus year)? He could be what they call an "old soul".
Posted by Nemesis
he might be a scorpio, but not a mind reader - don't treat him like you??re not interested. otherwise he will turn to someone who shows affection.
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Is this Cancer girl a potential threat? She dresses provocatively and is kinda petite, while I am on the tall side and dress like a guy (Lol, dress shirt, pants and tie). She also wears LOADS of makeup while I do not wear any makeup. I am baffled that he NEVER checked her out, since she has bigger breasts and butt than me. However, that girl is not intelligent and is taki.g lower level classes while my crush and I take AP classes. I am unflirty while she is a big flirt. What to do? Lastly, I am a vegan and the Cancer girl is the opposite. I belive the Scorpio is a meateater too, but I cannot confirm that since he never ate anything in front of me. The rare occasions in which he does have lunch, he eats chips, ssandwiches or salads. Will he like the Cancer more due to my very queer diet and philosophy?
Halloween? hmmmmm.....
An October Scorpio male may not quite turn out what you are looking for.
So.... 50/50 at this point in time. I say that because your mileage may vary.
An October Scorpio male may not quite turn out what you are looking for.
So.... 50/50 at this point in time. I say that because your mileage may vary.
His birthday: 31/10/96
Mine: 01/12/96 at 7.00AM.
Mine: 01/12/96 at 7.00AM.
Posted by Veganpilot
Is this Cancer girl a potential threat? She dresses provocatively and is kinda petite, while I am on the tall side and dress like a guy (Lol, dress shirt, pants and tie). She also wears LOADS of makeup while I do not wear any makeup. I am baffled that he NEVER checked her out, since she has bigger breasts and butt than me. However, that girl is not intelligent and is taki.g lower level classes while my crush and I take AP classes. I am unflirty while she is a big flirt. What to do? Lastly, I am a vegan and the Cancer girl is the opposite. I belive the Scorpio is a meateater too, but I cannot confirm that since he never ate anything in front of me. The rare occasions in which he does have lunch, he eats chips, ssandwiches or salads. Will he like the Cancer more due to my very queer diet and philosophy?
Learn to love meat. Veggies are great but without meat, it's not easy. Thinkin' pizza.
I personally found the more boyishly dressed gals to be more attractive than the dainty dress. However, see a
tomboy dress up in the dainties and my clock could stop. But that's me.
Posted by Veganpilot
His birthday: 31/10/96
Mine: 01/12/96 at 7.00AM.
According to Numerology, you are an 11 and he is a 3.
Here is what they say about this match up.
3 with an 11
This relationship usually manifests as a mentorship with the 11 stewarding the 3 in the fine art of social climbing. Usually compatible, these two make better friends than lovers and sometimes can succeed in unusual creative or business endeavors together.
source: http://www.numerologist.com/articles/compatibility/your-compatibility-with-others/<BR>
HIM
31 October 1996
Your date of conception was on or about 8 February 1996 which was a Thursday.
You were born on a Thursday
under the astrological sign Scorpio.
Your Life path number is 3.
Your fortune cookie reads:
A firm friendship will prove the foundation on your success in life.
Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 3, 6 & 9.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 1, 2, 5 & 11.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 4, 7, 8 & 22.
YOU
1 December 1996
Your date of conception was on or about 10 March 1996 which was a Sunday.
You were born on a Sunday
under the astrological sign Sagittarius.
Your Life path number is 11.
Your fortune cookie reads:
Your talents will be recognized and suitably rewarded.
Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 2, 4, 8, 11 & 22.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 3 & 6.
You may or may not get along well with those with the Life Path number 9.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 1, 5 & 7.
Source: http://www.paulsadowski.com/BirthData.asp
31 October 1996
Your date of conception was on or about 8 February 1996 which was a Thursday.
You were born on a Thursday
under the astrological sign Scorpio.
Your Life path number is 3.
Your fortune cookie reads:
A firm friendship will prove the foundation on your success in life.
Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 3, 6 & 9.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 1, 2, 5 & 11.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 4, 7, 8 & 22.
YOU
1 December 1996
Your date of conception was on or about 10 March 1996 which was a Sunday.
You were born on a Sunday
under the astrological sign Sagittarius.
Your Life path number is 11.
Your fortune cookie reads:
Your talents will be recognized and suitably rewarded.
Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 2, 4, 8, 11 & 22.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 3 & 6.
You may or may not get along well with those with the Life Path number 9.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 1, 5 & 7.
Source: http://www.paulsadowski.com/BirthData.asp
Ok-I have to admit I had been playing games with him all along, and along with some mixed signals. This is going to be a long story, but it is all going to make sense in the end. I'll try to make a super short version and recall anything I remembered.
I first met him in my AP classes, but initially, I wasn't interested in the least and concerntrated on studying. I created a barrier between the classmates and I and faced social isolation. He did try to flirt and make conversation with me, but I would always ignore him and reject his advances. It was not until later that I had a dream about him and I was instantly infatuated! He was the top student in our school and also quite a looker too! Many girls admired him. In fact, he is the best looking guy in our classes. I would stare at him and he seemed to take a hint, but we were both a little bit shy. His friend, a Leo, would always help towards progressing our conversation and tried to set us up. Things went perfectly intil the Leo was expelled from the school. Our interactions had halted since that happened. However, when the Leo came back for some reason, the Scorpio tried jooning and chiming into our conversation. The Leo was expelled again after a few months and things started to get ugly. Due to rumours about the Scorpio stating that I was an ugly cunt on the bus, I wrote him a hate note. I apologised to him about this later, and he reluctantly and quietly said that it was ok. But he seemed really angry. After I wrote him another surprisingly hurtful note, his friends scolded me and the Scorpio had ignored me ever since.
He started showing interest last year though, by the continuous staring. Whenever I tried to talk to him, he would get really quiet with a stinge of mysteriousness. He would reply in answers in the fashion of "maybe I have?" and seemed really happy when I stared or talked to him.
He semmed to take it quite badly when I blocked him on Facebook. He would turn his head the other way and avoid me completely. When this other guy was flirting with me, he moved seats after that ( I used to sit with him), got all 'red' and refused to teach me homewrok.
NOW, I don't know if I am sending him mixed signals. Here is what happened:
I first met him in my AP classes, but initially, I wasn't interested in the least and concerntrated on studying. I created a barrier between the classmates and I and faced social isolation. He did try to flirt and make conversation with me, but I would always ignore him and reject his advances. It was not until later that I had a dream about him and I was instantly infatuated! He was the top student in our school and also quite a looker too! Many girls admired him. In fact, he is the best looking guy in our classes. I would stare at him and he seemed to take a hint, but we were both a little bit shy. His friend, a Leo, would always help towards progressing our conversation and tried to set us up. Things went perfectly intil the Leo was expelled from the school. Our interactions had halted since that happened. However, when the Leo came back for some reason, the Scorpio tried jooning and chiming into our conversation. The Leo was expelled again after a few months and things started to get ugly. Due to rumours about the Scorpio stating that I was an ugly cunt on the bus, I wrote him a hate note. I apologised to him about this later, and he reluctantly and quietly said that it was ok. But he seemed really angry. After I wrote him another surprisingly hurtful note, his friends scolded me and the Scorpio had ignored me ever since.
He started showing interest last year though, by the continuous staring. Whenever I tried to talk to him, he would get really quiet with a stinge of mysteriousness. He would reply in answers in the fashion of "maybe I have?" and seemed really happy when I stared or talked to him.
He semmed to take it quite badly when I blocked him on Facebook. He would turn his head the other way and avoid me completely. When this other guy was flirting with me, he moved seats after that ( I used to sit with him), got all 'red' and refused to teach me homewrok.
NOW, I don't know if I am sending him mixed signals. Here is what happened:
1. In class, his friend was teasing me and told me that the Scorpio said someyhing about me. I toldhis friend that I don't give a ****.
2. He opened the door for me on the way out, but I didn't even look at him.
3. At lab, the test tube was right next to him.I walked halfway and told my lab partner to get it fpr me.
4. When he walked near me, I walked away from him.
5. When I handed sheets out, he said Thank You, something he never did to other people, but I ignored him. When his BFF said Thank You, I smiled sweetly and said "You are welcome!"
6. He said thanks quietly when I handed out the sheet a second time, but I gave the sheet to his BFF first.
7. He seemed sad when I sat next to his friend, but it was for a split second.
8. I asked if his BFF was going to prom and he heard.
9. Also, I used to walk by him every morning where he'd always stare at me. Also at lunch, he'd do that too. He stands in the same spot every morning and stares at me. But today, I entered school at another entrance far away from him and avoided him completely at lunch.??
10. Aww. I messed up so bad today. The teacher was like "Who wants to go to study class?" and I raised my hand up, bbut he didn't. The teacher then asked if he was going and he aaid he was too busy to attend at that time. Since he wasn't going, at lunch I told my mom to pick me up. Strabgley, when I stood outside the class after school, he came to my study class! My teacher greeted me and asked if I was going to come in. I agreed, but lied to him as my mom was going to pick me up (I said that I needed to get something and will come back). I never went to that class and went home. Will my crush be angry? There might be a possibility he had family issues to attend to or his father was busy and cannot pick him up after that class so he needed to take the early bus home and cannot attend my class. But he did come, and that meant he has to maybe take the train and walk home? All by himself?! I think he negotiated this with his dad over the phone at lunch, or was he testing me like all Scorpios do?Man, I have to face the teacher's wrath and the Scorpio LASH tomorrow!
2. He opened the door for me on the way out, but I didn't even look at him.
3. At lab, the test tube was right next to him.I walked halfway and told my lab partner to get it fpr me.
4. When he walked near me, I walked away from him.
5. When I handed sheets out, he said Thank You, something he never did to other people, but I ignored him. When his BFF said Thank You, I smiled sweetly and said "You are welcome!"
6. He said thanks quietly when I handed out the sheet a second time, but I gave the sheet to his BFF first.
7. He seemed sad when I sat next to his friend, but it was for a split second.
8. I asked if his BFF was going to prom and he heard.
9. Also, I used to walk by him every morning where he'd always stare at me. Also at lunch, he'd do that too. He stands in the same spot every morning and stares at me. But today, I entered school at another entrance far away from him and avoided him completely at lunch.??
10. Aww. I messed up so bad today. The teacher was like "Who wants to go to study class?" and I raised my hand up, bbut he didn't. The teacher then asked if he was going and he aaid he was too busy to attend at that time. Since he wasn't going, at lunch I told my mom to pick me up. Strabgley, when I stood outside the class after school, he came to my study class! My teacher greeted me and asked if I was going to come in. I agreed, but lied to him as my mom was going to pick me up (I said that I needed to get something and will come back). I never went to that class and went home. Will my crush be angry? There might be a possibility he had family issues to attend to or his father was busy and cannot pick him up after that class so he needed to take the early bus home and cannot attend my class. But he did come, and that meant he has to maybe take the train and walk home? All by himself?! I think he negotiated this with his dad over the phone at lunch, or was he testing me like all Scorpios do?Man, I have to face the teacher's wrath and the Scorpio LASH tomorrow!
Please excuse the horrible spelling. I am on a phone with a tiny keyboard.
IF you get wrath and lash, and you know what you did was wrong, the wise thing to do is learn not to do it again.
Scorpio don't take well to playing games. I certainly don't.
Scorpio don't take well to playing games. I certainly don't.
@ http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_4Us4jW7BvMM/S9aH9ESI5oI/AAAAAAAAA2w/yv-aXV_C2gs/s400/040808_7.jpg<BR> Wow, that bitch is sure ugly. He must have been drunk to sleep with that prostitute. Alas, my poor, poor, eyes! Elizabeth was the perfect wife, and O think he was low for cheating on her, and probably for the thrill of it. It must have caused her such an embarrassment and heartbreak. Grant isn't that much better in that mug shot anyway. He seems pervish ans creepy in a way, unlike his modest and handsome self in "Prelude" as Chopin.
Posted by BikerCh1ck
@veganpilot
Do you know what is most sexy on a woman?
Her confidence and self esteem.
I don't agree with MrFireBird that you should stop being a vegan.
If you like be a vegan then be a vegan.
You shouldn't be changing who you are for a person that you fancy.
If he is the right one he will like you vegan or not!
How would you feel if a man would switch into being a vegeterian for YOu to fancy him?
Wouldn't you have found that ridiculous and him a doormat?
First of all, life is full of compromises and relationships are no exception.
Rule #1 vegans and meateaters are going to be at odds. I made that suggestion because
I could see a fight comin' on. Vegans and treehuggers, and animal lovers kinda go
hand in hand. Sooner or later the Vegan is going to try and change the meateater.
When that happens, the gloves come off and another heart's goin' down.
So... again... learn to compromise early or just forget it.
And beware of old women who tell lies.
Thanks for the information, I really appreciate you spending your time, everyone 🙂! Though, some aspects were true with what you had said, he never flirts, talks or stare at other girls. When girls try to flirt with him, he ignores them or snubs them completely. I think it is more the opposite. I have never seen him with a girl, but I am seen walking with many guys, and he gets jealous when I talk to them, and I don't even flirt. He got jealous when I as chatting up his BFF. He went kung fu on me after! Idk why many girls flirt with him, but he never responds to them.
I think I like playing games with him. I hang around other guys casually and he just releases his anger by ignoring me for a week or two, but as much as I hurt and damaged him in some way, he never got a girl or ever flirted with one.
I don't think so. He checked me out and looked me up and down (Why does he do.that?) Today, he purposely walked slower so.he could get behind and check me out again, like always. People tease us, but he doesn't react negatively to it.
He did flirt with me once by calling me a "naughty" girl with a sarcastic tone and a smirk.
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by MrFirebird
And beware of old women who tell lies.
Well that was not nice what you said MrFirebird.. was it?
🙂
Neither the vegan nor the meateater should try to change each other. That would be just immature.
And anyway... what a person puts in their mouth is his/her problem! that includes food or (for adults) anything else.
As far as it concerns the practicalities there are lots of solutions such as each person to cook for themselves 😉click to expand
Nice—? Hey, if you or anyone else appreciate being lied to, ignore my advice. It's not nice to lie to people nor
be lied to or lied about.. Liars cannot and should not be trusted. Simple as that.
But like I said, if people refuse compromise, they can kiss any meaningful relationship goodbye.
If people cannot understand that... there's no helpin' them.
It's not about being "nice", it's about facts with history to prove them.
Odds are now improving that the op has some hard lessons ahead of and some old women haven't learned theirs.
Posted by Veganpilot
How do I show im affection? How do I talk to him when he is so intimidating? Black, penetrating eyes and a staggering 6 ft 2! He has a dark brooding nature, mysterious and very sarcastic. I think he is a true Scorpio. He fits the description of Tall Dark Handsome. He also has black hair too! His birthday is on Halloween, and I think that influences his Scorp nature.
Lol... Talk to the boy.
Posted by Veganpilot
Is this Cancer girl a potential threat? She dresses provocatively and is kinda petite, while I am on the tall side and dress like a guy (Lol, dress shirt, pants and tie). She also wears LOADS of makeup while I do not wear any makeup...she has bigger breasts and butt than me... I am unflirty while she is a big flirt....Lastly, I am a vegan and the Cancer girl is the opposite.
Yet, you have his attention. I wouldn't focus on why she's a better match because clearly he doesn't agree. As some have already pointed out, if you don't speak up and demonstrate some interest, he will begin to look elsewhere. I am not suggesting you do any of the things this other young lady is doing. He seems to like you, just as you are. Continue to be you. You just need to open up some more so he can get to know you better.
Posted by Nemesis
OMG - you just reminded me of how MUCH i HATED high school. lol.
so thanks.
lulz +1
Posted by BikerCh1ck
is it for sure he is not gay?... He never flirts and gets jealous when you speak to his male friends..
And doesn't respond to any other girls flirting with him... hmm
Sometimes this is what I'm starting to think about my gem. Which seems mean but I'm wondering..
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by MrFirebirdPosted by BikerCh1ckPosted by MrFirebird
And beware of old women who tell lies.
Well that was not nice what you said MrFirebird.. was it?
🙂
Neither the vegan nor the meateater should try to change each other. That would be just immature.
And anyway... what a person puts in their mouth is his/her problem! that includes food or (for adults) anything else.
As far as it concerns the practicalities there are lots of solutions such as each person to cook for themselves 😉
Nice—? Hey, if you or anyone else appreciate being lied to, ignore my advice. It's not nice to lie to people nor
be lied to or lied about.. Liars cannot and should not be trusted. Simple as that.
But like I said, if people refuse compromise, they can kiss any meaningful relationship goodbye.
If people cannot understand that... there's no helpin' them.
It's not about being "nice", it's about facts with history to prove them.
Odds are now improving that the op has some hard lessons ahead of and some old women haven't learned theirs.
I agree with you that liars should not be trusted.
No one should lie to you that is a meaningful relationship that compromise is to change what you are.
By definition compromise is to find a middle solution:
com??pro??mise
/??k?_mpr—?m??z/
Noun
An agreement or a settlement of a dispute that is reached by each side making concessions.
Verb
Settle a dispute by mutual concession.
You are not talking about compromise you are talking about losing your personality to get the "honor" of getting in a life of a man..click to expand
^ LOL.
Sorry, kneejerk reaction. It's not about getting into the life of a man. The "compromising" is about STAYING in it!
LOL...... of course it's a two-way street!
Any woman who is determined to "be herself" is NOT looking at the BIGGER picture of the purpose of a commitment.
A lot of these women on this forum who talk about this guy or that guy are thinking in "separated souls" terms.
They DON'T have a commitment with the other person. It's jump into bed with one then jump out when things get tough.
That is NOT a TRUE R E L A T I O N S H I P wherein the two become ONE! They are playing musical chairs.
When people play these so-called relationships, FWBs, etc., unbeknownst to them, their souls become fractured
every time they change chairs. Keep playing the game and they start turning into emotional looney tunes.
Always trying to find happiness and never doing so. With time, they explore more risque behavior, just to get a
thrill to fill that void. Why? Because "damned, if they try to "appease a man" is their mentality.
FURTHERMORE.... as a Scorpio MAN, I MUST say that there is not a single woman who knows definitively what it
is to be a man, in the first place. The OP is interested knowing the odds of whether she or a Cancer can land a
Scorpio.
Just what are you women hoping to accomplish, anyway— A SERIOUS lifelong relationship—, A selfish quickie— A cheap thrill— A social status "Hey look girls, look at me! I've got a boyfriend!!"—? What—
Considering the OP IS 16 years old, I am far more inclined to recommend to her that she forget about romantic relationship
for now and focus on her studies and striving to better herself through these wonder years of raging hormones and rollercoaster emotions.
Sorry, kneejerk reaction. It's not about getting into the life of a man. The "compromising" is about STAYING in it!
LOL...... of course it's a two-way street!
Any woman who is determined to "be herself" is NOT looking at the BIGGER picture of the purpose of a commitment.
A lot of these women on this forum who talk about this guy or that guy are thinking in "separated souls" terms.
They DON'T have a commitment with the other person. It's jump into bed with one then jump out when things get tough.
That is NOT a TRUE R E L A T I O N S H I P wherein the two become ONE! They are playing musical chairs.
When people play these so-called relationships, FWBs, etc., unbeknownst to them, their souls become fractured
every time they change chairs. Keep playing the game and they start turning into emotional looney tunes.
Always trying to find happiness and never doing so. With time, they explore more risque behavior, just to get a
thrill to fill that void. Why? Because "damned, if they try to "appease a man" is their mentality.
FURTHERMORE.... as a Scorpio MAN, I MUST say that there is not a single woman who knows definitively what it
is to be a man, in the first place. The OP is interested knowing the odds of whether she or a Cancer can land a
Scorpio.
Just what are you women hoping to accomplish, anyway— A SERIOUS lifelong relationship—, A selfish quickie— A cheap thrill— A social status "Hey look girls, look at me! I've got a boyfriend!!"—? What—
Considering the OP IS 16 years old, I am far more inclined to recommend to her that she forget about romantic relationship
for now and focus on her studies and striving to better herself through these wonder years of raging hormones and rollercoaster emotions.
Posted by ellessque
I think there was compromise by her for considering even dating him....even though he's not a vegan.
I think it's ridiculous to change what she chooses to put in her body just because he has a different diet.
This is not about "tree huggers" or being "politically correct".
The generations behind us ("us" being the libra in pluto bunch) are much more responsible in how they take care of their body, their health and their spirit......they are much more empowered with educational resources on how to do so.
Suggesting she go "eat a pizza"....is irresponsible and just plain ignorant, imo.
LOL Go "Eat A Pizza!", Elle!
A perfect marriage of Meat and Veggie Dough and Cheese!
pepperoni, sausage, beef, onions, black olives, mushrooms, and mozzarella cheese.
I handed him some sheets today (classwork) and he said "Thank you!'. I am so happy! He enever said it to anyone who handed things or did favours for him (except teachers). The Cancer girl tried to interrupt us, but he glared at her!
Also, what does it mean when he looks me up and down? I hope it isn't sexual. I also hope he doesn't wank over me, that is just gross. Besides, I'd doubt he would do the dirty deed, since all he cares about is schoolwork.
Posted by Veganpilot
I handed him some sheets today (classwork) and he said "Thank you!'. I am so happy! He enever said it to anyone who handed things or did favours for him (except teachers). The Cancer girl tried to interrupt us, but he glared at her!
You should smile at him and say "you're welcome", by smiling you're giving him the green light to come talk to you.
I did, but instead, I said "No problem' then blushed. He was looking at the floor when he said it, so I cpuldn't smile at hom. Today when I stared at him, he turned around and stared back at me.
So should I befriend him first or ask him out straight away? We have been liking each other for 3 years already! I am going to take you advice seriously. Lend me your courage!!! And now that you have mentioned, he does rather act like Edward Cullen. I'll keep you updated abput my progress.
So confess, I guess? It seems like a better idea, since we have been in denial for quite a while...
Posted by Veganpilot
So confess, I guess? It seems like a better idea, since we have been in denial for quite a while...
Think about the situation. If you confess, you have the potential to gain a relationship and finally know how he really feels about you. If it doesn't turn out well, things go back to the way they are now- a bit unsure. You have absolutely nothing to lose, you're young and you should be willing to take small chances. Confidence is also key, never listen to people who ask you to change who you are. Contrary to what other people have said on this topic, love isn't always about compromise. It's about acceptance- and never will there be a happy couple unless people learn to accept each other. At times, compromises and letting go of what you believe in for the sake of appeasing someone else leads to resentments and regret- find someone that fancies you FOR what makes you different. Not someone who wants to date the mirror image of themselves 😉.
Good luck girl, have courage and confidence. He will have much more respect for you than for the cancer female, despite her desperate efforts to attract him and how scantily clad she may be- he is more intrigued by you. You maintain the advantage, the originality, and the respectability. Have faith in yourself!
Posted by Veganpilot
I did, but instead, I said "No problem' then blushed. He was looking at the floor when he said it, so I cpuldn't smile at hom. Today when I stared at him, he turned around and stared back at me.
Well, smile at him next time you're staring at each other 🙂
He either looks away real quick and blushes. Today, when I secretly stared at him, he caught me but I turned away quickly. But I also caught him staring, in which he looked away and pretended to look at the floor. Also, when I walked past, he stared longingly and intensely at me, and re-adjusted his position to stare at me (even if it meant stretching your neck)! Do you think he likes me? I think it is just an intensive crush though, even if it lasted for 3 years. I am not foolish enough to call it love. He does not love me and I him.
Hmm, I wish I could do that, but our classmates don't really get along and they are different. I doubt the whole class would want to go for coffee. It is usually a group of friends. However, we do not have any mutual friends. His friends are really clingy and are almost aleays together. when I ask information about him, they don't tell me anything and said that guys are really mysterious. They are a bunch of silly and immature idiots. They also call me *My name *his last name* and said we will give birth to little *my name* *his last name*s'.
Posted by BikerCh1ckPosted by MrFirebird
I MUST say that there is not a single woman who knows definitively what it
is to be a man,
Let me bring the tissues love... I won't be long. Just a minute. Try to keep yourself together hey?
Posted by MrFirebird
Just what are you women hoping to accomplish, anyway— A SERIOUS lifelong relationship—, A selfish quickie— A cheap thrill— A social status "Hey look girls, look at me! I've got a boyfriend!!"—? What—
A man what is trying to accomplish anyway? To be with a live dummy? A selfish power game? A cheap mindless servant? Or the social status " Hey look at me I can control a woman so I have some value? What?
Posted by MrFirebird
Considering the OP IS 16 years old, I am far more inclined to recommend to her that she forget about romantic relationship
for now and focus on her studies and striving to better herself through these wonder years of raging hormones and rollercoaster emotions.
blah blah blah...click to expand
Bite me!
I would just say watch it... most women don't follow behind a man unless he is giving some type of interest or confirmation that he is too interested. I know what you see and say he does but this is high school too, you never what he has told her or if he had anything to do with her before. As far as compatibility, it also depends highly on the moon signs, and venus. Cancer and Scorpio gel and usually work well without as much effort as other signs being in the water sign category we just get each other, but even with that it isn't always enough. Scorpio can be a very demanding,challenging sign to deal with and keep in a relationship. I wouldn't focus too hard on it, if anything just make sure he doesn't take you off course from your school work and goals. Get in a situation and have a conversation with him, although I usually say let the man do the courting and pursue you, you shouldn't have to but maybe just confirm your feelings a little more for him to take the hint and go forward with you... if he still doesn't he might not be the right one.
Oh god. Bad response and possibly rejection?
Here is what happened. Today when I was dropped off at at school, my crush would always sit in his usual spot and stare at me when I pass. However, today, he and his friends stood where I had walked past directly! If this is confusing, here is the image or map:
http://i1182.photobucket.com/albums/x445/veganpilot/2013-04-12162615_zps872fce56.jpg<BR> The blue path is where I usually walked. The pink seat is where they usually sat and the green seatseats are where they sat today. The purple path is where I walked after I saw them.
Anyway, when I saw them sitting around there (the path is very narrow) and only him standing up, I diverted my usual path and walked into another direction. He looked at me when I did that. I did not walk past there because it was kinf of embarrassing and I would walk so close to him that we would touch! His friends are immature idiots too. After that, in a study session where we could do any piece of work, he took out the exact assignment I had on my table and started doing it. Then, he friends 'mysteriously' left and gave us some alone time. I had the guts to speak to him and this was how he went:
Me: Had you finished your assignment?
Him: Nope *Refuses to make eye contact and talks softly. He usually make eye contact and talks confidently with other girls and guys*
*When girls talk to him, he usually ignores them or reply "I don't know."
Me: How did your school photos go? Mine were horrible! *smiles*
Him: *nods*
Me: Do you read Anthony Horowitz?
Him: I don't know who he is *Though I know we both took books on the same shelf before. This could mean that: he was not paying attention to the author, read another book from that shelf and not Horowitz or lied*
My teacher told me he was acting kinda rude. Was he or was he shy? Does he seem uninterested kr hurt from this morning that I avoided him?
Here is what happened. Today when I was dropped off at at school, my crush would always sit in his usual spot and stare at me when I pass. However, today, he and his friends stood where I had walked past directly! If this is confusing, here is the image or map:
http://i1182.photobucket.com/albums/x445/veganpilot/2013-04-12162615_zps872fce56.jpg<BR> The blue path is where I usually walked. The pink seat is where they usually sat and the green seatseats are where they sat today. The purple path is where I walked after I saw them.
Anyway, when I saw them sitting around there (the path is very narrow) and only him standing up, I diverted my usual path and walked into another direction. He looked at me when I did that. I did not walk past there because it was kinf of embarrassing and I would walk so close to him that we would touch! His friends are immature idiots too. After that, in a study session where we could do any piece of work, he took out the exact assignment I had on my table and started doing it. Then, he friends 'mysteriously' left and gave us some alone time. I had the guts to speak to him and this was how he went:
Me: Had you finished your assignment?
Him: Nope *Refuses to make eye contact and talks softly. He usually make eye contact and talks confidently with other girls and guys*
*When girls talk to him, he usually ignores them or reply "I don't know."
Me: How did your school photos go? Mine were horrible! *smiles*
Him: *nods*
Me: Do you read Anthony Horowitz?
Him: I don't know who he is *Though I know we both took books on the same shelf before. This could mean that: he was not paying attention to the author, read another book from that shelf and not Horowitz or lied*
My teacher told me he was acting kinda rude. Was he or was he shy? Does he seem uninterested kr hurt from this morning that I avoided him?
Sorry, the image doesn't work. Try this one: 
Posted by Veganpilot
Oh god. Bad response and possibly rejection?
Here is what happened. Today when I was dropped off at at school, my crush would always sit in his usual spot and stare at me when I pass. However, today, he and his friends stood where I had walked past directly! If this is confusing, here is the image or map:
http://i1182.photobucket.com/albums/x445/veganpilot/2013-04-12162615_zps872fce56.jpg<BR> The blue path is where I usually walked. The pink seat is where they usually sat and the green seatseats are where they sat today. The purple path is where I walked after I saw them.
Anyway, when I saw them sitting around there (the path is very narrow) and only him standing up, I diverted my usual path and walked into another direction. He looked at me when I did that. I did not walk past there because it was kinf of embarrassing and I would walk so close to him that we would touch! His friends are immature idiots too. After that, in a study session where we could do any piece of work, he took out the exact assignment I had on my table and started doing it. Then, he friends 'mysteriously' left and gave us some alone time. I had the guts to speak to him and this was how he went:
Me: Had you finished your assignment?
Him: Nope *Refuses to make eye contact and talks softly. He usually make eye contact and talks confidently with other girls and guys*
*When girls talk to him, he usually ignores them or reply "I don't know."
Me: How did your school photos go? Mine were horrible! *smiles*
Him: *nods*
Me: Do you read Anthony Horowitz?
Him: I don't know who he is *Though I know we both took books on the same shelf before. This could mean that: he was not paying attention to the author, read another book from that shelf and not Horowitz or lied*
My teacher told me he was acting kinda rude. Was he or was he shy? Does he seem uninterested kr hurt from this morning that I avoided him?
Who knows what's going on with him but from what I've read, Scorpios hate to be ignored so STOP ignoring/avoiding him if you want this to go somewhere! Make an effort or you're going to regret it, if nothing comes of it at least you'll know that you tried.
Well, I heard that Cancers are loyal and defensive towards their own signs...
it isn't surprising, since if I saw a post like this, I would go for the Saggie!
So, let's be serious here. Please help me out! Why was he lost for words and refuses to make ey contact with me?
it isn't surprising, since if I saw a post like this, I would go for the Saggie!
So, let's be serious here. Please help me out! Why was he lost for words and refuses to make ey contact with me?
Posted by Veganpilot
Well, I heard that Cancers are loyal and defensive towards their own signs...
it isn't surprising, since if I saw a post like this, I would go for the Saggie!
So, let's be serious here. Please help me out! Why was he lost for words and refuses to make ey contact with me?
Because you ignored him/avoided him, you're being "punished", he'll get over it eventually though.
I was just adding another perspective, to look at it from. I really never seen a female chase after a guy without getting any type of indication from him or confirmation that he's into her, or interested.
I think he's already dealing with Cancer in some way, or just not that interested. Every other Scorpio I've dealt with, and seen they usually aren't shy about approaching and going for the woman they want. Yeah they have enough choices to roam and do what they want, but especially a woman who is resisting or showing resistance is a challenge so I would think by now he would've made that effort unless he's got something else going on he is doing some flirting.
I think he's already dealing with Cancer in some way, or just not that interested. Every other Scorpio I've dealt with, and seen they usually aren't shy about approaching and going for the woman they want. Yeah they have enough choices to roam and do what they want, but especially a woman who is resisting or showing resistance is a challenge so I would think by now he would've made that effort unless he's got something else going on he is doing some flirting.
Just ask the boy if he wants to hang out after school.
Maybe get a vegan burger and fries.
Don't worry about the Cancer girl, best to learn now that when it comes to dating there is competition.
Bring your A game.
And put school first ALWAYS!
If you have to study and he asks you out, tell him you can't because you have to study, but can do it another time.
Then agree on a time and place.
Have fun and do good in school.
Maybe get a vegan burger and fries.
Don't worry about the Cancer girl, best to learn now that when it comes to dating there is competition.
Bring your A game.
And put school first ALWAYS!
If you have to study and he asks you out, tell him you can't because you have to study, but can do it another time.
Then agree on a time and place.
Have fun and do good in school.
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