Scorpio trust testing me

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by purpleblackscorp on Saturday, July 5, 2014 and has 10 replies.

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@purpleblackscorp
12 Years

It was love at first sight. He and those beautiful blue eyes of his. One look and I was captivated. It was his first day at work (January 13')and I happened to walk into the break room and he met eyes with me when I entered the room and I met eyes with him and my heart skipped a beat. Problem: I was married at the time. Not happily, but married and trying to work it out. Through a series of weird events my scorp and I would not actually begin talking until November 13'. From that point on I didn't look back. I wanted to be with him and in January 14', I invited him to dinner while my husband who I was now separated from was at traffic school. My love and I shared dinner and we talked, laughed and admired each other for 6 hours. I did try to kiss him during this time and he almost did then asked...Aren't you married? Ughh. Yes, I answered but I'm getting a divorce. Even after my admission (to which he had fabulous feedback) he still stayed 3 more hours with me. He did eventually kiss me that night (on the cheek) and he hugged me several times. It was heavenly. The next day at work (Friday) he was elated, I was elated but, by Monday he was barely talking to me and soon after not talking to me at all. This went on for three months! The trust tests had begun. I didn't really begin researching what the heck was going on until like a month in and then it all made sense. I don't know the particulars on our signs. He is a Scorpio (November 13th) I am a Cancer (June 25th). All I know is that I fell for him and our special evening together left me even deeper in love with this fabulous man. So in love that I was not about to give up on possibly being with him and I went to work on divorcing my husband. (Yes, I left him for several and real reasons of my own, but one of them was that I was in love with my scorpio and wanted very much to be with him) One day after the three months he looked at me as I walked toward him going the opposite direction and he said Hello! Oh my goodness. The wait had ended! I was so relieved, happy, excited. We went for several weeks on speaking terms...it was so like heaven. However, I jumped the gun, I was still in the midst of his trust test I asked him to call me (wrote him a note). He did not call me and in fact...the next day when I approached him to find out if he could call that night instead he said no and he very ineffectively told me not to talk to him now. I gasped. He made me feel like a stalker although I was anything but. The

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@intheair
12 Years

Oh, my damn.

OP, I understand your verbosity in regards to your feelings to your scorpio guy; the emotions you experience with the man are overwhelming. I hope you finish your post.

However, what you've written so far doesn't seem like he's testing you...moreso dealing w/his stuff within.

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@ScorpLeo
12 Years

Okay..... To be brutally honest any scorpio... Be it a man or a woman would never want to be with someone they didn't find loyal... Your problem is that you were very causal when he asked whether you were married or not... A scorpio would always expect that a person going through a break in a relationship to be hurting instead of flirting... Either he thought you were trying to use him to get over your husband or he thought you were just another girl who doesn't mind being with two men at a time.... If you seriously want him to like you, you need to gain his trust!