Scorpio girl playing around

As a Leo guy, I fell for this Scorpio girl. Initially, I did her many favors when she asked for and even went overboard to ensure my lady is more than satisfied. Then she said "I love you" and random sex talk emerged from her side (online) for nearly 2 weeks and I thought this may be the signal. I started by asking for a peck after dropping her off and she got mad the next day. Turns out she's in doubt with her current boyfriend (knew from her friend). But I continued to propose being friends with and started seeing other women. Now she's backing up by giving me random praises from time to time, always being the first one to "like" my posts and butting into Facebook comments. She once apologized to me for her demeanor and claims to be going through a rough patch. She's one personality online, but another (ice cold) in person. What's going on?

now that's really confusing.. either she likes you more than her bf and wants you to make a move and become her new bf or she is using you to make her bf jealous...

Posted by beggarsblanket
now that's really confusing.. either she likes you more than her bf and wants you to make a move and become her new bf or she is using you to make her bf jealous...

Sounds like the latter if she's only nice when the bf can witness the exchange

Via Facebook.

Bleh.

But that's the thing, the boyfriend isn't on her Facebook.

She's keeping you as the back up "boi"

Posted by LetltB
She's keeping you as the back up "boi"

Yeah, I was thinking that too. Should I go for the "kill"?

Not to mention the way she dresses every time I see her. So seductive and a tease!

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Posted by LetltB
She's keeping you as the back up "boi"

Definitely^^^

Dressing sexy and being a tease is only a way of safeguarding what she wants from the situation at hand (you to desire her until she makes up her mind).

Best thing to do is nothing. Just be her friend if you really like her and want her once she's made up her mind.

If other girls come your way, don't let Scorp girl get in the way, she's got her own thing going on right now.

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Hmm, play it like Pisces and maybe shy away for the time being?

Posted by Rabbit
I'd extricate myself from the situation ASAP.

Oh, don't worry. The boyfriend doesn't live in the same country 🙂

But before that, should I make her really jealous in person? Like making out with another woman. She's already exhibiting jealousy online.

Aaand that's why you always keep an eyeful on the opposite sex, whether or not you are single. It's our primal nature at work.

Exactly, so I should go for the kill if not to make her more jealous.

Scorpio's weakness is their immense jealousy and I'd like to exploit this (though not overdo) to get them to reveal their true feelings.

Posted by stungboi
Scorpio's weakness is their immense jealousy and I'd like to exploit this (though not overdo) to get them to reveal their true feelings.

That would make you no better than her.

Not to mention an immense waste of energy. smh

Posted by stungboi
Scorpio's weakness is their immense jealousy and I'd like to exploit this (though not overdo) to get them to reveal their true feelings.

The word which came to mind here was 'twat'!

I was going to comment about your list regarding kissing someone else in front of this girl to make her jealous.

Why on earth would you use someone else, another girl, and stick your tongue down their throat when you don't even like them, for the sole purpose to get some reaction out of this girl?

And what then?

You get your reaction and then what?

What exactly will you do with this reaction?

Aside from inserting it up your arse where it belongs!

Forgive my sarcasm, it's not meant as insulting, I'm just saying what I thought. How old are you? You seem to be rather young (she probably is too).

If she has a boyfriend but he's abroad then she's probably been revelling in the attention you had been giving her. It's a nice ego boost. Us Scorps don't mind that occasionally. She's probably got irritated as you pulled away and therefore are not giving her as much attention. This doesn't mean she likes YOU. It just means she's missing an ego boost. That's not gospel but that's my take on it.

If you're interested in her then I'd not recommend playing games or provoking each other. If she wants to piss about while she has a boyfriend then that's her play but I'd either back off or just be her friend and see what happens. Time will tell.

Oh and if someone were trying to or doing something to make me jealous then I'd smell it a mile off and simply not give the reaction that person was looking for. I'm 34 so as a Scorp I've learnt a modicum of wisdom over the years... I like to think! 😉

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Posted by Arielle83
ya play games back. Then you and her can mindfuck each other to exahaustion and then u can create more threads regarding her disrespectful behaviour

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Posted by AgentP911
Oh and if someone were trying to or doing something to make me jealous then I'd smell it a mile off and simply not give the reaction that person was looking for. I'm 34 so as a Scorp I've learnt a modicum of wisdom over the years... I like to think! 😉

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Posted by Rabbit
I'd extricate myself from the situation ASAP.

Oh, don't worry. The boyfriend doesn't live in the same country 🙂

I was totally gonna take this seriously till this comment.

Hahahahahahahhahaha....

Either you're having fun with this thread or you're not a Leo.
Because, a Leo without pride is too depressing to imagine 😢

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You forgot that Leos have ego and it's not to be tampered with.

AgentP911, whatever irritates her, I'll keep doing just that.

Posted by stungboi
AgentP911, whatever irritates her, I'll keep doing just that.

Good luck with that! :-)

Alright, well in this case, just chatting with another chick in the club and holding hands with a female colleague should do the trick.

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Posted by Rabbit
I'd extricate myself from the situation ASAP.

Oh, don't worry. The boyfriend doesn't live in the same country 🙂

I was totally gonna take this seriously till this comment.

Hahahahahahahhahaha....

Either you're having fun with this thread or you're not a Leo.
Because, a Leo without pride is too depressing to imagine 😢

Too much pride in this case. I'm actually starting to feel bad for the girl 😢

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Some sympathy for the lion please!

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Posted by stungboi
Alright, well in this case, just chatting with another chick in the club and holding hands with a female colleague should do the trick.

Why are you being so stubborn on this lost cause? She's not worth it. Keep your dignity.

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I think he's enjoying it-- ?

No other explanation.


@OP

Why don't you ignore her?

Self-respect for the win.

Posted by Arielle83
She isn't yours and never will be. Your tactics are weak and will repulse her. You cant make her jealous, she already has the upper hand. She will see your attempts and walk away. They don't like weak minded men, or boys in this case.

Define me strong tactics then.

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Posted by Arielle83
She isn't yours and never will be. Your tactics are weak and will repulse her. You cant make her jealous, she already has the upper hand. She will see your attempts and walk away. They don't like weak minded men, or boys in this case.

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Repulsing her = pushing her away and back to her bf. As a Scorpio female friend said to me once, comfy and familiar is better than new and annoying...

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What's comfy and familiar?

So going for the "kill" basically. Make out with her, and if she signals, the sex too. After that, do the Pisces and disappear for a month.

Posted by Whatu
"I started by asking for a peck"

Finish by taking her by the small of her back and pash her.

She didn't hesitate, so I gotta make the next move.

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Posted by stungboi
Scorpio's weakness is their immense jealousy and I'd like to exploit this (though not overdo) to get them to reveal their true feelings.

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nice one whatu 😆

Seriously, OP? Are you trying to deliberately hurt a girl?

You are what I would consider "Diva". Instant turnoff in the eyes of a Scorp. Men need to act like Men or we lose all respect. Without respect from a Scorp, you have nothing.

Posted by FixedWater
You are what I would consider "Diva". Instant turnoff in the eyes of a Scorp. Men need to act like Men or we lose all respect. Without respect from a Scorp, you have nothing.

Yup!

Posted by stungboi
So going for the "kill" basically. Make out with her, and if she signals, the sex too. After that, do the Pisces and disappear for a month.

this is nothing like a proud leo would do. this is not cool dude. either be serious or just leave the girl alone. at first, i thought i'd side with you and give you advice. but nah, with that kind of attitude.

Aite, maybe u guys took the words outta my mouth. What I meant by disappear was give her some time off. And of course I don't mean to damage her feelings with my intentions. I'd just like for us to get past that "games" stage.

But still, that seductive look ~0~
Just gotta tell her how I feel and do the deed. She decides in the end.

By the deed, I mean first and second base. I've decided against "disappearing".

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Posted by stungboi
So going for the "kill" basically. Make out with her, and if she signals, the sex too. After that, do the Pisces and disappear for a month.

And if she doesn't give the signal? Stay on and continue this game? Once you engage in mindfuck games, it's extremely difficult to end them. And usually the only way to end is when one party is forced to let go and walk away.

I think there are a couple of threads here about people who initiated sex with a Scorpio girl - one in particular where they'd been friends for years before it happened. Guess what? He lost both the friendship AND the girl after the sex.

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Whoa, not unless he raped the girl.

Posted by stungboi
Scorpio's weakness is their immense jealousy and I'd like to exploit this (though not overdo) to get them to reveal their true feelings.

Can you handle the sting tho? Scorpios can sense your intentions

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Posted by stungboi
So going for the "kill" basically. Make out with her, and if she signals, the sex too. After that, do the Pisces and disappear for a month.

And if she doesn't give the signal? Stay on and continue this game? Once you engage in mindfuck games, it's extremely difficult to end them. And usually the only way to end is when one party is forced to let go and walk away.

I think there are a couple of threads here about people who initiated sex with a Scorpio girl - one in particular where they'd been friends for years before it happened. Guess what? He lost both the friendship AND the girl after the sex.

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ouch. that was my thread. lol. in my defense, i didn't mean to lose her. she disappeared. and i wasn't playing games.

Hah, never had to do a damned thing today and my lady was sucking up to me the whole time we were together. Even had the nerve to go up to one of the girls I was hitting up to ask about their identity.