scorp&cap

hi. i'm wondering whether anyone can tell me...
if a scorpio male likes you, will they let you know? i have the strangest feeling this guy likes me and yet sometimes he behaves as though i'm not even there... avoids one on one conversations etc. and then, before departing, tells me when he'll be around next.. is this usual behaviour? being rather cautious myself, i'm not sure what to think... but i like him VERY much... funny, when he barely notices me until i'm about to leave (or does he just not want me to give up.. to boost his ego..) anyway he's not giving me much to go on, that's for sure...!
thank anyone and everyone!!

Hi there...
Similar situation with me! They are a confusing lot to be sure! I think they test thier partner for any weakness before they really indulge!! 🙂 I know thats a strnge way of putting it! 🙂 What i mean is they get turned on if you appear to be "unatainable" ....."very far from thier reach"! They are ideally happy with an "ice maiden" and boy do they have patience or what!!! I thought caps were the most patient and cautious when it comes to relationships.....but guess what these men can outsmart us in no time! 🙂
So what i suggest is......as much as you like him ...dont demonstrate your love for him! Let him come to you ...let him make the first moves....act like you dont notice him when hes around. Give him a bit of his own treatment!! Im sure hell come around if he really likes you!
Heres wishing you Loads and loads of luck and ofcourse truck loads more of patience with this man!
Enjoy urself and relax.....youll soon enjoy the chase!
🙂

Hi, I am a Scorpio male here. The last Cap poster is right. I agree with what you said 204. To add onto that, I think that you have always got to be sincere. You cannot ever be superficial around a Scorpio or even let us think you are superficial.

However, Capricorns are usually sincere people, so that shouldn't be a problem!


It sounds like you have real feelings for the guy. The problem with both Scorpions and Capricorns is that we both have difficulty sharing our feelings with others because of that cautious nature we share. If he has ever given you a hug before he left or even given you a smile that made you melt, then I pretty much guarantee you that he most likely shares the same feelings for you as you do for him.

I don't want to tell you what to do. I think you know that you just have to be yourself. BUT IF YOU HAVE REAL FEELINGS FOR HIM, and you aren't ready to tell him that yet, just let him know that you do really like being with him some way. Good luck I think you could be well on your way to a wonderful relationship with your Scorpio guy. =)


Ok and here is how compatible you are:

CAPRICORN AND SCORPIO

Scorpio's powerful sensuality kindles Capricorn's slumbering passions. Scorpio is the more imaginative lover, but Capricorn's stamina is a delightful match. Scorpio's possessiveness spells security to Capricorn. These two work well as a team-Capricorn is highly organized and Scorpio has native shrewdness. Both prize discipline and accomplishment. Each is strong willed and sometimes Scorpio's renowned temper comes up against Capricorn's stubbornness. Their battles will be royal, but so will their makings-up.

By the way, I usually avoid people I like if I am not sure they feel the same way about me for fear of rejection.


His behavior that you have described actually sounds like he likes you to me. I really believe though that it's time you find out. You have got to somehow tell him that you have feelings for him and see how he reacts. Go for it!!! =D

hey, thanks alot everyone... especially you D.. such a thoughtful and sensitive answer... i guess i'll just have to see how it goes... it's been going on for alongwhile now.. but i'm in no hurry, aand i like him alot. but between the two of us i'm afraid it might take years, at this pace!!!lol!!
oh! we sensitive creatures eh?
lots of love,
me

p.s.
i too avoid people i like, for the same reason,( what's with us?? lol!!)
and i am very sincere!

pps...
i did tell him how i felt once but i think i may have done it badly...
and nothing was said... i haven't heard from him since!!

Hey well you are a thoughtful person to try to be so considerate just to please him. That Scorp guy is really lucky to have you!!!

You say you are in no hurry to rush things. I don't blame you. You probably feel comfortable with the way things are going right now?!!! But if you want more or if you're worried that things are going to become stagnant with the two of you, then something has got to be done to keep the pace moving...I'm not talking about buying cutesy gifts for him either...(that's what our zodiak opposite Taurus likes)..

LOL I just don't want you to feel like you're not getting anywhere with him because I know what that feeling is like and it's very frustrating! Be yourself, and lay your cards out on the table. Tell him how you feel just like you told me. I am strongly encouraging you to talk to him about your feelings and find out about his.

It's a big step I know! But you deserve to know where you stand with him because you do not want to be mislead or lead along. He needs to open up to you, but it sounds like you have got to take this big step!!!!

Good luck, like I said I think for you to show so much concern for him that you would ask for advice on a message board, shows how much you care for him. I know you don't want to ruin things, but you honestly won't. You will at least know how he feels about you or get some idea.

in retrospect... i'm a little embaressed that i did, but glad all the same..
thanks

Well! Don't leave me hanging! Fill me in what happened after you told him?

matbe it was all in my imagination after all... wishful thinking..
when i look back, i realise that he has never really initiated any contact.. and has probably only responded out of politeness.. i guess we all have to wake up to reality at sometime.. i'm feeling very sad but what can i do?

I am sorry to hear that things did not work out with you and him. Do not give up hope though, for there are better fish in the sea!