Scorpio Femme/Libra Homme

Ignore him...don't call him until he settles whatever he has with that girl. Let him come to you but don't give it up to him so easily.

Don't believe everything he tells you either. Protect your heart.

I think so many women come on here asking if a man wants them and try to analyze his behavior by his sign to see if they can convince themselves to wait around for him to make his intentions known. I don't think I am wrong to say that if a man wants to be with you, he makes his intentions known. sure different signs have different hang ups and defenses and ways of going about things but i think you can tell if a man is into you or not. if you find yourself overanalyzing everything and trying to understand things that just don't seem right, it's because something isn't right.

with this libra i would assume he is being honest that he doesn't want to move on to something new until he gets things sorted out with his present situation, and that is exactly what he should be saying. i would leave things alone until he has gotten things settled down. from my experience, libras don't like to be pushed. they do things at their own pace when they are ready. don't push him to make a decision he's not ready to make, you may regret it. if you're not in love with him or anything you should go on with your life. you don't have to drop things with him but I wouldn't put so much energy into this until he's ready to begin something and makes his interest in you known. he has a lot to sort out before he's ready. once he's ready and he wants to be with you he'll make the effort. my libra was having phsyical relationship, no commitment, not even dating, with another woman when he met me and stopped things with her right away to pursue a relationship with me. although sly about it, he found ways to get to see me and spend time with me during the two months we knew each other after we had just met. two months after we met and spent some time getting to know each other he made his interest in me known after i gave him enough subtle signals to let him know he could. he asked me out and after dating for a month and half asked me for something more serious, stating that he now considered us in a relationship and I agreed. the point is: he was ready for a relationship, and he wanted to be with me. if your libra is ready for a relationship and wants to pursue one with you he will do so. it's right for him to say what he said, that he wants to wait until he has things sorted out with his situation. then you'll see.
I would abstain from sleeping with him again until you know what his interests are for you own sake, since you apparently want more than just that. just my thoughts.

and i agree with gem goddess, the things libras say should not be read into too much, they will say one thing and then another. you will drive yourself crazy analyzing their words. pay attention to his actions more.

Thanks! See, that is what I needed. I would like for QS to look into this as well. However you, IS, are correct. I have already made my mind up to abstain from having wonderful, glorious sex with him and texting or calling (which I don't do much of anyway). It hurts too much. I am not the one to be sneaking around! I have to be open and upfront at all times. Lying just irks me. I take his words with a grain of salt, but I have to wonder though, will he come back? I haven't text him in about a week after he said that he wanted me, but would "catch me later", becoz I had some guests at my house. I haven't tried to initiate any contact with him what-so ever. He said that he's attracted and that he likes me...I took that for what it was, becoz I felt the same way too. But those actions really show what's up! He's elusive and distant, which is not cool, but I'm busy a lot so I can get with that. I just wanted to know that if/when he moves and I move, would he eventually try to pursue me? Like QS said in one of her posts, the best way to snag a Libra is to not chase him. I also wonder that if he is really that unhappy in his relationship, why text me that? He goes "I'm so unhappy in my relationship" one day out of the blue! Im like, wtf? I haven't talked to you in DAYS and that's how I am greeted? So, being the good Scorp that I am, I just let him air himself out. I don't want to be the jump-off (even though that's what it looks like), but I can't stop wondering and thinking about if he would be with me after her...why go through all the trouble of meeting me, sexing me, and talking to me if that's not what you wanna do? He even said that he wished we didn't live in the same n'hood. That's not the reason I'm moving, but I can't help but to be curious to see what happens if I move. Guess I will just have to wait and see. Thanks again...to Queen Scorpio...I know you've had a lot of Libra men in your life...ever seen this? Just curious...

Oh, and if he's so freaking unhappy, then why stay? I know they don't like hurting others' feelings, but damn. This makes me think that I was the convenient one and he chose me for that becoz he was having relationship probs at the moment (duh). So many different variables...butter.

One more question: should I just tell him that this isn't going to work or don't say anything at all and let him wonder what's up with me?

Damn!!! He just text me asking me when and where am I moving— Is he just being nosey, like they are or seeing if I will talk to him or both— I responded with simple answers. I'm doing good y'all!!!

as mentioned before, i wouldn't read too much into what the libra says or texts you. it's hard to tell what the intentions are and you'll never really know. to be honest, i don't even know if they know what their true intentions are. sometimes the texts or statements are for no other reason than to just share what's on their mind with someone, they are honest and will do that. sometimes it is part of their mind games. as i mentioned, you will drive yourself crazy trying to decide which it is.even if you confront them they will still not let you know what they were truly doing. and they say so many things, if you believe them all and take them all seriously you will be rudely awakened. I would be casual as you have been and let him keep contacting you. let him make the effort and give him enough to keep him going, but not enough to think he has you. because he shouldn't have you unless you are in agreement on the terms. don't let him use you if you want more. and prepare yourself, libra-scorpio relationship is not an easy one. in fact, the way it is right now may continue throughout the duration of the relationship: the analyzation of the things he says and his intentions, the confusion, the contradictions, and it may all just end once he's got it set in his mind that the relationship is not perfect enough, that your flaws and incompatabilities are too real to handle.
i can't emphasize this enough though: don't easily trust what they say. approach with caution, be wary.

Thanks, IS. I'm thinking that once he figures out what he's gonna do, then I'll know where I stand. In the meantime, I'm chilling and consider him an acquaintance of mine...see you when I see you type of thing. But absolutely no more sex. I mean that. I will keep you posted on what happens next. May be in another few months or so...you know how they do, lol. Why do Libra men have to be so wack sometimes?

Good now let him chase you. Act serious and make it exciting 😉

@ Gem: thanks. I will try this...

@ Virgogotme: You got jokes?

@ Gem (again): What do you mean "make it exciting"? And how? Any suggestions would be helpful, as this is my first Libra experience...

LOL..another jerry springer episode unfolds...

Why not just dump his sorry ass. Jeez...

you know, since you're a scorp and he's a libra, i would really say it is not worth the effort, at all.