Sagitarius vs Cancer girl over Scorpio guy? FIGHT! (Page 2)

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Well, thanks for giving me lectures that I should concentrate on my studies, as education is a valuable resource in the future towards getting a decent pathway ib life. But just in case this helps, I am currently doing AP maths, physics, English and chemistry in hopes of pursuing an aviation career. I am currently not failing these classes. Also, I do not wish to abandon my studies and elope with him! I wish to study with him, since I think he is the potential dux of the school and he is an excellent study partner. I am just confused about his mixed aignals, and why he would not make any eye contact when talking to me, but answers all my questions without saying "I don't know." or ignoring me.
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He did glance back once when talking, but that was pretty much it. He was talking softly with me though. When other girls talk to him, he ignores them or usually answers "I don't know with eye contact. I catch him checking me out a lot, and even a bit of borderline stalking. I don't know if he was nervous or not. However, I think he wanted to talk to me, since he brought out the same assignment I had on my desk in study session when he could have brought out science, English or computer science. I think I should talk to him more to break the ice. He makes eye contact with everyone but me. He is quite polite to me though, and says thank you to only me when teachers tell me to hand out things while when the others hand it to him, he ignores them, even the teachers.
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Posted by Nemesis
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Chill Nem, you are over reacting.
No doubt she is intelligent and thoughtful.
No one said she was near dropping out, just reminding her of what is important.

And she will soon learn that a girl with a passion is the most desirable.
Remember Cancers are the moms of the zodiac, so expect concern for her overall well being.



i??d use CAPS if i were overreacting. see Clueless Cancer.

everybody keeps on repeating themeselves - she has her parents for that "school first thing" preaching you know?

she knows this. she is a clever girl 🙂

moms of the zodiac....interesting...


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I'm not concerned with her parents clearly she isn't ether, she came to an astrology forum for help.
You ask be prepared for answers you didn't expect.
Yes she is clever, clever enough to not need you as an ebodyguard.

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I think there was compromise by her for considering even dating him....even though he's not a vegan.

I think it's ridiculous to change what she chooses to put in her body just because he has a different diet.

This is not about "tree huggers" or being "politically correct".

LOL Go "Eat A Pizza!", Elle!

A perfect marriage of Meat and Veggie Dough and Cheese!
pepperoni, sausage, beef, onions, black olives, mushrooms, and mozzarella cheese.
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By the way, I found my crush on Facebook today! I can't believe after deleting his Facebook for a year, that he made another accpunt! I messaged him and added him, but why did he not reply anything. I sent him this:
Hi, James! Good luck with the EPW on Tuesday??""In case you don't know who I am, well, I don't really blame you. I'm Crystal, but my Facebook name shows me in Korean characters of my traditional name Soo Jung Seong.

It says 'seen' immediately after I've sent it, but he didn't reply anything. I also added him, in which he did not respond to my request, but he did have about 8 real life friends he had on Facebook that were mutual with me. Why isn't he adding me? He isn't a social guy and doesn'y go on the computer much, so why does he have Facebook? I guess that it is for much sinister reasons. Does he want his friend to transfer my photos to him as we are mutual friends? Or transfer information about me that is personal? What I think is, that he is seripus towards having a relationship and he wants to know more about me without having to ask.I have everything there, including friends and family photos, interests, birthdays and where I even live! Please help, why isn't he adding me and could he be Facebook stalking me?
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Now I know the true meaning of suffocation. He wants to check out what sort of person I am and if he could trust mw completely. I have betrayed him many times, and I wouldn't be surprised that I need to slowly regain his trust. I know he likes ne definately, by glancing back at me when talking and his nervousness. I heard somewhere that Scorpios are like x-ray machines, and are very picky when choosing friends, and a heck of a lot pickier when choosing a potetntial mate. I have a vibe this guy will check all my voice calls, Facebook and emails when we are in a relationship. Now, I am not even his friend and he tells his friends to watch over my Facebook and gain lots of information about me. I am going to have a field of a time.
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Yes, I know stranger dangers! I know I have put up my school map and ny own photo, but again, my school name, country and most of my name remains anonymous. My school is a gigantic place, and that is only a tiny section. Besides, that map isn't accurate anyway. Many schools may have that design all over the world too. Some Dxp users post genuine photos on here, but they are still safe, right?

Thanks for caring, and I really appreciate your concern, but, can you guys please give me opinions and not stray off topic? I really want to know why he did that on Facebook.
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Posted by Veganpilot

I think I like playing games with him. I hang around other guys casually and he just releases his anger by ignoring me for a week or two .....







:::: raises eyebrows ::::


I see, so you come in here acting naive and innocent, when in reality, you're getting off on fucking with his emotions. So, it's actually you being the dick.


out .... come back when you get out of kindergarten, and actually want to be an adult
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Posted by Veganpilot
By the way, I found my crush on Facebook today! I can't believe after deleting his Facebook for a year, that he made another accpunt! I messaged him and added him, but why did he not reply anything. I sent him this:
Hi, James! Good luck with the EPW on Tuesday??""In case you don't know who I am, well, I don't really blame you. I'm Crystal, but my Facebook name shows me in Korean characters of my traditional name Soo Jung Seong.

It says 'seen' immediately after I've sent it, but he didn't reply anything. I also added him, in which he did not respond to my request, but he did have about 8 real life friends he had on Facebook that were mutual with me. Why isn't he adding me? He isn't a social guy and doesn'y go on the computer much, so why does he have Facebook? I guess that it is for much sinister reasons. Does he want his friend to transfer my photos to him as we are mutual friends? Or transfer information about me that is personal? What I think is, that he is seripus towards having a relationship and he wants to know more about me without having to ask.I have everything there, including friends and family photos, interests, birthdays and where I even live! Please help, why isn't he adding me and could he be Facebook stalking me?



Ahah I knew it! Wouldn't have guessed Korean tho.

Well no wonder, if he's of Asian decent he's going to be shy especially if he has been taught the old school way.
Enjoy the culture, but dang it can get confusing
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Posted by Veganpilot
Yes, I know stranger dangers! I know I have put up my school map and ny own photo, but again, my school name, country and most of my name remains anonymous. My school is a gigantic place, and that is only a tiny section. Besides, that map isn't accurate anyway. Many schools may have that design all over the world too. Some Dxp users post genuine photos on here, but they are still safe, right?

Thanks for caring, and I really appreciate your concern, but, can you guys please give me opinions and not stray off topic? I really want to know why he did that on Facebook.



Honestly your country is not what you need to hide. Your picture and school map is something far too personal and I would be weary of putting that out in public. Just be careful. There are some creeps on this site.
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Posted by Veganpilot

.... you guys please give me opinions and not stray off topic? I really want to know why he did that on Facebook.








I am on topic.

He fucks with your head because you fuck with his. You come in here acting like you're naive and innocent, when in reality, you know exactly what you are doing because you are stating what you are doing, and you know so well what that is .. you even admit to enjoying playing him.

He's a Scorpio, he's going to fuck with you until the cows come home ... and when they do, you will still probably be acting high school because 'girls' like you (who knowingly play with mens feelings) never really get a real man.

Other people in here might be fooled by you .... but, by your admission in enjoying playing his head, was the writing on the wall.

You're a fucking cunt
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Well, folks. I misspelt that on purpose! Try spelling it correctly with the title, and you would find that the characters would not all fit onto the line of the title! That should give us more space to input characters. Haha, looks like you're the one who failed! Well done, dear grammar nazi, for truly having better grammar than a 16 year old Korean girl who's native language isn't English and has only being learning it for 4 years after migrating from Seoul!
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Posted by Veganpilot
*sigh* I hate getting off topic. What should I do about him? Why should I let the Cancer girl have him when he isn't interested in her? Why do you think I'll break his heart, I haven't? Does anyone have any legitimate reasons why?



Looked to me like everyone was for the most part staying on topic- perhaps they weren't giving you the answers that you wanted to hear exactly but nonetheless you must consider all viewpoints.

Several people have already told you what must be done, your question has been answered numerous times in fact. No more games, no confusion- confront him, talk to him, be real. That's the only way to get the ball rolling and actually have something substantial happen. How can you possibly know for sure that he isn't interested in this cancer girl? By his body language? The answer is that you merely do not know. The only difference at this point is that she's being straight forward and you are not.

The reason why folks are stating that probability points to you breaking his heart- is because mind games are being played on both of your parts already and neither of you have even made any moves or had a concrete conversation. Frankly, until you take action in expressing your wants and creating movement to a stagnant situation- there is no need to even discuss the topic. I understand- being young and not exactly experienced when it comes to love can make situations like this perplexing, and I think you're very intelligent. Bright enough to know when to cut the trepidation and become dauntless.
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Posted by Veganpilot
*sigh* I hate getting off topic. What should I do about him? Why should I let the Cancer girl have him when he isn't interested in her? Why do you think I'll break his heart, I haven't? Does anyone have any legitimate reasons why?



Vegan, I'm missing the point of your thread now. You posted the OP days ago and got pretty decent replies in regards to what you could do: be yourself and let that shine and if it's not enough for him tell him to kick rocks.

You continue to play these weird games, yet you're confused as to why he isn't more direct with you. You're trying to read into all these things he's doing. Good luck with that. I'm a Scorp and I can't even figure out what/why male Scorps do what they do half the time--unless (here's the magic)-- I ask them.

In all the time you've spent here I'm surprised he hasn't moved on already. Keep playing games and he will. You seemed to be more obsessed with this Cancer chick then he is--what's wrong with this picture? As for the legitimate reasons people think you may break his heart, just read over all your post.

If you want the man, tell him!
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Thanks guys, I'll follow your advice and talk to him more. But, I also have to concentrate on my studies. I have got less than 40% on my maths test today, and I think it is a concequence for being on cloud 9 for too long. I used to be the top 6 students in my school, but as I got more obssessed with him, my marks diminished greatly. Thanks to all the folks who told me to study, as education is a treasure. I apologise for acting all childish in this forum. I have to study more, and concentrate. I just want to know the answer and get over this guy, so I will finally be fully dedicated to studying. Wow. I finally realise this when I became the bottom last of my maths class 😭 I wish I could become the intelligent person I once was. I don't need this guy's affection. I just gladly want to trade my marks back. I need to get over him nowvor at least ask him if he feels the same way, it is just that I am unconfident to how he reacts. I do not wish to hug or kiss him, I just want a loyal friend and a study partner. In real life, I have absolutely no genuine friends, and I really want to be his friend. He has a decnt attitude, a loyal person, extremely intelligent and last and leastly, very attractive. He is half asian, by the way.

So, do you folks really think that I may have broken his heart? Excuse me if I am wrong, but aren't Scorpios less susceptible to heart breaks? Most of the time, my scorpio crush shows no emotion whatsoever, so I don't really know if I broke his heart or not. I am wrong, and stupid. I really want to be a better and nice person than a cold, emotionless loner by choice. I really want to heal his heart and comfort him, and make him free from the angst caused by the selfish and futile actions, but how can I do that? Please help, fellows. How can I comfort him and heal his heart (he used to be the top student in sxhool, but now dropped to 6 or 7, but I am worse. 20 or worse now, I believe 😭
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You have a crush on a cute boy from afar. Not worth fighting over.

You shouldn't even "fight" women even over men you love, over a guy you actually had oh I don't know HAD A CONVERSATION WITH, because its not the girl/woman's fault, she may be very nice.

It's misplaced anger to attempt to fight or compete with another woman in a way that makes it about her.

Cancers and Scorps may be a better match, but who knows about moon signs. I mean I am a Gemini but my moon is Cappy and my rising is Scorp and it gives me a completely different energy, one of my bff's in high school said I seemed more like a Scorpio because I'm so intense and I've always had a sharp edge to me and a weird sense of humor due to Cap moon.

So even though you're a Sag, what is your moon and rising? I'm surprised a Sag girl would be so shy, unless you have other major placements that may be more compatible with his.

My boyfriend in high school was an Aries, but I'd never ever date him now. He's an okay person, but I've changed so much mentally since high school I wouldn't go anywhere near dating someone even remotely resembling him now that I'm an adult, I was mostly infatuated with him, you know, like most high schoolers are.

There was a Scorp guy I knew in high school who got TONS of attention in high school. He liked me at one point precisely because I *did not* fall all over myself to get to him, but I left him cold, I wasn't interested in his games, I am VERY intuitive, and I knew he was no good; we made out one night when I was about 18 at a party, but I was done after that...after high school he dated one of my bff's and got her pregnant and cheated on her and dumped her. He also tried to feel me up one night while they were living together. I knew he was no good. I felt bad for my friend.
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Posted by Veganpilot
Thanks guys, I'll follow your advice and talk to him more. But, I also have to concentrate on my studies. I have got less than 40% on my maths test today, and I think it is a concequence for being on cloud 9 for too long. I used to be the top 6 students in my school, but as I got more obssessed with him, my marks diminished greatly. Thanks to all the folks who told me to study, as education is a treasure. I apologise for acting all childish in this forum. I have to study more, and concentrate. I just want to know the answer and get over this guy, so I will finally be fully dedicated to studying. Wow. I finally realise this when I became the bottom last of my maths class 😭 I wish I could become the intelligent person I once was. I don't need this guy's affection. I just gladly want to trade my marks back. I need to get over him nowvor at least ask him if he feels the same way, it is just that I am unconfident to how he reacts. I do not wish to hug or kiss him, I just want a loyal friend and a study partner. In real life, I have absolutely no genuine friends, and I really want to be his friend. He has a decnt attitude, a loyal person, extremely intelligent and last and leastly, very attractive. He is half asian, by the way.

So, do you folks really think that I may have broken his heart? Excuse me if I am wrong, but aren't Scorpios less susceptible to heart breaks? Most of the time, my scorpio crush shows no emotion whatsoever, so I don't really know if I broke his heart or not. I am wrong, and stupid. I really want to be a better and nice person than a cold, emotionless loner by choice. I really want to heal his heart and comfort him, and make him free from the angst caused by the selfish and futile actions, but how can I do that? Please help, fellows. How can I comfort him and heal his heart (he used to be the top student in sxhool, but now dropped to 6 or 7, but I am worse. 20 or worse now, I believe 😭



Just talk to him and be his friend.

Not that big of a deal.
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In real life, I have absolutely no genuine friends, and I really want to be his friend.








That's likely due to the fact that once you have a feeling (such as this guy) ... you cling to it like a fucking leech.

Nobody wants a friend who doesn't have the mental and emotional fortitude to know where their place is ... everyone is probably afraid that if they befriended you, then you begin a thread like this one about them for purposes of being insufferably needy.

If you truly are a Sag .... then you're a throw back.
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In fact, no. I have quite a hard exterior, and gathered from my classmates and ex friends, they all thought of me as an insensitive, aloof and emotionless person. My family members see me as aloof as well, qnd some might diagnose me with the condition 'schizoid' as well. I just enjoy my own company and like being qlone most of the time. I choose my own friends, and they were the ones that came up to me in the first place. I never came up to a person, not the other way around. I am not desperate for friendship, and already have the love my dear parents have given me, and they respect my aloofness, P-angel. They problem with you is, that you assume. Do you even know me?

Anyway, I thank everyone for helping me through this situation, especially MeowScorp. I really appreciate the fact there may be really helpful and nice people online, helping and dishing out time to help others in need. I wish there were more people around like you guys. However, I am not bumping this thread. I am updating to say that I have been rejected. Yes, REJECTED, and now I am finally free from this plaguing issues that prevebts me from studying and becoming the excellent student I once was. You are right, I need to pursue for my future and not simply for love. That is being selfish towards myself and many others that love me. I am now full on studying, and haven't regretted for confessing and being rejected. Many good things come from rejection and I must learn to accept it. I am 16 and still youbg. I have plenty of time to.find the one, but not at the moment. The one for me now is studying. Thanks again for your help.

However, if you are curious to how it went:
I got back an F on my maths test and I was miserable. That somehow gave me courage to confess so I can finally get over it and study again to prevent myself distraction for studying. I have told my friend that I needed to confess to him, and all of a sudden, we saw him walking past calmly and I think he somehow eavesdropped or heard us. At lunch, when I tried asking his friends where he was, they all smiled and stared at me, telling he was at the physics teacher's office (the session we had next after lunch. That was the teacher who told us not to fall in love this year clearly or we may underachieve). I did not go and after lunch when we had physics, I saw thag he moved away from his original seating position further away from me (next to his friend) and stayed there for the whole session. I believe that I was...
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In fact, no. I have quite a hard exterior, and gathered from my classmates and ex friends, they all thought of me as an insensitive, aloof and emotionless person. My family members see me as aloof as well, qnd some might diagnose me with the condition 'schizoid' as well. I just enjoy my own company and like being qlone most of the time. I choose my own friends, and they were the ones that came up to me in the first place. I never came up to a person, not the other way around. I am not desperate for friendship, and already have the love my dear parents have given me, and they respect my aloofness, P-angel. They problem with you is, that you assume. Do you even know me?

Anyway, I thank everyone for helping me through this situation, especially MeowScorp. I really appreciate the fact there may be really helpful and nice people online, helping and dishing out time to help others in need. I wish there were more people around like you guys. However, I am not bumping this thread. I am updating to say that I have been rejected. Yes, REJECTED, and now I am finally free from this plaguing issues that prevebts me from studying and becoming the excellent student I once was. You are right, I need to pursue for my future and not simply for love. That is being selfish towards myself and many others that love me. I am now full on studying, and haven't regretted for confessing and being rejected. Many good things come from rejection and I must learn to accept it. I am 16 and still youbg. I have plenty of time to.find the one, but not at the moment. The one for me now is studying. Thanks again for your help.

However, if you are curious to how it went:
I got back an F on my maths test and I was miserable. That somehow gave me courage to confess so I can finally get over it and study again to prevent myself distraction for studying. I have told my friend that I needed to confess to him, and all of a sudden, we saw him walking past calmly and I think he somehow eavesdropped or heard us. At lunch, when I tried asking his friends where he was, they all smiled and stared at me, telling he was at the physics teacher's office (the session we had next after lunch. That was the teacher who told us not to fall in love this year clearly or we may underachieve). I did not go and after lunch when we had physics, I saw thag he moved away from his original seating position further away from me (next to his friend) and stayed there for the whole session. I believe that I was...
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Actually, what happened last time was he refused to add or reject me and reply to my messagr. When I blocked him out of boredom, I found out he completely deleted his account. St school, he acted completely cold towards me and turned his head the other way. This time, he did practically the same. I wish I could just be friends with him. He seems like an honest and loyal person and after all, I just wanted a study partner.

There is absolutely no hope for him and I. I ship all my money and credit card number on it.