Scorpio+Leo, break up, LDR

So I met this Scorpio guy 6 months ago, we instantly felt strong chemistry, while I was still engaged to my now ex fiance. I was honest about my relationship status when we met so nothing happened but we exchanged contacts and began texting every day, in a friendly manner. About two weeks from the day we met, due to work, he had to move back to his hometown 300 miles away. I broke up with my fiance two months later because the relationship was bad for a long time already, but we stayed friends - we were together for 7 years, I was honest with the Scorp about all of this and he was always up to date about everything in my life since by the time of the break up we already connected a lot, and were sharing almost every thought with eachother. Prior the engagement break up we saw eachother two times for friendly drinks when he was visiting. He always said he admired my bravery for leaving a bad relationship after that much time, and was not pushy at all. It was not until I was already single that he invited me for a vacation to his hometown, and I accepted. We didn't know where things would go, after a week we were already a couple, he spent all his free time with me, he introduced me to his family and they all loved me (it's a small town, so at first he introduced me to them as a friend who was visiting, but soon it became clear we were in love). He was extremely sad when I had to get back, and 3 weeks after my vacation he came to my town again for a whole week when he met some of my friends. He even cried that evening when I left and wrote me beautiful messages about how for the first time he knows how it is to miss someone so much, and how much he trusted me and knows I was honest and faithful.

Then one day, after he got really drunk, he told me he didn't trust me anymore, that he wasn't sure I hadn't been with anyone else while we were apart, how he can't get over the fact I'm still friends with my ex fiance etc.. It got bad and ended with him saying he can't do this and he is sorry he hurt me so much. I told him I don't have to be friends with my ex if it hurts him so much and that he should have told me sooner how he really felt. He was, mind you, cheated in the past, also in a LDR relationship. He mentioned his exes a lot and I kind of knew he is burdened with all this past stuff, but I hoped he would be honest with me about anything that was bothering him since I was 150% honest with him, even with very very personal and painful stuff.

It's been 6 weeks from the breakup, we texted a little in that time, I was always initiating the contact, he admitted he is doing bad, but he made up his mind, he also said he missed me more than I know and that he should have been more honest with me. His mom even sent me a birthday text card, which says to me he hasn't said anything bad about me to his family, which is his usual MO when someone hurts him.

He is very cold and distant, answering with only a line or two.

So is there a chance? 😢

Hi @baroness maybe try copy and pasting your query in the Relationships & Astrology board...?

Just for some general insights 🙂

You're perfectly entitled to post your questions, don't worry 'bout the lads

And if there is any chance you have more info about moon, Mars, Venus placements etc too it might help.

Good luck

If you ask me, you dodged a bullet with that one.

First (and I know not everyone will agree with me), don't ever let anyone dictate who you are friends with. If they cannot trust you based on who you choose as friends (including ex's), that is on them. I'm personally getting really tired of people these days playing the "You have to put up with it, because I have TRUST ISSUES!!!" card. We ALL do...

Second, he uses his mother as a proxy for his communication with you. MAMA'S BOY-BIG TIME.

You deserve better.

you started dated him while you were still with your fiance. sure things were going bad with ur ex, but you guys were still together at the time. i guess hes afraid you could do the same thing to him

Posted by Ophiuchus
you started dated him while you were still with your fiance. sure things were going bad with ur ex, but you guys were still together at the time. i guess hes afraid you could do the same thing to him

Posted by Daddy

Posted by Ophiuchus
you started dated him while you were still with your fiance. sure things were going bad with ur ex, but you guys were still together at the time. i guess hes afraid you could do the same thing to him

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you have a problem with engaging so you engage the people that engage? 😕