Scorpio Confusion

Hello I've been talking to this Scorpio man as friends for 5 months and it's like he doesn't text like he use to and takes forever to respond to my text messages. I had the impression that he liked me when we first started talking but now idk? Any scorpios can identify with this treatment? Should I back off?

Posted by Accountz
Hello I've been talking to this Scorpio man as friends for 5 months and it's like he doesn't text like he use to and takes forever to respond to my text messages. I had the impression that he liked me when we first started talking but now idk? Any scorpios can identify with this treatment? Should I back off?

WHAT SID YOU SAY?

Example of conversation pls...

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Accountz
Hello I've been talking to this Scorpio man as friends for 5 months and it's like he doesn't text like he use to and takes forever to respond to my text messages. I had the impression that he liked me when we first started talking but now idk? Any scorpios can identify with this treatment? Should I back off?

WHAT SID YOU SAY?

Example of conversation pls...

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Just a simple wyd just trying to make convo becuz he doesn't initiate them anymore just seemed a bit dry lately & he's out of town for the break

Posted by ScorpG
Usually scorpios escalate flirt really fast when interested.five months isnt long?

Yeah but he was at first & just stopped and seems like he was observing me and pulling back from texting me as much & doesn't even send me good morning messages anymore

lol

So you've never seen each other?

Posted by ScorpG

Posted by Accountz

Posted by ScorpG
Usually scorpios escalate flirt really fast when interested.five months isnt long?

Yeah but he was at first & just stopped and seems like he was observing me and pulling back from texting me as much & doesn't even send me good morning messages anymore

Maybe you need to gain his interest back, but he will be in a superior position then. How old are you both?

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25 & he's 21

Posted by Gemitati
So you've never seen each other?

We have even a date when we first met but wasn't really interested thought he was a liar

Posted by Gemitati
So you've never seen each other?

We have even a date when we first met but wasn't really interested thought he was a liar

25 and 21?

It's like he younger than you by the fifth of the life!

Let him loose.

They mature by 40 so...never mind.

Posted by Gemitati
25 and 21?

It's like he younger than you by the fifth of the life!

Let him loose.

They mature by 40 so...never mind.

Trying something new I usually don't but thought maybe that's why I'm single

The " I'm texting " than " you don't hear from me " ? Yep that's scorpio trait , the sooner you learn that , the less worry you will have . Especially if you have venus in leo or tend to overthink a lot . 1 scorpio drove me mad because of that .

However I think if they really really like you , you will know - I mean from what I have seen they are not that complicated , if they like you they will come to you . However if they feel ( yes kinda intuitive people ) that you are going to stick around , they might not make that many effort .

Also if they somewhat lose interest which I think happens if they have some gemini in their chart , they won't necessarily initiate contact .

They say that leos are self-centered but scorpios ? They are like babies smh .. I don't think they like "needy" people , always going trough their stuff . I think they like independant women or somehow self-sufficient , they know you are loyal and are going to be there for them , but you don't " need " them for every single little thng .

I might be wrong but that's the way I see it . I think if you know the other placement it can helps too 😉 .

Good luck with them , I love them because of their intensity but sometimes they are way too complex for nothing .

From what I see in a lot of my Scorpio friends, we get bored.

I like the "thrill" of the first encounter, and learning from people. But if you don't add anything to the conversation, or you are too easily "there" (i.e. Stage 5 clinger), I get bored and fast. That's when I start only sparingly responding.

Posted by VirgoGent
I've taken the whatever approach to Scorpios delaying their response or not replying at all. It's pretty easy to get bored just texting with someone so try and switch it up by making a phone call once in awhile. I hate trying to have a conversation through text. If it's a short chat then fine but I would much rather talk on the phone and have a real conversation. Texting is so informal.

Yes. Yes. And Yes.

Posted by VirgoGent
I've taken the whatever approach to Scorpios delaying their response or not replying at all. It's pretty easy to get bored just texting with someone so try and switch it up by making a phone call once in awhile. I hate trying to have a conversation through text. If it's a short chat then fine but I would much rather talk on the phone and have a real conversation. Texting is so informal.

I try but it seems like he has a hard time doing so so I'm just thinking about blocking him on my phone

I hate blocking people on my phone .. Especially for the wrong reasons .

It's so true they don't like needy people ^^ . But funny enough they sometimes are clingy and needy . Just ignore them , nobody is worth chasing after for no reason . I take it as " taking you" for granted . I m not about tht life , either you want me and you proove it , or you don't .

Ignore me and you will never hear from me again - no matter if you need your " recharge " typical scorpio phase .

Virgo sun

Venus Leo

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Posted by Gemitati
So you've never seen each other?

We have even a date when we first met but wasn't really interested thought he was a liar

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if you know that he's a liar why you're still texting him