Scorpio/Capricorn Relationships

Hi All,
I'm new to this board, trying to read all the topics, some are old some new, and some I dont have time to read everything from the first page to the last 4 so I thought I'd start this new topic. Calling all and any Scorps that is with a Cap or Caps that is with a Scorp. relationships here. I am looking for others in theses two signs in a relationship basis. What you have gone thru, what you are going thru now. The highs and lows. Things you've realized about the other sign, things you wish you knew when you were going thru things. Things you wonder about the other sign. Just about everything to help support each other and discuss the highs and lows of these two signs.
I've been dating a Capricorn for a month and a half. For the first half it was everyday, attentive, exciting, he was always wanting to talk on the phone or come see me everyday then it went to once or twice a week for the second half of this time period. Its gotten now where we finally defined our relationship as b/f & g/f to be exclusive. But in the past week, when I call or text him, he doesnt answer it. it may take him a day to get back to me or not even texting me or calling me. Is this normal for a cap? and why do they do that? When he wants to talk, he calls me any time of day even in the middle of the night and I'm always here. I really dont know how to trust this undependability. When he needs me or wants to talk I'm there, but for him, its like he's not there for me. Am I suppose to just be patient and deal with it to be with him? or is there something I can do or say to him to make him respond sooner? I've told him that I like him to call me more and I have worked harder to contact him more and more as well. Are caps the type that if they feel secure, they dont have to work as hard and now he can come and go as they please? Should I be concern about him cheating or lying to me about the things he does when he gives me a reason like he didnt have his phone ringer on, or he was just chillin, or sleeping when I called and doesnt call me for like a day or two later? Its like he acts like nothing happened and the day wasnt there.

Thanks, Ill post this on the caps site too. Maybe this one can be for the caps who read this and can give me the other side of their scorpio counterpart, whereas the other board will be telling me how the caps are. Im wanting both sides of it, like other scorps that are going or went thru waht I am going now. So hopefully some scorps will look in their own sign as well.
but about the phone thing, my cap is always on the phone. Texting me, texting his friends even while we go out on a date. He just bought a new phone with a keyboard on it, email, PDA etc etc. for alot of money. I even commented on his overuse of the thing while we are on our dates, so as caps go, he stops bringing his cell phone into my house as to give us alone time with out having to hear his phone ring and get his buddies calling him. So he must not be a normal Cap??
That is interesting that cap men - scorpio women are more than the cap women - scorpio man couples.

Are you scorpio female or scorpio male? I don't understand..bit confused about SB's comment..

He's prolly just going through the cooling off period..for example thinking woah..this is a fully fledged relationship, let me just step back and reflect..He'll be back to nornal again just give it time..how long u guys known each other?

You can probably find some similarities b/t a Cap male and Cap female. With that in mind, being a Cap woman, I think we feel a relationship is going best when it's hit a comfortable routine...so I wouldn't read too much into his evasiveness. We also need some time to ourselves, which may explain his "disappearing act."

Well I'd be interested in listening to a cap male anyday. Esp one that isnt in a relationship with me so I can pick his brain. I like knowing what I in store for and how I can make the relationship better. Or am I just over worrying for nothing?
I guess I just have to learn to deal with his "disappearing" act and be more patience. Is there anything I can do to make a cap male not avoid the phone calls, text messages, or say something that would make him more attentive again so I dont go stir crazy??

Cap men on here don't really respond apart from the occasional comment from Capman..but the cap girls are good and also other scorps in a relationship with one..

Scorpio babe,
If you go to the Cap board, you'll find that is a popular topic...disappearing act Cap men do. I think you just have to reach a secure point in your relationship, so that you won't go crazy when he doesn't call. Or maybe you can try keeping busy...if he sees you have a life outside of him, this'll intrigue him. Crazy, but true.
I'm seeing a Scorp male and he & I go through phases where we both disappear for a day; but when we come back together...it makes it so worthwhile. I think relationships need that "apart" time; that time to miss each other. Good luck!

"Well I'd be interested in listening to a cap male anyday. Esp one that isnt in a relationship with me so I can pick his brain."

*rolling eyes--HuH✨

Good luck

If I still can say that I am a Cap girl (after stating that I don't believe in astrology like it's my advice for everything in life..), I also do that disappearing. I just need to think. I am also thinking that if it's better to run away before it's going too serious. If s/h/i/t happend already and I have fallen in love it's good sometimes to take some steps back.

Well I had a long talk with my cap and everything is so great now. I explained to him how it makes me feel that he doesnt call me for a day or two because I either worry that he doesnt care about me, doesnt return my phone call/text or what not, and that he's alive and safe. I also told him what is important to me to in a relationship for trust, reliability, support of being there. I asked him if even if he feels like he needs to disappear if he can just call me or text me on a daily basis even its its like im alive, thinking of you or im busy but wanted to know that im here.
he said that alot of people have asked him to do that like his friends (buddies), family (mom), etc etc and he's never done that before.
I just explained to him that I can understand that. I do the same things I dont contact my family and friends on a daily basis, but now that we are in a relationship that I need to feel secure in it between you and I. That yes I love my family but I still need my space but with you, I'm in love iwth you as you are with me and its not for me to control you. Its just a way to settle my mind because I'm a worrier and it makes me feel good to know that you dont ignore me (or my calls/text), you and I are ok, and most of all that you are safe (becuase if i dont see you for a week/or hear from you for a few days, how am I suppose to know that something didnt happen to you? and if I dont hear from you on a daily basis then it freaks me out and/or makes me feel like I dont matter or makes my head think a million things a minute.
He said you really know how to make me smile huh? I said huh? and he said I'm in a bad mood its a monday and he's so busy, but he said I am very sweet and that nobody has cared about him in this way and explains it the way I did. I told him that I'm a control freak of my life, but I'm not here to control him or anyone elses. But to hear his voice to know that he's ok even if he doestn want to talk to me, he can just text "I'm alive and well or im busy and cant talk but am thinking of you or something to know your are ok" or even if we talk for 2 seconds just to say hi and miss you and got to run, then that's enough for me. I said that builds up my trust, the respect, the accountability, the support knowing you are there for me and makes me feel more positive about us. That that is just as important as being "exclusive" to each other in this relationship". So he finally said that that's very true and that i couldnt make him do anything he wouldnt want to do and this is a small request and that he would call or text me everyday even if he needs his space just to ease my mind.
Then we talked about religion and politics and life in general and no matter if we agreed or disagree we can talk and not argue. its a beautiful relationship!!
It made me so happy becuase this is the really only issue I have with him. I just wanted to share and update my progress. So I'm sorry if this is so long.

babe.. That's just great. It sounds like a mature relationship to me. At least the beginning sounds good. It needs a lot of work always, to build a lifetime love story. I hope you guys make it work. 🙂