Scorpio encounter.

The topic actually is about Scorpio nature. This man is my English teacher. He always seem to people with extremly high sex drive (always tease women no matter who they are) and intimidate others. I dont know what kind of drive he has to play such game, but the only thing that I can say is will be this sort of drive is simply will bring alot of trouble in his life.

His sex drive towards women and teasings looked to me as a sort of game. Untill today. Today I have learned that he was intimidating his coworkers at job (another scorpio confessed that to me LOL). Intimidating people in work place is serious problem. He is American and he works with American teachers. His object of agression is always them (once it was a student). He never ever intimidated myself. There wasnt such experience. But I can see some sort of submission in his actions as well. I mean towards me. I dont know is this a Scorpio and Pisces connection, but if he would there would be a fight. In addition to that, some people (espesially women) start to fear his actions. One of these women is a girl, a student of our class. He always tease her (even ask for marriage LOL). Ok this way of action is funny, but she also fears of him. The last Sunday she definetly was intimidated by him. I aked her if she was intimidated, and she replied "yes".

Another day he picked up a girl into his shoulders and carried untill 8th floor. Yea this is funny part, but he always pass the limit. She has screamed all the way. We have jumped from our class and see him with her. Its ok when this is game, but when he pass the limit that become serious. With every passing day I feel more and more pissed off by his actions. Yea you may say that I am weird about that, because this is not me who is target, but I cannot stand for such situations as well when done to another one.

Any ideas?

Sorry for my text. I haven't re-read it before hit "post message" button. Even I disgusted with my post, when I re-read it.

What exactly are you asking in this,if it's for opinions on this.He's a punk and yes thats sexual harrassment from one scorpios point of view.No touching allowed with students or coworkers.Anything that offends a person can be considered sexual harrassment.

Hello Haffo

This is a serious problem & needs immediate attention. But I believe there are support sytems which handle such matters. Just find it out.

Are you jealous? :-P
Ok maybe not , but it seems like it. Not just a tad bit?

Yes Tiamat. I agree. This is sexual harrasment. I also suspect that he is aware of what he is doing. He was living in America before he came here, thesrefore maybe he thinks that whatever he cant do in America, he can do here. If this is true, then that would be the most dangerous situation that we can expect from his motives. My point of posting this post was to try to understand his motives or drives that make him to act like that. I have difficulities in doing it.

Lonneybird. I'm pretty sure that there are ways that already exists when it comes to handle such situations. But on the other hand, students here are very stupid. Really. Let me give you an example. One of the students that I saw yesterday has came to the class for speaking activity. This is soo stupid because when teacher tried to make them speak (asking questions) he stayed in silence. These students pay money for that course and they still have no internal drive to turn these money that they have spent into something usefull for them. I mean, if you have paid money, then learn English. Teachers dont have to make or force you to speak, write or anything else. It is you who will do all these. Stupid students. Also these students are not in few numbers. I would say 80% of all students are stupid. Maybe this Scorpio teacher is simply aware of that, and thinks that students wouldn't do anything bad towards him because of his actions. That exact reason may makes him stay at distance from me, because I'm different. I dont do everything like these students do. Instead, I always do everything that I need, even if this is out of chart (means not in class time etc).

BeautifulScorpion. Yes I am jealous 😄. And jealous big time. This is really good how he keep himself popular in this enviroument. I and that teacher have very alike psychological make up. I even think that I can became very alike to him in couple of years. But I also question his motives. Some of them are not acceptable. I mean intimidating persons in a way with showing knuckles is not something acceptable. When it comes to women, maybe he has much more experience with them and that makes him to feel free to walk on them that easily. Somtimes, I also think that these women actually like how this teacher acts toward them. That girl in our class who felt offended, didnt said anything when teacher offended her. Why? She already have told him before to stop doing these things toward her. But she never said to stop when he continued doing all again. Why? I think she likes it. I dont know. Maybe I am wrong. Maybe she fears him. But again, why fear? There are too many people who can protect her in that place. I mean, teacher is the only one person and we students are 15. What chanses does he have towards us if he attack her in front of us? No chance. I am simply confused.

Aren't you from another country haffo?I just thought of something else that you could have been meaning.No,that is not exceptable behaviour here either,thats law suits,jail time and a little sexual preditor label on your record in america.Look into your laws about it.That could be illegal where your from too.

Oops,posted at the same time.That could very possibly be how he thinks.Other than the above posts actions you may want to check into the school boards rules and regulations to find out the penaltys for it.Then talk to the other students and let them know the money thing won't be an issue if it's set up like americas laws anyways.And TRUST ME if you see that this way you won't have to worry about being like him.Sexual harrassers don't see thier victems as anything except as objects for thier pleasures.He shouldn't be a teacher ANYWHERE for the facts that theres toying with students sexually and threatening them in a physically harmfull way.

I was talking about only his good sides. Means: Teasing girls, making fun on their insecurities etc. I never meant that I have alike psychological make up in intimidating or threatening people. If you didnt get it like that then there is no problem.

There is also one interesting thing. He said to us that he was a Professor of language science in America. Quite good position isnt it? I mean good money, good title etc. Why a person should leave all of these that he gained for years (Professor status is not gained in a week 🙂) and then travel all around the world to teach people English? Maybe he was forced to leave all of these because of the same behaviour in America? Ok, maybe I wrong, but possiblity is very high tough.

Yes that is very likely,Americas schools won't hire people with anything like that on thier backgrounds and it's very rare that a student here won't report it.

any one who is a teacher or person of authority should not intimidate or sexually harass, there is a time and place for that if a scorpio feels a need for it, it probably makes him 'feel' better about himself doing it...