Scorp Venus combative...

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EVERYTIME I tell my scorp venus guy something sweet like "I've missed you" or just something that validates my feelings for him his respond is always the same. "No you didn't" or "no you don't". It's frustrating. WHY does he do this to me?!?!




Actions speak louder than words. - examine your actions and you may find the answer to your WHYs.
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Posted by MrFirebird
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EVERYTIME I tell my scorp venus guy something sweet like "I've missed you" or just something that validates my feelings for him his respond is always the same. "No you didn't" or "no you don't". It's frustrating. WHY does he do this to me?!?!




Actions speak louder than words. - examine your actions and you may find the answer to your WHYs.
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I'm a leo venus so I express through physical affection & grand gestures. I cook for him weekly & I like to be around him. I'm also a leo sun. He is a libra sun, so he requires a lot of space, which I try to give him. How else can I show him when he needs so much alone time? Idk what else to do.
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EVERYTIME I tell my scorp venus guy something sweet like "I've missed you" or just something that validates my feelings for him his respond is always the same. "No you didn't" or "no you don't". It's frustrating. WHY does he do this to me?!?!




Actions speak louder than words. - examine your actions and you may find the answer to your WHYs.
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Yes to this.

I have this placement.

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EVERYTIME I tell my scorp venus guy something sweet like "I've missed you" or just something that validates my feelings for him his respond is always the same. "No you didn't" or "no you don't". It's frustrating. WHY does he do this to me?!?!



What happens before the "I miss you" is said? What are the events surrounding why it is said in the first place? I.E. How much time has usually past? How much contact have you two usually had within that time frame?
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EVERYTIME I tell my scorp venus guy something sweet like "I've missed you" or just something that validates my feelings for him his respond is always the same. "No you didn't" or "no you don't". It's frustrating. WHY does he do this to me?!?!




Actions speak louder than words. - examine your actions and you may find the answer to your WHYs.



Yes to this.

I have this placement.



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Thank you my friend.
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EVERYTIME I tell my scorp venus guy something sweet like "I've missed you" or just something that validates my feelings for him his respond is always the same. "No you didn't" or "no you don't". It's frustrating. WHY does he do this to me?!?!



What happens before the "I miss you" is said? What are the events surrounding why it is said in the first place? I.E. How much time has usually past? How much contact have you two usually had within that time frame?
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Good question! Could be anywhere from a few days to a week or so. He ALWAYS needs space it's quite ridiculous, I swear I hate libra men. So during the time when he isn't that chatty I realize he needs his space and I give it to him for as long as he needs. We speak when he initiates contact.

If I don't do it this way, he will go silent for longer, trust me I know. He gets in these moods where he just doesn't want to be bothered.