Into a scorpio guy again...

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Sublimitas on Monday, July 7, 2014 and has 82 replies.

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

I am feeling back @ home pretty much 🙂

Mars taurus
Venus/sun/ merc/ Pluto scorp
Mars Aqua
Jupiter pisces
Saturn Uranus sag
Neptune cap
Lilith gem

Rawr!!

Anybody can tell me about the mars in aqua part though?

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

Haha.. It's actually him. He's not a Taurus like I thought. My bad.

So happy I assumed wrong though. It's been a while my scorp moon was longing for a ViS.

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

What I find weird is he has no guard up, he kinda trusted me right away, opened up like an air sign. I had never seen such an open scorp before. Refreshing!

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

Yes? I would have thought the total
Opposite.. Haha. If they're not threatened though why closing it off? I mean I love to have a glimpse inside his dreams and fantasies ^^

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

The Scorp I'm seeing was very open in the beginning. It was the most amazing thing I have experienced. I think it took him by surprise as well and he "got scared" (yup, can you just imagine that... lol)
I am still involved with him and some days I think I just need to break down, open that bottle of tequila, and take my pepperin'. Haha

They (if it can be attributed to the Venus in Scorp which I have no idea if it can be) are one of the most beautiful souls I have ever connected with. That's not cheap or easy either. If it's real to begin with, which you never really know for sure. My advice to you? Ah, forget it, I have none.

😆

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

Lmao this is a genuine advice. I totally feel you there! But those moments are so awesome! I learned from a past experience that the very minute you tell a stinger you're into then it's like you touched the wings of a butterfly & it just won't fly free again. Fear of course then resentment then well nostalgia. I think the best are those moments right before they start shitting their pants!

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12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

You liked my great advice, didn't you??!! Haha
There's some words you can 'take to the bank'.

They are for sure, without a doubt the best moments... right before they start shitting their pants.
Now strange, but true, I questioned his intentions since he started withdrawing because he's being an ass and well, I don't like to date asses. The big thing being the intimate connection between him and I. It is through the roof, of course, makes it that much harder to walk away from. Figuratively and literally speaking of course. (Wow, I am on a roll today hehe). So anyway, I took the physical off the table. That's right ladies, I went backwards just like he did. What's good for the gander the goose can have too, IMO. He's still texting me morning, noon, and night. We hardly say boo to each other but in a strange way it seems comforting.

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

Thank you once again for your inputs!! (:

Im wondering though. He gave me his phone numb, he leaves me messages when I'm away, sometimes at night and such. But I know he is testing me. Though I think I could end up really liking him I just want him to chase me. I don't want to be frustrated then resort to bitterness and destroy everything & end up being called a psycho. I went there it's nothing flattering. So should I just let him come to me & wait patiently? Do scorps like it when there's a little bit of extra work to do? Im just not going to give him any satisfaction until hes in my bed.

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

Posted by IrresistableScorp
What has worked for me: someone who pursues me and lets me know in no uncertain terms that they are into me. Now, this should NOT include some declaration of love or anything. Just showing real interest works.

Also, HUMOR??_oh gawd I have a soft spot for someone who makes me laugh.

Finally, mystery switched up with an open vulnerability. Sort of give me a little and then make me work for more.

Just throwing that all out there. maybe some of it will make sense to you and yours.

I'm speechless! That was really good advice irresistible scorp. Thank you!! (: *applying now*

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

What would work on you?

suppose you've been chatting with a girl for a few days, and you give her your phone numb, in case.

What now?

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

A strong woman is a woman who is not intimdated by your mood swings, or games, or silent treatment. One that has control over her emotions in whatever situation. It takes some practice but it's always more rewarding to be in control than being called a psycho. A psycho is nothing but a girl who gave too much and lost her cool... Every scorp seems to start by "my ex is a psycho". It's not really that she is a psycho, it's more that she repressed herself too much and then lost her mind. Either way, she proved not to be worthy of his time.

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Posted by Rabbit
Posted by FixedWater
Rein, would you not find her dull and boring after awhile? Then wouldn't that eventually translate to needy?

That's the way I feel about it.

The Virgo with her Gem moon keeps up with my sarcasm, can match me in terms of intellect, and can easily outpace me at times in the drive department. In other words, she challenges me.

I wouldn't want anything else.

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As a Scorpio Woman I would not want a Man who did not challenge me. I would find him weak and eventually walk all over him.

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

I don't know if I'm envious, cos whenever Rabbit talks about it, there's a feeling of nostalgia surrounding his words.

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Rabbit, that was almost verbatim to what my next point was going to be.
Making my Man feel like THE Man has never been a problem. I love to bump up his ego and make him feel like a superhero. I also love it when my Man makes me feel like the only Woman on earth. That doesn't mean if he's feeding me bs that I won't call him on it. It also doesn't mean that because he's feeding me bs I will hate him for forever. It is only a "Hey! C'mon really? Is that what we want for us?"
Well, maybe I have gone a little further than that but in my mind this is how sweet I am. Lmao!

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

ok it's been 3 hours im texting with the scorpio about what it's like for him to be a scorpio. This is so surrealist! 😄

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

FrostandBite your posts are so refreshing 🙂

He was mentioning all kinds of stuff, how some people don't have (access to their deep) emotions and how darkness is not necessarily a bad thing, a lesson is a lesson. I was saying how a scorpio experience is always cathartic and I realized in his speech that he kinda felt bad most people couldn't handle the intensity. He did not call his ex a psycho though. We shared ex's experiences and realized strangely that were at the same point in life relationship wise. He said he never expected to meet a free spirit like me but he had to admit there is no coincidence. There must not be, because I pretty much asked for the universe to bring me that guy.

Oh and surrealist movies? Black cat white cat? Haha with red wine involved.. Sweet intoxication. Why are you scorps so damn inspiring...

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@Sublimitas
12 Years

And why is it my root chakra is like on fire when I talk to a scorp? It works with other water signs too but never air of earth signs. Haha. And it's mutual! It never takes long til the other person complains he's too hot and can't sleep ^^

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