Scorpio dominant personalities and saying things they dont mean.

Every time I get into an argument or ask Scorpio Stellium person for more emotionally, he tries to flip the situation or say "I just cant do this anymore". Never once has this person actually meant it. The next day, as long as I don't push and pry, he acts as though nothing was ever said. If I do pry and react to these statements all hell breaks loose and I turn into the bad guy and am pushed away for awhile. Why tell someone you want to go your separate way when you don't mean it. Are they really that stubborn? Its as though I cant bring up anything that bothers me unless all starts are aligned, and the situation is perfect, without him completely breaking down. The newest thing is also trying to make me jealous by suggesting others are interested, then later saying it was exaggerated or downplays what he actually said. Its very peculiar behavior to me. I think he actually makes up scenarios that are completely false to get me upset. We've been together for 4 years and I feel like this should be fucking over by now.

Posted by heliumfiasco
Every time I get into an argument or ask Scorpio Stellium person for more emotionally, he tries to flip the situation or say "I just cant do this anymore". Never once has this person actually meant it. The next day, as long as I don't push and pry, he acts as though nothing was ever said. If I do pry and react to these statements all hell breaks loose and I turn into the bad guy and am pushed away for awhile. Why tell someone you want to go your separate way when you don't mean it. Are they really that stubborn? Its as though I cant bring up anything that bothers me unless all starts are aligned, and the situation is perfect, without him completely breaking down. The newest thing is also trying to make me jealous by suggesting others are interested, then later saying it was exaggerated or downplays what he actually said. Its very peculiar behavior to me. I think he actually makes up scenarios that are completely false to get me upset. We've been together for 4 years and I feel like this should be treetrunking over by now.

What you have said, my scorp does the same thing. He will say things and then the next day act as though everything is cool. And if I bring it up, he gets mad.

He has said some hurtful things but has never acted upon it. Its like...can you even hear what you're saying!! It's bizarre and not even necessary. I wonder and question if he even means those things but who knows.

Sometimes I think he is testing me to see how I react and behave back

Its just super immature. I don't think its a test in my situation. I just want to understand what insecurity is causing this behavior. Its impossible to deal with.

Posted by Scorpi
Seems like your just not compatible 😢

I'm starting to really reevaluate things. We had a rough start, a great middle and now it seems communication is at a stand still no matter how hard I try.

Posted by starwars
i think its just that they want to be really understood. feel fursrated when you dont or cant see where they're coming from. they expect you to understand them without the need for them to explain and discuss things. but they should be mature enough to understand that communication and relationships take two ways-people.

he sound really immature.

I agree with everything you've just said. He wants me to understand his perspective but to me he just puts no effort into the relationship and when I question that, he completely shuts down. I try everything to have a logical conversation and I don't understand why it turns into an emotional mess on his part. I can approach him in the most gentle non-confrontational way I know possible and he reacts like I just called him a POS.

If he PERCIEVES that ive insulted him in anyway, he gets very hurt and in turn needs me to feel the same.

If he PERCIEVES that ive insulted him in anyway, he gets very hurt and in turn needs me to feel the same.

How long has this been going on for? Is it a continuous thing?

Posted by exo
it's not a scorp thing. he's just emotionally immature. a pansy fuckboy. next.

Pretty much. I have a Scorp Stellium and nothing written thus far applies.

Yeah sorry but that's just them .... has nothing to do with maturity in my opinion ... they just know how push buttons .... kings at it ..... thank God I have a mars in scorpio so I get it to some extent ... Good luck

Posted by mk89
How long has this been going on for? Is it a continuous thing?

This is very important. How long has it been going on?

He could be having doubts about the relationship and starting to do the push/pull bit in which they want to leave, but the commitment side wont let them. So they push/pull until you are the one that ends it.

But then again, it could be the opposite. He's upset that the communication is broken, and needs to feel that you are holding on as much as he is.

Don't forget, Mercury is going retrograde until May 22, 2016.. Hence, communication issues.

So if in a fit of crazy - if he says something extreme, like we're over and you say OK and leave, I'm guessing by this thread, that is not the right reaction? This is some sort of emotional manipulation and he is expecting you to put him back in the power seat? Hmm very frustrating and exhausting.

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Posted by exo
it's not a scorp thing. he's just emotionally immature. a pansy fuckboy. next.

Pretty much. I have a Scorp Stellium and nothing written thus far applies.

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You are a Goddess among God less, imitation vanilla extract, blown out assholes though.

This basic bullshit doesn't apply to you. Either of you.

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Posted by TaurusinTexas
So if in a fit of crazy - if he says something extreme, like we're over and you say OK and leave, I'm guessing by this thread, that is not the right reaction? This is some sort of emotional manipulation and he is expecting you to put him back in the power seat? Hmm very frustrating and exhausting.

I told my husband he looks ugly when he's angry.

Then he went "well you look ugly all the time".

Then I'm like "u fugly as fuck"

Then he goes "naw u fuglier"

Then we laugh and eat I've cream off each other's face.

It's just they react when you give direct criticism I always turn it into a joke then they are cool.

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That's my experience with them as well.

You just have to call them on their cray cray while letting it roll off your back like water off a duck.

Posted by exo
it's not a scorp thing. he's just emotionally immature. a pansy fuckboy. next.

Uh hell yeah it is a scorp thing all of them do it

Posted by b2live12

Posted by exo
it's not a scorp thing. he's just emotionally immature. a pansy fuckboy. next.

Uh hell yeah it is a scorp thing all of them do it

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Yes yes and yes its scorp thing

nope..not a "Scorp thing" at all.

Scorp stelliums give their entire soul to a person they are into. When they tell someone they are done however...THEY ARE DONE.

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Posted by b2live12

Posted by exo
it's not a scorp thing. he's just emotionally immature. a pansy fuckboy. next.

Uh hell yeah it is a scorp thing all of them do it

Yes yes and yes its scorp thing

you're both cry babies.

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its not my fault I notice it and that its true

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Posted by heliumfiasco
If he PERCIEVES that ive insulted him in anyway, he gets very hurt and in turn needs me to feel the same.

That's typical scorpio behaviour. We also sting a lot when we feel hurt. I said really mean things to my ex the other day but I didn't mean them. I was even annoyed when i realised that he believed the shit coming out of my mouth during arguments.
Don't engage in arguments with a scorpio, we will literally turn it into a stinging match and walk away (then come back ) like it's nothing.
Like "hey babe what's up"

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The hell that shit is normal. My arguments with my Scorp are all "I make my point, he makes his point, and we both stare until someone blinks".