Cheated with a Leo man

This topic was created in the Leo forum by Simplicity320 on Monday, August 25, 2014 and has 24 replies.

How to Get a Leo Man to Open Up

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@Simplicity320
12 Years

I am a Pisces - Not happily married - had sex last week with a Leo man that I have know for 6 years . I never cheated on anyone my whole life. I am so drawn to this other man. But he's a leo of very few words, I know he hates that I'm married, I know I'm playing with fire but I can't stop thinking about him or ignoring him. I tries a million times . My question is , how do I get him to talk to me and open up ?

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

lol oh man.... this is all too familiar.. its not surprising though.... I've noticed that pisces women are easily led by stronger personalities...... so you're asking about how to get him to open up to you? shouldn't you be getting a divorce first?? or are you jut going to continue to cheat on your husband?

what sign is your husband?

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@TaurusNikki
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by rockyroadicecream
How about you get divorced first?

+1

What is so hard just to get a damn divorce, get your house in order first before you start thinking of going with someone else

Plus since your with a Leo man, you can forget it, Leo's are not about to make any form of a relationship with a woman that doesn't even value the relationship you have, booty call central is just about all your gonna get with this Leo.

You messed up already, you should have divorce your mate first, good bloody luck

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by TaurusNikki

Posted by rockyroadicecream
How about you get divorced first?

+1

What is so hard just to get a damn divorce, get your house in order first before you start thinking of going with someone else

Plus since your with a Leo man, you can forget it, Leo's are not about to make any form of a relationship with a woman that doesn't even value the relationship you have, booty call central is just about all your gonna get with this Leo.

You messed up already, you should have divorce your mate first, good bloody luck

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the great Taurusnikki returns..... nikki is right... once we leo men see you for what you are.... theres no changing.... you're a booty call plain and simple..the line has been drawn......

if you really value your marriage, then stay away from the leo guy... if not, then get a divorce.. I understand that pisces pick their feelings over the rules but you gotta think about your husband for a second.. if you're not happy in your marriage then let it be known, then divorce.

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@TaurusNikki
13 Years1,000+ Posts

This is why some woman get upset that Leo's put them in certain categories

Don't think Male Leo's are stupid

How can the OP expect the Leo to open up..., most Leo's IMO have a hard time showing any form of emotion for the fear of that person using it against them

I don't care how long you know a person, it's their character that will be judged, and the OP just used the male Leo just because things aren't going right, that's the worst thing you can do to a Leo, and probably the only reason that Leo hasn't scratched you yet cause you have history, but don't sleep on the Kimg of the jungle, he will teach you a lesson

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@Simplicity320
12 Years

My husband is a Virgo . Thanks for the big reality check everyone. Some of you judge too quickly. You have no idea how I am and how Ive been feeling since then. I'm going to make things right, I'm planning to change my number and move out of the state.

I know this sounds silly but when I first met the guy, he just came back from the army and wasn't interested in a relationship, so my friend and I did this spell. I don't remember it too much - is that bogus ?

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Simplicity320
My husband is a Virgo . Thanks for the big reality check everyone. Some of you judge too quickly. You have no idea how I am and how Ive been feeling since then. I'm going to make things right, I'm planning to change my number and move out of the state.

I know this sounds silly but when I first met the guy, he just came back from the army and wasn't interested in a relationship, so my friend and I did this spell. I don't remember it too much - is that bogus ?

so you're planning on changing your number and moving out of the state and pretty much making the leo guy feel as if he's at fault...... .lol gotta love them pisces... zero and i mean absolutely zero responsibility.

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@rockyroadicecream
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Posted by Simplicity320
My husband is a Virgo . Thanks for the big reality check everyone. Some of you judge too quickly. You have no idea how I am and how Ive been feeling since then. I'm going to make things right, I'm planning to change my number and move out of the state.

I know this sounds silly but when I first met the guy, he just came back from the army and wasn't interested in a relationship, so my friend and I did this spell. I don't remember it too much - is that bogus ?

...a spell? As in magic.

....*facepalm*

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@Simplicity320
12 Years

No I'm not kidding .

How do I take responsibility ? I'm never Going to tell my husband , I'm trying to make things right with my family. I am sure the leo will be ok if I leave ... Like most people mentioned in this message bOard, I was only a booty call right ?

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

I'm sure he expects you to disappear as you are a married woman.
He's probably surprised you are still around.
What's wrong with communication that goes like this:
"I have decided to work on my marriage, we can't see each other any more."
In my experience Leo males when presented early with this will just walk away.
It's when you linger and lead them on due they then light your ass with fire.

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@CreativeCap
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Simplicity320
I am a Pisces - Not happily married - had sex last week with a Leo man that I have know for 6 years . I never cheated on anyone my whole life. I am so drawn to this other man. But he's a leo of very few words, I know he hates that I'm married, I know I'm playing with fire but I can't stop thinking about him or ignoring him. I tries a million times . My question is , how do I get him to talk to me and open up ?

Why aren't you happy with your husband? Have you discussed this with him and attempted to make things work?

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@osiris626
12 YearsCancer

Pisces women usually give off SUBTLE clues that they are unhappy. I have had a Pisces girl once, though she didn't technically cheat on me when we were still together, she is now cheating with another guy.

Mrs Pisces, I know you must have had your reasons as to why you are not happily married. Something must have been really off, connection between you and your husband got lost or something.

The Leo guy must have been the perfect getaway, to escape from the harsh world you are in now. It must be really hard for you now, mistakes had been done. But it's not yet too late to fix things.

Does the Leo guy still communicate with you? If he is, I hope you don't lead him on. Be frank, and tell him that what you two did was wrong. He will realize this eventually. He may walk away without saying anything or he may roar like a lion but nonetheless he will let go, IF YOU STOP LEADING HIM ON.

I hope i helped good ma'am.

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@AL4813
13 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by osiris626
I hope you don't lead him on. Be frank, and tell him that what you two did was wrong. He will realize this eventually. He may walk away without saying anything or he may roar like a lion but nonetheless he will let go, IF YOU STOP LEADING HIM ON.

this is very key. I know its difficult for pisces to confront a issue head on and prefer to just vanish from the problem completely but communicating to the leo guy that what you did was wrong and you want to make things right with your husband is going to be VERY important in this situation.

By doing this, you now sort of put the ball in his court and if he still pursues you, then you can at least say that you told him you're moving on..... but the worst thing you can do is lead the leo man on....

but remember.... YOU NEED to let the leo guy know..... DO NOT just go cold turkey and just vanish, then you will have a curious cat trying to get to the bottom of why you just disappeared.

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@osiris626
12 YearsCancer

Posted by AL4813

By doing this, you now sort of put the ball in his court and if he still pursues you, then you can at least say that you told him you're moving on..... but the worst thing you can do is lead the leo man on....

but remember.... YOU NEED to let the leo guy know..... DO NOT just go cold turkey and just vanish, then you will have a curious cat trying to get to the bottom of why you just disappeared.

they are always fond of that magic trick of disappearing just when you needed the explanation the most. lol. so i hope mrs pisces here won't do that. communicate with him, even for that last time. you at least owe him that much.

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@PiscesGoddess
12 Years

@simplicity320
He's just filling a void for you right now... This Leo man. I don't think he's important. He's just important right now because he's making you feel good. But he's not what you want. You just want your Virgo to get it together. I think.. Because that's how I feel..

I'm currently dating a Virgo.. This is very interesting. I guess you can say I'm in the same boat but I am not married. What caused you to cheat? Is he not doing his job in the relationship? How did you get close with the Leo in a relationship sense? Is the Virgo boring you? Or too set in his ways? He's not emotional enough and you need that? Give us more info...

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@PiscesGoddess
12 Years

We do like to disappear because we don't know how to handle the situation. We don't want to hurt anyone and we're just stuck so we avoid everything and act as if it never happened..

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@osiris626
12 YearsCancer

Posted by PiscesGoddess
We do like to disappear because we don't know how to handle the situation. We don't want to hurt anyone and we're just stuck so we avoid everything and act as if it never happened..

Now this leaves people hanging, while you swim away.