Scorpio and the Ex

My Scorp has pulled back. Havent seen him in a week- He wanted to see me tonight but hasnt called all day but active on social networks. He went from everyday texting, planning(but never following thru) with date plans and now his Ex is appearing on his Facebook and he is liking her things.

Hmmmm... Would Scorpio be OK with me flat out asking questions about this? No,we aren't committed, no we haven't slept together. He was engaged to the ex-ended things awhile ago butit seems they keep in touch as of March from photos I've seen.

I'm not going to invest myself in something only to be hurt- ya know? What's the best way to approach this with a Scorpio male? Do Scorps hold on to their ex? She's an Aries too- march 21.

RUN THE OTHER DIRECTION. Fast. If he's still involved with her in any way...you will just become a pawn of the scorpio male/(Insert female here) game. It will be a vicious cycle of i love you, (she comes back) I hate you, I love you (she's gone for awhile), I hate you again (she returns). If he's truly done with her, scorpios will (in most cases) cut ties completely. If not. You will be a pawn. Love me some Scorpio men, but this is fact. I've had something VERY similar happen to me. Except the girl was an Aquarius. I was hurt very badly. Don't do that to yourself. Unless you know he is done with her with a capital D.

Posted by DazedScorp
Tread lightly...

Dazed- my Aries fire isn't too terrible. I have some control 😛

I didn't know of his history prior to reconnecting with him. I immediately noticed how his home looked like a happy family lived there and was broken. All once nice things worth being proud over now run down, uncared for, broken and dilapidated. Just figured it was a bachelor thing. Then I saw how "they" fixed it up together and then split.

Funny how I picked up on all these vibes from him but didn't know the story. I guess you can say I have always sensed he has been broken, damaged and hurting. Ive spent today researching my hunch and I was right. I feel crushed for him. Looking at the pictures, you can SEE his pain in his expressions/body language now verses then. Aw, darn you cancer moon.

Why do you need to bring with the ex?

Bring up his inconsistant date planing and fail through? Isnt that enough to annoy you?

It is unkind and abusive. Confront THAT...and see what he says.

How long ago did they break up? whether they are friends only or not, if its not been long enough to heal, he cant commit to you or even follow thru as a good dating partner.

Run, with a capital "R", as fast as you can, and don't look back!!!
I've just gone through this back and forth, ex still in the picture every now and then,
and just went through it again last week, and it hurts like hell!!! This has been going on
for 4 years. Don't do this to yourself. It is hard to get them scorp men out of your heart and soul!

I'm telling you...it won't change. No matter how much you want him to get over her. It will be a vicious cycle unless you know for absolute fact she's been completely for YEARS.

Just stop talking to him completely. Ignore his texts, calls, messages, e-mails. Do it for a good solid Month or two if you can. It will drive him completely bonkers trying to figure it all out. Scorpios love a mystery.