@babydolphin92
9 Years
have I upset him for good?
Will He Forgive You for Past Mistakes
Based on astrology, Scorpio men tend to be intense and emotional. They may need time to process conflicts. Your actions might impact the relationship, but healing depends on honest communication and patience. Giving him space and expressing your feelings clearly can help rebuild trust over time.
Aren't you a real scumbag !!!
I'm also a Gemini by the way....I know my choices were wrong but I've always been in love with him first. Everyone else doesn't matter when it comes to him. That's just how I feel.
Don't mean to put a damper on things but it's so funny to me how he used the condom for an excuse ? he was really in his feelings and wanted u to know the only D u won't b gettin is his — & u got me eff'd up ——. But really to be honest I was talking to a friend and he doesn't know what he wants...scorpios have so many options it's like he wants u to be with him while he does his thing and keeps his "girl" friends which I just learned they have those suckers in rotation and be single with the benefits of having u
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Don't mean to put a damper on things but it's so funny to me how he used the condom for an excuse ? he was really in his feelings and wanted u to know the only D u won't b gettin is his — & u got me eff'd up ——. But really to be honest I was talking to a friend and he doesn't know what he wants...scorpios have so many options it's like he wants u to be with him while he does his thing and keeps his "girl" friends which I just learned they have those suckers in rotation and be single with the benefits of having uThis applies to men of all signs actually.
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Lol well "D"efinitely — in regards to this one seems like we r all running into this problem with single Scorpio men this season
Damn that.
Posted by babydolphin92
This time around I'm in a relationship. He knows but he thinks hes better for me.We meet up and he reveals to me that he gets used for sex a lot lately. we get intimate, suddenly mid-intimacy he runs off and comes back fully clothed claiming the condom was too small. He asks me how can I go back to my relationship after this and I tell him that until he tells me he wants to be with me, then I'm not leaving my relationship. Things feel awkward so I go.
That night I text, no reply.
The next day I text, "was the condom the only issue last night?" he replies "what does it matter." I reply "I want to know..." no reply.
I get fed up and send a long lengthy text about how I love him
He probably wanted to see if you'd cheat on your bf and since you were all ready for it, he changed his mind....
Plus now he got a love declaration...
Girl...
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To be fair, he told me he loved me first.
? at least I'm getting some laughs out of it. So yall think he's gone for good?
Troll
Laughing thanks to penelopes comment. Not a troll. Just someone who made some poor choices and needed to hear outside input.
These types really tick people off I know I was. MY blood was boiling last time the famous one...
Posted by babydolphin92
This time around I'm in a relationship. He knows but he thinks hes better for me.We meet up and he reveals to me that he gets used for sex a lot lately. we get intimate, suddenly mid-intimacy he runs off and comes back fully clothed claiming the condom was too small. He asks me how can I go back to my relationship after this and I tell him that until he tells me he wants to be with me, then I'm not leaving my relationship. Things feel awkward so I go.
That night I text, no reply.
The next day I text, "was the condom the only issue last night?" he replies "what does it matter." I reply "I want to know..." no reply.
I get fed up and send a long lengthy text about how I love him
He probably wanted to see if you'd cheat on your bf and since you were all ready for it, he changed his mind....
Plus now he got a love declaration...
Girl...
To be fair, he told me he loved me first.
Of course he did.
So what happens with your boyfriend?
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We are now on a break because I needed to figure out what I'm doing.
Hm I don't know, do Scorpios go back after finding out there interest are not faithful enough during, and before, even afterhooking up because most alreayd know the person inside and out.Everyone can do hook ups.
Posted by babydolphin92
This time around I'm in a relationship. He knows but he thinks hes better for me.We meet up and he reveals to me that he gets used for sex a lot lately. we get intimate, suddenly mid-intimacy he runs off and comes back fully clothed claiming the condom was too small. He asks me how can I go back to my relationship after this and I tell him that until he tells me he wants to be with me, then I'm not leaving my relationship. Things feel awkward so I go.
That night I text, no reply.
The next day I text, "was the condom the only issue last night?" he replies "what does it matter." I reply "I want to know..." no reply.
I get fed up and send a long lengthy text about how I love him
He probably wanted to see if you'd cheat on your bf and since you were all ready for it, he changed his mind....
Plus now he got a love declaration...
Girl...
To be fair, he told me he loved me first.
Of course he did.
So what happens with your boyfriend?
We are now on a break because I needed to figure out what I'm doing.
Ah & I'm assuming he doesn't know you were ready to cheat? Sooo he's patiently waiting for you to make up your mind about the Scorpio?
Damn hopefully karma's nice to you.
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I wouldn't word it exactly like that. We've been having some deep issues with our chemistry so the break was bound to happen. The Scorpio incident just kicked me in the ass to do it.
Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
Hm I don't know, do Scorpios go back after finding out there interest are not faithful enough during, and before, even afterhooking up because most alreayd know the person inside and out.Everyone can do hook ups.He will when he needs a side piece. Anytime she tries to get her life in order, he will turn up. Thanks to social media ex's can sense when someone is about to break free.
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He actually does literally show up every time I'm getting my shit together. Wow.
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.
I don't feel bad I just know it was morally wrong. This scorpios love matters more to me than any other person.
Posted by babydolphin92
This time around I'm in a relationship. He knows but he thinks hes better for me.We meet up and he reveals to me that he gets used for sex a lot lately. we get intimate, suddenly mid-intimacy he runs off and comes back fully clothed claiming the condom was too small. He asks me how can I go back to my relationship after this and I tell him that until he tells me he wants to be with me, then I'm not leaving my relationship. Things feel awkward so I go.
That night I text, no reply.
The next day I text, "was the condom the only issue last night?" he replies "what does it matter." I reply "I want to know..." no reply.
I get fed up and send a long lengthy text about how I love him
He probably wanted to see if you'd cheat on your bf and since you were all ready for it, he changed his mind....
Plus now he got a love declaration...
Girl...
To be fair, he told me he loved me first.
Of course he did.
So what happens with your boyfriend?
We are now on a break because I needed to figure out what I'm doing.
Ah & I'm assuming he doesn't know you were ready to cheat? Sooo he's patiently waiting for you to make up your mind about the Scorpio?
Damn hopefully karma's nice to you.
I wouldn't word it exactly like that. We've been having some deep issues with our chemistry so the break was bound to happen. The Scorpio incident just kicked me in the ass to do it.
Right but you know all of this, unfortunately for your current boyfriend... I'm assuming... he's not aware of your love for the Scorpio and that you almost fucked... Also to add to insult the Scorpio stopped it... Wasn't even your decision. So your bf is in the dark about all this, otherwise he probably ( if he has a backbone) would clear things up for you quick and break up.
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Yes this is accurate. He would dump me in a second.
Messy
What about your bf's feelings?
The Scorp will probably always keep coming back and then going away.....is that what you want....a messy life ?
Posted by GetMisted
He'll come back.. but only because he knows you're an unfaithful hoe he can get some from.Other than that.. don't expect anything long term.
Harsh bruh. Not a hoe.
Posted by MyStarsShine
MessyWhat about your bf's feelings?
The Scorp will probably always keep coming back and then going away.....is that what you want....a messy life ?
I want my best friend back.
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.I was with a Scorp and I know how twisted and depraved it could get. Luckily i had enough sense to stay single till I was over him.
I hope OP understands the seriousness of the issue 😢
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This is extremely serious I'm having panic attacks over it, some comments just gave me some comic relief from my anxiety.
Posted by MyStarsShine
MessyWhat about your bf's feelings?
The Scorp will probably always keep coming back and then going away.....is that what you want....a messy life ?
I want my best friend back.
Who is your best friend?
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The scorpio. Our friendship started in 8th grade when HE was the one in a relationship but he wanted me anyhow. All those late nights on the phone, in the park, all the laughs the dark mysterious sides of him. I'll miss that if I fucked it up.
Posted by GetMisted
He'll come back.. but only because he knows you're an unfaithful hoe he can get some from.Other than that.. don't expect anything long term.
Harsh bruh. Not a hoe.
Harsh maybe.. but the truth.
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I wouldn't use that word tbh but I would say that you need time away from both these men to sort out your confusion
......it's not fair to everyone to live this way....yourself included
Be your own best friend and then you may be in a position to have healthy relationships
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.I was with a Scorp and I know how twisted and depraved it could get. Luckily i had enough sense to stay single till I was over him.
I hope OP understands the seriousness of the issue 😢
This is extremely serious I'm having panic attacks over it, some comments just gave me some comic relief from my anxiety.
I will be very honest. I stay away from these type of topics.... but this one idk. I feel you are kinda broken. Or hurt. Maybe you are trying but you need to pick the hard choices and do the right thing. Ten YEARS! Add to that this cheating.
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Yes broken.....
We all are to some extent. It is unfair to drag others into our mess though
People are intent on depending on others to heal them, they end up in all kinds of messed up situations
Gemitati?
I think I'm going to go off the radar from both guys until I get myself together.
Posted by babydolphin92
I think I'm going to go off the radar from both guys until I get myself together.
It is probably the most healthy option...
Posted by babydolphin92
I think I'm going to go off the radar from both guys until I get myself together.
It is probably the most healthy option...
Posted by babydolphin92
I think I'm going to go off the radar from both guys until I get myself together.Can't you stay away from them forever? Getting in touch with the Scorp wont help you and the other guy got cheated on.
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The Virgo I can stay away from. The scorpio I cannot make promises on.
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.I was with a Scorp and I know how twisted and depraved it could get. Luckily i had enough sense to stay single till I was over him.
I hope OP understands the seriousness of the issue 😢
This is extremely serious I'm having panic attacks over it, some comments just gave me some comic relief from my anxiety.
I will be very honest. I stay away from these type of topics.... but this one idk. I feel you are kinda broken. Or hurt. Maybe you are trying but you need to pick the hard choices and do the right thing. Ten YEARS! Add to that this cheating.
Yes broken.....
We all are to some extent. It is unfair to drag others into our mess though
People are intent on depending on others to heal them, they end up in all kinds of messed up situations
Starlover, I felt something with this OP. I feel she did try to move on from this guy.... she has to try harder and be strong. I was there few years ago and it would have helped had someone listened, js.
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Yes strong indeed. I have been there and it can be so difficult as you know, but possible. Once through it, life becomes a lot less complicated and people don't get hurt
It's the only way
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.I was with a Scorp and I know how twisted and depraved it could get. Luckily i had enough sense to stay single till I was over him.
I hope OP understands the seriousness of the issue 😢
This is extremely serious I'm having panic attacks over it, some comments just gave me some comic relief from my anxiety.
I will be very honest. I stay away from these type of topics.... but this one idk. I feel you are kinda broken. Or hurt. Maybe you are trying but you need to pick the hard choices and do the right thing. Ten YEARS! Add to that this cheating.
Yes broken.....
We all are to some extent. It is unfair to drag others into our mess though
People are intent on depending on others to heal them, they end up in all kinds of messed up situations
Starlover, I felt something with this OP. I feel she did try to move on from this guy.... she has to try harder and be strong. I was there few years ago and it would have helped had someone listened, js.
Yes strong indeed. I have been there and it can be so difficult as you know, but possible. Once through it, life becomes a lot less complicated and people don't get hurt
It's the only way
I believe it is in us to be strong, if anything I gained a lot by moving on and kinda cringe about my past 😡
Glad we made it! Sometimes I used to think i wouldn't.
Hope OP gets there.
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It is amazing what we can do when we decide to move on with our lives.....I sometimes cringe a little too when I recall how needy I was
What was your former user name? 🙂
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.I was with a Scorp and I know how twisted and depraved it could get. Luckily i had enough sense to stay single till I was over him.
I hope OP understands the seriousness of the issue 😢
This is extremely serious I'm having panic attacks over it, some comments just gave me some comic relief from my anxiety.
I will be very honest. I stay away from these type of topics.... but this one idk. I feel you are kinda broken. Or hurt. Maybe you are trying but you need to pick the hard choices and do the right thing. Ten YEARS! Add to that this cheating.
Yes broken.....
We all are to some extent. It is unfair to drag others into our mess though
People are intent on depending on others to heal them, they end up in all kinds of messed up situations
Starlover, I felt something with this OP. I feel she did try to move on from this guy.... she has to try harder and be strong. I was there few years ago and it would have helped had someone listened, js.
Yes strong indeed. I have been there and it can be so difficult as you know, but possible. Once through it, life becomes a lot less complicated and people don't get hurt
It's the only way
I believe it is in us to be strong, if anything I gained a lot by moving on and kinda cringe about my past 😡
Glad we made it! Sometimes I used to think i wouldn't.
Hope OP gets there.
It is amazing what we can do when we decide to move on with our lives.....I sometimes cringe a little too when I recall how needy I was
What was your former user name? 🙂
We are past that now! Yayyy! 😄
I'm InstantKarma, you were kind enough to give me a tarot reading :-)
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Praise the lord lol 😛
Hello! Did the reading help you?
Posted by babydolphin92
I get fed up and send a long lengthy text about how I love him but I won't be ignored like this so he can think about things and get back to me when he's ready to meet.a day later and no reply.
have I messed up for good?
Demanding a modicum of respect? Yeah your a monster.
I could use a tarot reading lol
Posted by dolluxe
Wow. I'm so glad my Gemini friend's not as nonchalant about these situations as you are OP.I was with a Scorp and I know how twisted and depraved it could get. Luckily i had enough sense to stay single till I was over him.
I hope OP understands the seriousness of the issue 😢
This is extremely serious I'm having panic attacks over it, some comments just gave me some comic relief from my anxiety.
I will be very honest. I stay away from these type of topics.... but this one idk. I feel you are kinda broken. Or hurt. Maybe you are trying but you need to pick the hard choices and do the right thing. Ten YEARS! Add to that this cheating.
Yes broken.....
We all are to some extent. It is unfair to drag others into our mess though
People are intent on depending on others to heal them, they end up in all kinds of messed up situations
Starlover, I felt something with this OP. I feel she did try to move on from this guy.... she has to try harder and be strong. I was there few years ago and it would have helped had someone listened, js.
Yes strong indeed. I have been there and it can be so difficult as you know, but possible. Once through it, life becomes a lot less complicated and people don't get hurt
It's the only way
I believe it is in us to be strong, if anything I gained a lot by moving on and kinda cringe about my past 😡
Glad we made it! Sometimes I used to think i wouldn't.
Hope OP gets there.
It is amazing what we can do when we decide to move on with our lives.....I sometimes cringe a little too when I recall how needy I was
What was your former user name? 🙂
We are past that now! Yayyy! 😄
I'm InstantKarma, you were kind enough to give me a tarot reading :-)
Praise the lord lol 😛
Hello! Did the reading help you?
Hi:-)
Yes, a lot!
A simple reading and the card was read as 'Movement' I went and met someone and we are close now :-)
Hope you and kid loves your new home....
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Nice 🙂. So glad it helped. I am trying to remember which deck that was from as I have many. Good luck with the new person
Love the new home very much.....thank you x
So he did come back, very kindly in fact. I'm treating lightly so as to not look needy.
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Trying to make this as short as possible.
Scorpio man and I have been close friends for over 10 years. We have fiery flings and then it ends bad and we dont speak for a couple years but he or I always come back to the other. This time around I'm in a relationship. He knows but he thinks hes better for me. We meet up and he reveals to me that he gets used for sex a lot lately. we get intimate, suddenly mid-intimacy he runs off and comes back fully clothed claiming the condom was too small. He asks me how can I go back to my relationship after this and I tell him that until he tells me he wants to be with me, then I'm not leaving my relationship. Things feel awkward so I go.
That night I text, no reply.
The next day I text, "was the condom the only issue last night?" he replies "what does it matter." I reply "I want to know..." no reply.
I get fed up and send a long lengthy text about how I love him but I won't be ignored like this so he can think about things and get back to me when he's ready to meet.
a day later and no reply.
have I messed up for good?