Scorpio Man help for Aqua

Any ideas or thoughts you can add would be appreciated:

I am "seeing" casually dating a Scorpio guy. I know he wants to keep it casual but I don't understand a couple of things and never encountered a guy like this:

1. He will say things like he hopes we are in a relationship in the future, is this said to just keep having sex? We have already established this is casual
2. After we sleep together he will call a lot the next day, is this out of guilt? Usually he is very distant, unless I am doing the ignore thing which is really not my style.

Any ideas?

It was his idea to keep it light, when I let him know how much I like him and would love more he does not seem thrilled. So I cut that out and said let me keep it casual with him.
He is the most amazing person I have ever "dated". Not sure if he has had a casual thing before.

He seemed to be a little "over" me, so I started ignoring him because I was mad seemed to get him interested again. But again I don't really play those games well at all.

No, I wish! He is traveling and I have not heard a peep from him, which is his usual way. But is the calling more right after sex, is that out of guilt? If it is I want to tell him it's not necessary.

@getmisted Mars in Leo and venus in Sagittarius

Casual meaning he has told me he does not want a girlfriend, so to me that is casual. Means he is not looking to settle down with me.

Oh dear


This combo rearing it ugly head again

Smh

@Tinxy can you explain? I know Aquarius and Scorpio are not a good match and I have accepted we will never be an item. But I am going to enjoy all the time I get with him for now. I have never met someone that I think about so often.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
@Tinxy can you explain? I know Aquarius and Scorpio are not a good match and I have accepted we will never be an item. But I am going to enjoy all the time I get with him for now. I have never met someone that I think about so often.

I don't think it's a bad match at all

In many ways we compliment each other

We are draw together like flies to shit lol

He will be part of your life for a long time yet be prepared ....

He said the same thing that he does not go away. But I feel like he is so distant but when we are together it is magic.
I feel addicted.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
He said the same thing that he does not go away. But I feel like he is so distant but when we are together it is magic.
I feel addicted.

You see

Beware

2 things
He told me when we were first started he loved me and I said oh I thought taking it slow. Then he said he was joking ugh.
He also told me he can be very jealous and I said was not worried then again said he was joking.

I always feel like I'm gonna lose him because we don't see each other often and he does not call a lot. Very different for me, so that's why I just tell myself it's a sex thing so I don't get crazy. I got a little crazy one day telling him how much I liked him he said I was scaring him I stopped.

Posted by aquagirllovesu
2 things
He told me when we were first started he loved me and I said oh I thought taking it slow. Then he said he was joking ugh.
He also told me he can be very jealous and I said was not worried then again said he was joking.

I always feel like I'm gonna lose him because we don't see each other often and he does not call a lot. Very different for me, so that's why I just tell myself it's a sex thing so I don't get crazy. I got a little crazy one day telling him how much I liked him he said I was scaring him I stopped.

Is that the same guy who jokingly said he loved you? Maybe he was scared because it thrilled him knowing you felt the same way as him. In whatever case, you should've said you were joking 😛

lol I should have but I wanted him to know I was serious.

Thank you flowing water. I will let you know how it goes, he is away now and I don't expect to hear from him until he returns. I don't want to disturb him when he is away.

Good move right to wait and not disturb him during his vacation? Don't want to seem clingy or insecure.