SCORPIO AMA

I have been struck by all the kindness that has been going around lately so i am willingly going to give out some of the secrets (don't hate scopio brethren i will not reveal everything 🙂 ).

So ask away

What makes you commit to a girl? If anything?

what do you mean by commit ?

If i like a girl and am willing to go trough the hole process of knowing alot about her and letting her know me i guess i am ready to commit to a relationship with her 😄 . I mean after all that hard work u need to have somewhat of a goal

Posted by Whatu
what addictions/bad habits do you feel are holding you back and what are you doing to work through them?

UUUU this is a interesting question

I would say the first one would be that i need to KNOW everything so i can act the part. Sometimes i just let the pieces fall as they may but then again i get pissed if they don't fall as i like them to fall .

I also like to get my way so i usually use other ppl to do so and well i exploit theyre weaknesses. But lately i just don't do it as often as i did just because people are too honest and i feel bad afterwards

Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
*snort and tears*

gawd that tickled me!

thanks 😄

well i did not see that tho , it was really late when i wrote it , smth like 2 am
But still you have to respect the process !

^^merc in sag will laugh at silly shit 😛

i giggled myself when i read it this morning 😄

How do you approach vulnerability in a relationship? Not your partner's, yours.

How do you approach intimacy?

What is your biggest fear? in life and in relationships so 2 fears please 😛

Is emotional cheating a type of cheating? Better/worse/the same?

Posted by Damnata
How do you approach vulnerability in a relationship? Not your partner's, yours.

How do you approach intimacy?

What is your biggest fear? in life and in relationships so 2 fears please 😛

Is emotional cheating a type of cheating? Better/worse/the same?

1 I am never vulnerable always have a ace up my sleeve

2 intimacy hmm tough one , never think about it too much what happens happens , i just let it flow in that department

3.1 Life : that one day we will have no power and i won't be able to get online
3.2 Relationships : That i loose interest after a certain period of time and let all that good work go to waste and pull a disappearing act

What do you mean by emotional cheating ? Never heard of that tbh

So..you're in a relationship, loyal to your partner. You don't stray, you get along etc.

You meet someone and you bond with that person..like you have a connection or he/she gets you. You begin to confide with them, all the while keeping it a secret from your partner. Let's assume you love your partner and you're loyal to them..how does that scenario make you feel? Does it preclude cheating? Is it something else entirely? etc.

Posted by Damnata
So..you're in a relationship, loyal to your partner. You don't stray, you get along etc.

You meet someone and you bond with that person..like you have a connection or he/she gets you. You begin to confide with them, all the while keeping it a secret from your partner. Let's assume you love your partner and you're loyal to them..how does that scenario make you feel? Does it preclude cheating? Is it something else entirely? etc.

As long as my partner or me are talking about our relationship to this let's call it a third party yes i do find it bad , whatever goes on in a relationship must stay there and both of us have to work on fixing it .

If it does not concern the relationship and is about smth the partner would not understand (ie gaming electronics etc ) i would not consider it cheating .

And ofc it should not be a secret , if i would find out that my gf has been going behind my back talking to someone about our problems i would be pissed 🙂 and would tell her that she should trust me with these things and not go running to the first person she thinks could help her 😄

Honesty helps alot even tho i am not the most honest person myself (yes the scheeming and planning and stings ) i still think people should first talk to each other about theyre problems before they go spill to someone else.

"Scorpios are all the same" myth = debunked 😄

Do you know the Muppet man?

sadisticdesire..

Thanks for using "uncompromising" instead of "unconditional". The latter term is a fallacy and drives me crazy.

As for your greatest fear, I can relate:

http://common-phobias.com/athazagora/phobia.htm

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Posted by Whatu
what addictions/bad habits do you feel are holding you back and what are you doing to work through them?

UUUU this is a interesting question

I would say the first one would be that i need to KNOW everything so i can act the part. Sometimes i just let the pieces fall as they may but then again i get pissed if they don't fall as i like them to fall .

I also like to get my way so i usually use other ppl to do so and well i exploit theyre weaknesses. But lately i just don't do it as often as i did just because people are too honest and i feel bad afterwards

meh thats not really what I mean, Like you an addicted gamer right. Do you use video games to escape and not chase the really big dreams you have in life?

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Nope i use video games to relax and talk to people that i normally would not ever meet .Being a gamer allows me to connect to a different type of world , where people share a interest but as soon as they get to know each other more interesting conversations pop up , but i like to keep my gamer life and real life separate.

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Posted by Damnata
How do you approach vulnerability in a relationship? Not your partner's, yours.

How do you approach intimacy?

What is your biggest fear? in life and in relationships so 2 fears please 😛

Is emotional cheating a type of cheating? Better/worse/the same?

1 I am never vulnerable always have a ace up my sleeve

2 intimacy hmm tough one , never think about it too much what happens happens , i just let it flow in that department

3.1 Life : that one day we will have no power and i won't be able to get online
3.2 Relationships : That i loose interest after a certain period of time and let all that good work go to waste and pull a disappearing act

What do you mean by emotional cheating ? Never heard of that tbh

It's very interesting because you and I are polar opposites in this area.

For me:

1. Each person in a relationship is completely vulnerable. To keep an ace up your sleeve is not fully trust your partner and can never equate to true uncompromising love. In a relationship I feel 100% vulnerable if I'm truly in love. It's only happened to me once.

2. I agree with you here. I just let it happen. I never have to work at that. I'm usually the one that gets attacked by the girl.

3.1- My biggest fear in life is that I'll leave this world and I will be forgotten. I wanna leave a mark on this world that will make people remember by name.

3.2- Going back to what I said about relationships, my biggest fear is that I care more for my partner than she cares about me. That she'll be able to just leave me without a second thought.

4. Yes it is. But if you're emotionally cheating it means your emotional needs are not being met and you need analyze why within your own relationship. There's no excuse to cheat. Ever.

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I used to be a true believer like you but then i took a arrow to the knee 😛

Posted by LunarMaiden
Do you know the Muppet man?

Need more info on that have met allot of puppet men in my life

What do you see as weakness of character? What do you see as strength of character?

Weakness : To stubborn sometimes
Strength : I have everything i am a scorpio

Weakness: overinflated sense of self.

...though Scorpios refer to that fondly as "confidence" lol

Oh and another one:

When do you feel deeply understood by someone?

Posted by Damnata
Oh and another one:

When do you feel deeply understood by someone?

depends how deep but i would say never

Posted by Damnata
Weakness: overinflated sense of self.

Hey i know who i am and what i can do , do you ?

Posted by GuessWho

Posted by Damnata
Weakness: overinflated sense of self.

Hey i know who i am and what i can do , do you ?

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yup. without ego tripping

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Posted by GuessWho

Posted by Damnata
Weakness: overinflated sense of self.

Hey i know who i am and what i can do , do you ?

yup. without ego tripping

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i don't ego trip this is who i am 😄 if u understand it ok if not ... your problem not mine

I am really beginning to dig this forum. 😄

And by dig I mean "I am going to stalk it"

Sorry hon, I have a Venus in Cancer in the 8th..which is like a Venus in Scorpio but no one ever sees it coming lol.

I am totally going to call you DS from now on btw.

It should be SD from sadisticdesire but it sounds too close to STD and you like Dire Straits 😄

Posted by sadisticdesire
Damn and I'm clumsy as shit so you'd see and hear coming from a mile away.

Well someone has to stalk blind and deaf people also.

Posted by sadisticdesire
Good point... any more questions? I'm bored and can't sleep :/

Whow there brother highjacking my thread 😄

no worries it was only a joke 😄