Scorpio ex trouble!!

Me and my boyfriend broke up, however he was still coming around and texting me and still coming around on his own terms of course and every time he did come around it seem like when we were about to reconnect he would remind me that we aren't together.

We have been broken up for three weeks. He has since then came to my home on several occasion late night and I already knew he wanted sex. The third time he came however he called me and I did not answer calls because I decided not to be a victim of his games anymore. That's when all hell seem to break lose lol... he told me to never call or text him again because I did not answer the phone the last time he wanted to come over, and I found out later that he actually was standing at the door when he called but never knocked. He blamed me for not coming to the door though lol..

Seeking revenge he told me to never call or text him again. I talked to him and we got into an argument. I can tell he was just being mean to me and wanted to be dramatic. So I decided to let him cool off.

A couple of days past...I text him ..He ignored it. But then called me back stating that he told me to never call him again or text. I told him I was only giving him time and space and that he really shouldn't be acting like a jerk about me not answering phones because he is only playing games with my emotions when in fact if he really want to move on we don't need to keep being attacted in any way because I was still emotionally attatched and don't like to be strung along. Once again argument started I ended up crying . He hung up.

So I finally decide to move on ...

the next day he calls me up and sounds as if he wants to get back together, I tell him that its possible and I did want him back ...he then asks me if I had been sleeping with another guy...I tell him no which is the truth ...so starts to laugh and ask me again...I say "no " once more...so that when he states that he knows for sure that I was with someone because I was seen slobbering a guy down near the store in my neighborhood..bogus very bogus...I asked him if whoever saw me tell him a detail of me and they guy he couldnt answer..he then starts to exaggerate the story so I tell him he's lieing...

he finally hangs up and I pissed because he's acting like a jerk and I know the story is bogus...

I finally get to talk to source ...his little cousin had saw me hug a guy at the store lol... the guy I hugged was a friend who I hadnt seen in years we

are very close and he lives in my neighborhood and have met and talked to my ex before so basically if he saw me he should have known who the guy was...truth is he never did see me...his older cousin (the mother of his little cousin) confirmed that her son did infact tell him he saw me hug someone but my ex was exaggerating the story...just as I thought.

So the next day my ex text me sarcastically apologizing for calling me names but yet he still believes I've been sleeping around after we broke up lol...I politely tell him that there was no need in him apologizing in anything he didn't see at all anyways...that kinda pisses him off but instead of truly apologizing he now adds in the detail of him and his cousin seeing me walk home with the guy ...that is when I finally let him know that I know the whole truth ...and that his family knows of the lies he is telling...the I tell him I'm going to turn off the phone.And did just that .

I woke up with 5 messages him still trying to make me feel bad ...the last one was at 12:45 am (about 2 hour difference from the last sequental messages that he had sent) so it kinda seem like he was looking for me to respond back...let a couple of hours pass then try to start up an argument again...

on top of all this...I learned he called my mom on the 4th of July probably because he had stopped by my house while happening to be partying with his friends who also lives in the same neighborhood as I ...he never calls my mom...

I know he is missing me but this Scorp is really ruining his chances of me coming back ...I still care for him.

Why would he act this way when he's the one who wanted to break up...he's even told me I need to move on and not stay emotionally attatched but now he's all emotional...

I love your dramz. 🙂

He acts that way because you allow it. You get off on it.
It's a dance you two have perfected. Over and over and over and over....

mmmm good ol fashioned scorp throwdown! give him hell, he loves it!

youve done things to him and now your gettin it. this is awesome, takes me back to those ol days with door slams, phone hang ups, sleeping with best friends.... mi amore

I read all your post and yes I am being truthful I even told him that in fact I did hug a guy and he was like responded in a fashion in a sort of "ahaha u bitch I caught u " that's when I let him know that I had spoken to the cousin who claimed he saw me and that she had seen his drunken text ....he normally acts this way when he drinks to much

and as far as me "sitting home being a good girl" I think that is the problem ...he knows I don't hang I ...I barely go anywhere and just as I said before even if I did leave home his hangouts are right in the same neighborhood he would see me walk around I don't have a car...in fact the friend he hangs with apartment i just found out a couple of days ago is about 4 doors down on the other side of the four way at the end of my drive facing my apartment lol..im pretty sure he sneaks a peek at my apartment all the time just to see if someone is in my drive way...I have been wondering how come he text then shows up like 3mins later now I know exactly where he's been

yeah he's trying to sting..in fact he's been looking for any reason to sting and I haven't given him any that why he ran and exaggerated this story his 9 year old cousin told him...his best friend even PMed me on facebook to apologize to me because this scorp had been saying things to him he even knew wasnt true...

and as for as me doing things to him ...I've had to call the police to escort him away from my house because he got drink and started raging in front of my kids one night ..it got reported to my landlord the rules where I live is that I can possibly get evicted or the person I have had a problem with gets barred from the premises for 2 years...I put my apartment on the line in order not to get him evicted as he was helping me in hard times..( i suffer from anxiety attacks and sometimes stop breathing in my sleep)...scorp kinda took this hard and felt bad about it but he can be a bit arrogant so that's when he started acting out & blamed me for hurting him (victim game)...packed up all his clothes left came back a couple of days later asked me to help him with some money I did..got what he wanted then said that we are broke up wtf!!

everything got cleared with the landlord..no eviction...no being barred...'we are broken up' but now he's showing up at my home randomly without calling...I catch on that he only wants sex...stop answering after his third attempt...

and he's never trusted me ..he get mad leave the house come back accuse

of having to had someone over lol... i live in a complex everyone knows him and I were exclusive that would be the dumbest thing to do to have a guy over..this is a black neighborhood everyone is nosy as fuq...there have been rumors about him as he is frequently partying but I have ignored him but as soon as his lil cuz hears something he runs with it lol...yeah most definitely he's been waiting for a chance to sting...however since its not serious to me its not affecting me he wants me to chase and argue...no time for it been there done that with him...in the long run I have seen and did this type of battle he will sting himself eventually and I know why...he doesn't trust any woman ..this is one of his LONGEST relationships ever...8 months...usually he will drop a girl after 2 weeks...he's just hurting that why I'm letting him rant...this his hard for him as well as his mom used to abuse him as a child he thinks no one wants him...and everytime I've reassured him he still doesnt believe

he has a very close friend he considers his brother...this guy has even told him he was going to mess up the relationship right in front of me by being to jealous..trying to cause jealousy...and just not wanting to be able to have any thing learn term he even called him out and said that they had been talkin about engagement one day and he told him to not hesitate with me ...his friend has seen him in other relationships so I really don't know the whole story....

everyone is falling out with him...his mom doesnt want anything to do with him ...his brother is talking about him like a dog on the streets so yeah he's hurting...I just want to be there but this incident is messing up the bond...the more he continues to do this the more he's going to hurt or find more pain wish he would stop...I would still be his friend I just dont think we can mend back into a relationship right now...

auto correct is killing my post lol wow ..

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Okay--I ate to keep being harsh but you asked for thoughts--- 🙂

Also, I apologize in advance to my Scorp brethren for giving away this "mystery" but it needs to be said.

I believe he only contacted you to ask you if you had slept with this other guy and used the possibility of getting back to you as a pretense. Sorry. When I was young and immature, I would have done the same thing. A little flirt, a little maybe, maybe..and then the *real* question: did you sleep with this person? We scorps are ALL about getting the information out of people and we will find it out either directly (if we think that will work) or indirectly through other measures.

If he asked you this question, he most likely has lost his trust in you and just wanted to gauge your reaction. Who knows? he may even use what he learned for your reaction to offer the ultimate sting in the end? Then again, he make take pity--OR decide you are not worth it--and scamper away back under a rock in his Scorpionic den never to be *really* heard from again.

Sorry. hate to bring bad news. But no Scorp worth his/her salt recovers after a "jealousy" power play. We just don't do "jealousy" games. In fact, secretly we are happy when it comes to that at the end of the relationship because it allows us to have closure--even if you say its not true.

Bummer, huh?

nope not really a bummer because its backfiring...he lied about a lot of it...now he feels vunerable he even text me a text NOT to go talk to his older cousin because "she was going to whop my ass when I go to her house" that's when I kinda caught on who the little cousin was ...they live in same complex as I can go to my back door and walk straight to her apartment lol...he should have known I would talk to her I don't like my name in any kinda drama like to get it cleared up immediately but that who "she's going to whip your ass bit" was just to get me from contacting her..I've spoken with her before she's cool as hell...

and besides he can play the jealousy game all he wants when he's being jealous over nothing ...truth will come out just a matter of time...but the more it comes out the more he's looking like a liar ...I asked him to describe my look for the past week since this happened "last week" ...he couldn't lol...my hair has been flat ironed I told him ...so I asked him about the guy to describe him .

Posted by IntriguedScorp
😢 Wow. What a sad situation with this guy. There is nothing worse than watching someone sting themselves to the end. Sorry you are going through this.

One can only hope this scorp finds his inner phoenix and soon or he could be down in the murky waters for a long time...

yeah I heard about the phoenix scorp and i really hope he does too ...he's also Venus in Scorp so that where a lot of the trust issues are coming from ...he destroys love before he realizes it..when he felt close to me he pushed and pulled a lot until i stopped chasing that made him finally settle for a while..now he's gone i miss him but gosh he can be bit difficult...

Posted by IntriguedScorp
😢 Wow. What a sad situation with this guy. There is nothing worse than watching someone sting themselves to the end. Sorry you are going through this.

One can only hope this scorp finds his inner phoenix and soon or he could be down in the murky waters for a long time...

and no need to be sorry he's worth my love deep down inside i think he feels that he isnt tho...i just hope he will realize that he is worth anyone's love soon and very soon ...he seem depressed sometime but his pride wont let it show then the drinking isnt helping much ...

he drunk text me all the time lol...kinda cute when he's mad because somehow we can argue and then he will randmoly start joking lol...he likes attention dang near craves it..he's a singer so he's a lady man and flirt and he knows I don't mind that...but he tries to make me jealous ...truth is sometimes I am lol but he's never going to know...he needs/want a strong woman I have been abused myself so I don't want to ever be weak again...but it seems like he is still testing me for weakness lol..he taught me all the ropes told me to "man" or should i say "woman" (lol) da fuq up lol..now that he sees it the strength the love...he's running...

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Posted by IntriguedScorp
😢 Wow. What a sad situation with this guy. There is nothing worse than watching someone sting themselves to the end. Sorry you are going through this.

One can only hope this scorp finds his inner phoenix and soon or he could be down in the murky waters for a long time...

and no need to be sorry he's worth my love deep down inside i think he feels that he isnt tho...i just hope he will realize that he is worth anyone's love soon and very soon ...he seem depressed sometime but his pride wont let it show then the drinking isnt helping much ...

he drunk text me all the time lol...kinda cute when he's mad because somehow we can argue and then he will randmoly start joking lol...he likes attention dang near craves it..he's a singer so he's a lady man and flirt and he knows I don't mind that...but he tries to make me jealous ...truth is sometimes I am lol but he's never going to know...he needs/want a strong woman I have been abused myself so I don't want to ever be weak again...but it seems like he is still testing me for weakness lol..he taught me all the ropes told me to "man" or should i say "woman" (lol) da fuq up lol..now that he sees it the strength the love...he's running...

So would it help to take some time away? Maybe visit a relative out of state for a while so you can regroup? Maybe if you're out of sight, he can get the freedom to rethink what he truly wants. Just a suggestion.

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yeah I'm not going to bother him right now he said he didn't want me to call or ext so that is what I will grant him ...

my bday is coming up soon so I'm trying to keep cheery and move on ...just hope he doesn't pop up with more rants, lies, and bullbutter trying to make me feel bad because it isn't going to work...usually I'm not this strong willed and let things get to me but being that I have anxiety issues I try hard not to get upset or let this bother me so right now I am keeping busy making new friends, about to be in a video shoot...back to my graphic arts...so it helps to take this off my mind

"A couple of days past...I text him ..He ignored it. But then called me back stating that he told me to never call him again or text." Lol! I am embarrassed to share the same horoscope with this dude because this sounds crazy---so crazy that I think something is missing. Don't get me wrong, I have had my "I will all you fuckers with me" moments, but ONLY when provoked. That is the one thing I know all Scorps share. We don't look for trouble, but if we feel you've upset the tide we WILL finish what YOU have started and with a huge bang so you never forget to valuable lesson: don't mess with a Scorpio. With that said, we're not just a bunch a crazy lunatics, even though people love to paint us as such (e.g. defensive and insecure much ), so I think I have to agree and ask. What is being left out?

Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

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Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

*coughs*

*aqua*

*venus*

😄

you will be fine, just remember to BREATHE (paper bag is optional)

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Haha thanks elle! Those cap venus man! I tell ya

Posted by PhoenixRising
"A couple of days past...I text him ..He ignored it. But then called me back stating that he told me to never call him again or text." Lol! I am embarrassed to share the same horoscope with this dude because this sounds crazy---so crazy that I think something is missing. Don't get me wrong, I have had my "I will all you fuckers with me" moments, but ONLY when provoked. That is the one thing I know all Scorps share. We don't look for trouble, but if we feel you've upset the tide we WILL finish what YOU have started and with a huge bang so you never forget to valuable lesson: don't mess with a Scorpio. With that said, we're not just a bunch a crazy lunatics, even though people love to paint us as such (e.g. defensive and insecure much ), so I think I have to agree and ask. What is being left out?

I text him after a couple of days ...just to say hi, wish him well, I heard you scorps sometimes need space and this has worked before with him..just to let him cool off and then communicate. So this third time after sending him a friendly "hi hope you are doing okay miss you" ...2 days past no response...but one night I get a call from him so I think he still playing games...possibly wants another booty call so I don't answer ...I go downstairs while the phone is ringing in my hand....go to the kitchen to get something to drink its was one in the morning...had a lamp on in the living room...I go to the kitchen and that is when I get the text ..."don't call or talk to me again" ....I call him to ask why he's like " you saw me at the door"...HE NEVER EVEN KNOCKED & and he was pissed because I didn't answers his calls...so from then on its been on...this is the first time ever he has done this.

I had already told him to chill out on all the game playing , showing up acting like everything is good, treetrunk then sit and remind me that we have no chance to get back together..repeated this twice..then I that is when I confronted him about trying to string me along...playing with my emotions knowing that I am emotionally attached still..he even told me it was my fault that I still was even though he had tears in my eyes when he said it...we argue...he says he done will never call or com

but still continues to try to play little games by coming over whenever he feels like it ...so called checking to see if I have anyone new...this whole hug thing gives him something to play with just to make things a little better about breaking up

Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

lol do scorpio men ever really get stuck? mine claimed that he doesn't have a problem moving on ...because of my sickness I'm mostly at home all day and I work from home...

in fact that is the reason why he called my mom on the fourth he probably came by and I was finally out of the house lol ..so that pissed him off ...the possibility of me actually moving on when I haven't really ...he never calls my mom just to chat

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Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

lol do scorpio men ever really get stuck? mine claimed that he doesn't have a problem moving on ...because of my sickness I'm mostly at home all day and I work from home...

in fact that is the reason why he called my mom on the fourth he probably came by and I was finally out of the house lol ..so that pissed him off ...the possibility of me actually moving on when I haven't really ...he never calls my mom just to chat

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I don't know if they get stuck lol but I'm saying I don't want to lol

But to me it sounds like even if he doesn't want to be together he doesn't want you to move on. If he will really wants to bet together again he'll ask to be boyfriend and put forth effort.

It took mine 4 days after we broke up to want to try again.


He sounds like he's on the fence to me deciding which way to fall or maybe he just wants to sit there.

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Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

damn ..."stuck"

is that a sag thing?

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Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

lol do scorpio men ever really get stuck? mine claimed that he doesn't have a problem moving on ...because of my sickness I'm mostly at home all day and I work from home...

in fact that is the reason why he called my mom on the fourth he probably came by and I was finally out of the house lol ..so that pissed him off ...the possibility of me actually moving on when I haven't really ...he never calls my mom just to chat

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i would never ever give my scorp the phone numbers of any family member. ever. he would be trying to run the whole family

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Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

damn ..."stuck"

is that a sag thing?

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It's that...how long is long term? thing lol

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Posted by Sag89
Myscorp bf did this to me but we are together again and now I don't know if I really wanna be in the relationship because I'm not really sure if I wanna be stuck with him.

Funny how that works.

damn ..."stuck"

is that a sag thing?

It's that...how long is long term? thing lol

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i have no idea lol. but i know exactly what you mean about being "stuck" with someone. 2 years was way too long for me.

^ yea we are at a year and 2 months I just don't want to live with someone again