Okay, so I like this guy who is a Scorpio. Well, I'd known him for a while, and then we stopped talking. We had never met in person, at this time. Okay, so one of my friends decide to call me from "Scorpio's" number, and then we just kind of start talking again. Texting all the time, and such. I'm not really one to talk on the phone, I'm more of a texter. Okay, so he's sending all of these flirtacious messages, and I'm aware that when Scorpio's flirt, they sometimes do it sexually. Well, the first time we actually met in person he was REALLY shy. Well, my friend(the same one that had called me from the guys number..) finally got him out of his shell and he started talking with us and such. He was constantly staring at me, and made sure to "slyly" flirt with me. He was not open about it AT ALL. Okay, so the second time that we actually hang out, he's all over me. It was at his band practice(he's the drummer). I know many of the people that are in the band with him, so they had me doing the sound checks, and adjusting everything. Well, everytime I'd look up, he'd be staring at me and whispering to me and everything. He was really open about things. I also know that Scorpio's are pretty closed-off, and don't trust many people, so when they trust to tell you things about their personal life, you should probably feel special, am i right? Well, the third time we actually hung out, we had went to the movies. On the way there, he was again, really shy and pretty quiet, but made sure to sit in the back with me. His friend "B" was driving. Well, during the movie, me and him quietly talked if there wasn't anything good happening. And he kept smiling at me, and looking me in the eyes during our conversation. Well, I was laying on his shoulder, and after the movie was over, we all left and drove around for a bit. While we were driving around, my friend who was with us "S" and "B" got out of the car, and went off somewhere. So, it was me, "Scorpio", and "C" in the car. Well, I'd made a comment about "C" looking lonely. "Scorpio" replies with It's because he doesn't have girl, looks me in the eyes, and smiles. Okay, so on the way to dropping me and my friend "S" off, I'm laying on his chest, and he has his arm around my waist. So, my friend "S" and "B" start dating. Well, "B" tells my friend "S" that Scorpio "likes me as a friend." Yet, Scorpio continues to flirt with me, and such. It doesn't make sense to me, whatsoever.
Scorpio love help??
Well, Scorpio has been hurt badly in the past, and so he kind of has trust issues. Yet, the day we all went to his house, he was VERY open with me. Like i said, he's not one to be open with someone he doesn't obviously trust.
Well, now, he told one of his friends that he liked me as a friend, so is this a cover-up that he really likes me, and is too shy to say anything because he doesn't want to get hurt? Or does he really only like me as a friend? Would a Scorpio even tell his friends rather or not he really likes someone? Just a reminder. He has never really been around steady relationships or anything.
Well, now, he told one of his friends that he liked me as a friend, so is this a cover-up that he really likes me, and is too shy to say anything because he doesn't want to get hurt? Or does he really only like me as a friend? Would a Scorpio even tell his friends rather or not he really likes someone? Just a reminder. He has never really been around steady relationships or anything.

Was he drinking when you went over to his house?
Does his friend like you or flirt with you (and not want to tell you the truth about Scorpio liking you)?
What is Scorpio's Venus?
Does his friend like you or flirt with you (and not want to tell you the truth about Scorpio liking you)?
What is Scorpio's Venus?
Damn how exciting. Keep doing what you're doing 😉
Posted by SexyBanana
Was he drinking when you went over to his house?
Does his friend like you or flirt with you (and not want to tell you the truth about Scorpio liking you)?
What is Scorpio's Venus?
No, he RARELY drinks. He's not so much a party-guy type. More like sit-in-his-room, play video games type. Haha! 🙂
His friend that I found out from "B", didn't tell me, but told me friend "S."
Scorpio himself will not tell me he doesn't like me. Which is odd, because I thought Scorp's were VERY honest.
His MOON sign was a virgo. So, I don't know how to get the Venus sign from that.
And the two guys that have told me he likes me as a friend, Scorpio himself has told me they're either A)Annoying and B)That he doesn't trust them.
So how am I supposed to know if he's going to tell them rather or not he likes me truthfully you know.
So how am I supposed to know if he's going to tell them rather or not he likes me truthfully you know.
Posted by *Tasha
how old r u guys—??
they tell their friends things. i went out with one who told his "friend" i was the one he wanted to marry after our first date
i personally haven't met shy ones. wouldn't want one anyways. my boyfriend was/is so straight forward with me. but my Cappy friend dates a Scorp who told her he was shy and intimidated by her- but he told her this to her face so idk
i wouldn't really think about it so much - u should def know if he likes u...the whole 'friend' thing sounds immature to me honestly
See, that's why I'm so confused. Honestly, it seems to ME as if he likes me, but then the whole "friends" come in and it's just confusing. Seems like to me if he really honestly didn't like me, that he would tell me himself. As I said, Scorpio's are very straightforward with things usually, so what would make this any different?

Um...I'm really confused on the "S" friend and the "B" friend and whatever...
Just cut through all of the mumbo jumbo and red tape and ask him directly! Get it from the horse's mouth. After you get an answer, then you can proceed without all of this unnecessary confusion.
Just cut through all of the mumbo jumbo and red tape and ask him directly! Get it from the horse's mouth. After you get an answer, then you can proceed without all of this unnecessary confusion.

"Um...I'm really confused on the "S" friend and the "B" friend and whatever..."
lol me too
I say stop listening to S and B and listen to SB (SexyBanana) lol.
lol me too
I say stop listening to S and B and listen to SB (SexyBanana) lol.

Hey! Good one Georgia Peach! That cracked me up... Teehee...

Posted by Taurus_gurl3092
Well, Scorpio has been hurt badly in the past, and so he kind of has trust issues. Yet, the day we all went to his house, he was VERY open with me. Like i said, he's not one to be open with someone he doesn't obviously trust.
Well, now, he told one of his friends that he liked me as a friend, so is this a cover-up that he really likes me, and is too shy to say anything because he doesn't want to get hurt? Or does he really only like me as a friend? Would a Scorpio even tell his friends rather or not he really likes someone? Just a reminder. He has never really been around steady relationships or anything.
First of all, I wouldn't trust his friend's opinion about him only liking you as a friend. He wouldn't tell a friend about that unless he was trying to back off from you. Clearly he is interested, but if he has been hurt in the past it will take a little initiative from your side to get things rolling as he is hesitating right now. He does not want to be hurt again obviously and until he knows for sure whether you truly like him or not, he's not gonna go full speed, so you'll just have to show him.
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