Scorpio Man Libra Woman can it work?

I met my libra wife at work and it was instant chemistry everything about her drew me in. I was at the end of a 5 year relationship at the time so we treaded lightly to start but it was tough due to the insane chemistry. Once I separated we moved into a relationship that we hid from everyone at work in her request. And we had some problems due to this but we worked through them even though we separated once and I slept with a girl out of spite the night of our split. She found out which caused problems but also drew her back to me I believe. Anyways we moved forward with our relationship even after I found texts and FB messages from other guys dating back to before our split and weeks into us getting back together. She says she never slept with anyone only dated as she wasn't sure of me. We stayed together and we got married 11 months after we met. We are now married for 6 months and she lies... over stupid little stuff... and I get jealous and question her every move when I feel threatened. She is a flirt always and doesn't even realize how bad it is... lol. She has guy friends and they are really close with him texting at all hours up to 2 am she doesn't respond but I believe he takes her flirting as a sign and it pisses me off. She has recently lied about money and what she spent at the store then following that up with several lies trying to cover the 1st one. As a scorpio it drives me crazy and makes me not trust her on bigger things. Is this normal with Libras? I love her with every ounce of my being and she says she loves me and would never do anything to jeopardize our marriage. My question I guess is, is this normal Libra behavior or should I trust my scorpio instincts that these little lies are covering up something bigger? Are any of you in this type of relationship? Help I'm driving myself crazy thinking something is going on....

Ask the Libra board.

I'm not touching this situation with a ten foot pole.

I'm painting out all the bad but I wasn't innocent in the early going either... but I definitely think I may want to address these issues more forcibly instead of just brushing things to the side and trying to make excuses for her. I will add that the guy texting her is her boss and I've looked at her phone and she does not answer his text at night and they were all asking about some game... and since we had a blowout fight a month ago things have improved but I can't get past the little lies... I'm worried something did happen then and although things have improved I feel like she's hiding something.... perhaps you guys are right and I have a bad one but I still feel like I should confront her and see exactly what she says before I decide how to handle the situation...
I sound like anything but a scorpio right now with the indecision

Posted by ElleDuMonde

Hey, OP is another Indiana dweller.

I'm a Libra. And there is definitely a difference between an unstable Libra (bad one) and a Mature Libra (good one). This is a bad one, because she is immature. She was hurt that you cheated. Once you did that, she lost respect for and trust in you. You should never have gotten married. However, the fact that she went forward with the wedding means that she did have feelings for you. However, it doesn't matter how much a Libra loves the guy... if the respect is lost, then she will no longer be Faithful.

It doesn't matter if she is sleeping with this "friend". The fact that the friend believes he is a priority over you (her husband) means that she has placed him above you. This is her way of showing you that she no longer respects/honors you. (Its the Libra way of telling you your place in their lives).

If you want the marriage to work, you need to confront her (Not Judgmental) and have a serious, mature, sit-down conversation. You need to have her respect you once more, and put you back in top priority.

Posted by Chuckyslim
I'm painting out all the bad but I wasn't innocent in the early going either... but I definitely think I may want to address these issues more forcibly instead of just brushing things to the side and trying to make excuses for her. I will add that the guy texting her is her boss and I've looked at her phone and she does not answer his text at night and they were all asking about some game... and since we had a blowout fight a month ago things have improved but I can't get past the little lies... I'm worried something did happen then and although things have improved I feel like she's hiding something.... perhaps you guys are right and I have a bad one but I still feel like I should confront her and see exactly what she says before I decide how to handle the situation...
I sound like anything but a scorpio right now with the indecision

sounds like revenge on her part. like you hurt her so she's gonna hurt you worse. with sleeping with other guys and doesn't stop at that either. taking you for a ride. *smh*

yes you sound very indecisive. I don't know how you both are gonna work it out.. let us know what happens.