scorpio man confuses me

I like scorpion man, but sometimes i dont understand him. My constellation is canser. I have interacted with him for almost a year. At the beginning he made —??the comments of my appearance, as a joke. At first he was in relationship, but he wanted it to stop, and asked my opinion of her ex behavior. We are co-workers, and in the evening we chatted over the Internet for hours. but We are quite similar, and we can understand each other's jokes and make jokes about each other. Sometimes we are just quiet. it is very easy to talk with him. My opinion is important to him. If necessary, he will protect me. All my attention must be directed at him. If hi has insulted me, then he tries to fix it.Sometimes he show me his tongue, or blink his eye, or touch me, or send me kiss. But some days he says that he has three girlfriends, but he does not want to start a family with them. His is looking a woman with who he can have a family. Another time his is saying that it is so easy to talk whit me or we are so good together, our house would be a lot of fun. Sometimes calls me names: honey, sweetheart. We take care of each other if necessary. about half year ago we was talking, and i said that I do not want one night relationship, and he told me thad he cant offer me more .... not yet. so i dont know what he want. sometimes he acts like i am his wife, and sometimes like i am his friend. Does hi just want to be my friend or something more than just a friend?

Every woman gets confused when she likes a man ... it's due to her brain ceasing to work on account of she has a feeling.

This makes the woman weak as fucking hell, though, she's too much into her own emotions to be able to see the whole picture, so will undoubtedly argue that point, which the arguement in of itself serves as proof that her brain ceases to work on account of she has a feeling.

so this is all in my mind (brain). I have scorpio frinds/girlfrinds and they do not act like hi is. that's why i am so confused. I am always honest, and i told him that, he shuld not act like this in work, because we are co-worker. but he told me, he is not doing nothing wrong.

Canser, if he's confusing you this much it's time to put him on ignore.
Go into your shell for a bit and focus on other things, clear your head.

Posted by P-Angel
Every woman gets confused when she likes a man ... it's due to her brain ceasing to work on account of she has a feeling.

This makes the woman weak as fucking hell, though, she's too much into her own emotions to be able to see the whole picture, so will undoubtedly argue that point, which the arguement in of itself serves as proof that her brain ceases to work on account of she has a feeling.

Apart from the "weak as fucking hell" bit, this is one of the nicest and most helpful things I've ever seen P-Angel write! lol

She has a point: you're likely overthinking things because your logical mind is being overwhelmed by your emotions, so you can't see straight.

By my guess this Scorpio guy knows that you two would be great for each other. He can tell that if you two got together you would fall in love, get married, start a family, the whole shabang. He isn't pursuing you directly, however, because he doesn't know if he's really ready for that yet. He has a bunch of women he fools around with, and he knows he can still find plenty more, and while he knows they don't fulfill his needs they are still a lot of fun and he isn't ready to give that up yet.

Be patient and one day he will come around. You can tell him how you feel, and it will likely make you feel a bit better, but you can't force him to make this decision until he's ready.

I have been ignored him about four five days, and yesterday evening he calls to me in skype again. and telling what he has been doing and asked what i am doing. why he has to call me anyway? if I had not responded to the call, he would be mad at me. fortunately he has not talking to me about this other womens, about two weeks.
it is hard to ignore him, if we have to work together.
this over emotions is not like me, i am trying to be like myself again. person who controls her emotions. i am strong person who does not show her feelings.
Sometimes all this makes me laugh.

'if i had not responded to the call, he would be mad at me.'

AND———

the problem is that although you may ordinarily be able to control your emotions, you are too busy trying to second-guess HIS!! that's what is making you feel out of control.

try harder with the ignoring. let him get 'mad' if you don't answer him. you are not a performing dog waiting for his finger-click so you can assume the begging position and make yourself look appealing. fuck that for a game of soldiers!!

he sounds like an asshole. if he has other gf's you should suggest he bore them with his stupidity cos you simply haven't got the time to waste.

It is little bit funny how he acts, when I ignore him. coming in front of my face (very very close) and trying to get my attention (saying something nice or trying to make me laugh).

it is nice to read things what I have been forgotten.
I'm taking slowly - day by day.

Thank you for these answers.

My cancer friend use to say to me when she was in like with a guy and there were issues,

"my judgement is clouded... I need you to help me see."

I totally stole that one from her.

Now when I ignored him, we got this point that he told me yesterday: If I dont whont to be his friend, then there nothing to do. Later in some conversation hi sayd: that I do not like you, does not mean that I do not like the other. Then i realised this has gone to far. So i wrote letter to him in the evening, where i sayd, i like him more than he should. I explaned my behavior, and thad i need to to deal with my feelings. Thats the reason why I havent been there for him, these couple weeks.
When i ignored him, in some point he ignored me to. In the air was to much pressure (stress).
Now I am afraid thad he is never gone talk to me again, because i was to honest.
Or you scorpions like, if peope are honest?

Perhaps it's time to stop ignoring and running from each other and be direct, talk to each other about what you both want.

This morning I did not ignore him, i made him coffe (i arrive in work before him), before i did this every morning. And hi asked this morning, did i make him coffe. yesterday morning i did not make coffe, and hi was confused, thats whay hi sayd, if i dont whont to be his friend anymore, then there nothing to do.
I know he readed my letter, but hi has not answered. I think i should wait, how he responses to me.
I opened my heart/soul, i sayd what i feel. If hi dos not feel like I do, then it is nice to say thad to me.

Posted by Let*It*Be
It is little bit funny how he acts, when I ignore him.



So should we all assume then that you'd be laughing and think it's funny if he should do this to you?

I was just conclude that fact, and I sayd loud my thoughts. It was nice to see, thad my attention is important to him. Maybe i do not express myself thad good in here, because english is not my native language.

Posted by Let*It*Be
"Or you scorpions like, if peope are honest?"


We live for honesty (well most of us)...but we'll walk away the second we know someone is playing games. You are a game player. Not nice..

I do not think, thad i am game player, because he use me and manipulate whit me. He knows I help if someone needs (ask) my help. I started ignoring, because all my emotions beate up overhead. I needed to feagure out about all of this.