immaculate virgoan
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Scorpio and Internet dating
why do you want to build an attraction before meeting him?
this is why i don't do internet dating. it's all too weird and everyone's fake cos they're playing some kinda game.
this is why i don't do internet dating. it's all too weird and everyone's fake cos they're playing some kinda game.
RM I am with you on the weirdness of it. But I live in a bit of a remote area so am giving it a try.
One of the problems with. Din in a remote area is that meeting someone from a distance off requires a bu if planning and that takes time. You can rarely just "catch you for a coffee at Starbucks. 3 o'clock on Thursday.
With all star signs, initial interest can waiver in that time period and often the meet never happens. I'm just looking for ways to maintain the interest via text phone, whatever until a meet can take place and you can gauge the level of attraction better.
Not really looking to build a relationship, just maintain initial interest.
This scorp is a rather serious sounding type, a successful business man who doesn't seem like frivolity and flirtatiousness will suit.
Just looking for ideas here and hoping to develop some skills.
Ivy
One of the problems with. Din in a remote area is that meeting someone from a distance off requires a bu if planning and that takes time. You can rarely just "catch you for a coffee at Starbucks. 3 o'clock on Thursday.
With all star signs, initial interest can waiver in that time period and often the meet never happens. I'm just looking for ways to maintain the interest via text phone, whatever until a meet can take place and you can gauge the level of attraction better.
Not really looking to build a relationship, just maintain initial interest.
This scorp is a rather serious sounding type, a successful business man who doesn't seem like frivolity and flirtatiousness will suit.
Just looking for ideas here and hoping to develop some skills.
Ivy
oh well i totally understand if you're in a remote area. lived on a mountain in spain for 6 years, nearly went stir crazy!!
can't you switch to phone calls?
can't you switch to phone calls?
Yeah we did switch to phone calls. Had a great rapport on the phone and then a couple of days later he's gone quiet. Not instigating contact and didn't respond to my text. Ignoring me when we're online together.
I think I'll just put it down to one of those weird things guys do - disappear when things seem to be going ok. I'll let him go - afterall I dont know him so it could be anything.
Bye by Scorpio...I think I coulda liked you 😢
Ivy
I think I'll just put it down to one of those weird things guys do - disappear when things seem to be going ok. I'll let him go - afterall I dont know him so it could be anything.
Bye by Scorpio...I think I coulda liked you 😢
Ivy
I think the telephone and meeting in person is the best way to develop chemistry. But not forced.
Any attraction you build online will never be real. It's a fantasy. You can't know this presence or the real chemistry between you. The best way to build attraction is to meet face to face and continue seeing each other in person. IM'ing, CAMing, texting should never take the place of a real relationship and real communication.
Your Scorp is probably "communicating" with other women and dealing with that "chemistry." Could be you argued, could be he didn't like what you told him during your phone conversation, it's also possible he didn't like your phone voice (no telephone chemistry.) Could be he's trying to figure out how to see you. Did you call him to set a date?
It's up to you how you proceed. I just think it's best to keep online contact, cyber contact, texting to a minimal until you have established that after dating in person you both like each other; and are willing to move forward as a couple. Good luck.
Any attraction you build online will never be real. It's a fantasy. You can't know this presence or the real chemistry between you. The best way to build attraction is to meet face to face and continue seeing each other in person. IM'ing, CAMing, texting should never take the place of a real relationship and real communication.
Your Scorp is probably "communicating" with other women and dealing with that "chemistry." Could be you argued, could be he didn't like what you told him during your phone conversation, it's also possible he didn't like your phone voice (no telephone chemistry.) Could be he's trying to figure out how to see you. Did you call him to set a date?
It's up to you how you proceed. I just think it's best to keep online contact, cyber contact, texting to a minimal until you have established that after dating in person you both like each other; and are willing to move forward as a couple. Good luck.
I agree with all you say Lunar. You cant gage a person's true character through a screen.
He was good for a few days after we had a pretty easy going conversation on the phone then just vanished.
I'm thinking he's just one of those internet weirdos (which is a character trait rather than a star sign trait) as now he's changed his location to another city.
Oh well. Rejection is God's protection.
Thanks for your advice. Moving on.
Ivy
He was good for a few days after we had a pretty easy going conversation on the phone then just vanished.
I'm thinking he's just one of those internet weirdos (which is a character trait rather than a star sign trait) as now he's changed his location to another city.
Oh well. Rejection is God's protection.
Thanks for your advice. Moving on.
Ivy
LOL IV that's what I call them too, Internet weirdos. Have you looked at a site called Meetup.com. You put your zip code in and it shows many of the activities in your area to meet other people whom share the same interests. You can even start your own club. I went to one in my area, it was a German language club and I really enjoyed it. There were some cute guys there too.
Posted by LunarMaiden
I think the telephone and meeting in person is the best way to develop chemistry. But not forced.
Agreed.
Posted by LunarMaiden
Any attraction you build online will never be real.
Disagree
Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
why do you want to build an attraction before meeting him?
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Mental as it equals stables, dicks and pussys usually get found eslewhere no matter how stable.
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