Male Libra sun Scorpio Venus

This topic was created in the Relationships & Astrology forum by mysteriousTaurus on Tuesday, January 27, 2015 and has 14 replies.

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@beggarsblanket
12 Years500+ Posts

I know a guy with those placements..unfortunately he is a player 😒 over the past 10 years he has dated almost every one of my close girlfriends! and cheated on most of them. he is a superficial person. but I guess it's because his dad was player too. His dad has married many times and has kids from multiple women.

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@Noodle
11 Years

I can only tell you about my personal experience:
Dating one right now, we're coming up on 5 years. As the years progressed I feel like I'm seeing much more of his Venus in Scorpio traits. A bit temperamental, wanting to transform our relationship and to search every corner of my soul. All the while trying to keep the peace - that part must obviously be his Libra conflicting with the Scorpio. Passionate, while playing it cool and more possessive than he lets on but I can see through his supposed nonchalant fa?ade. I'd say he's loyal, but his Libra aspects make him a bit carefree when it comes to him charming the socks off people. I mean, he's a bit flirty but when I feel he's unintentionally about to overstep a boundary I just tell him honestly and he immediately rectifies his behaviour. But all in all he's one of the first men to really see into me, and make me feel that we belong to each other...hope that helps

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@joon
11 YearsCancer

This guy is my boyfriends bestfriend and I am excited to meet him this year.
Why??

Because he is very good friends with my bf's ex. And the ex slept over at his place. So I want to know is it his libra diplomacy of being nice to her or is there something more?

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@joon
11 YearsCancer

Also my first crush was a libra with V in S. I liked him for 2 years but he never got to know.I was 15. He is very charming and a total gentleman. But then my scorpio bestfriend started dating him behind my back. Ya, shit happens.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

Ill pass on that placement then. I would unleash the bull and we would be enemies for life...not even if we were friends and I happen to find out your like this. I would lose your number. Don't need that kind of friend and it's just alot of sstressful gossip or problems.

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@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
11 Years10,000+ Posts

How would you males like to be cheated on. Oh it's not right is it. So go in the mind set of long term relationship and everything would be fine. Because we can work out our problems out together simultaneously. It's suppose to be hardships and fun too. No one is perfect but there are standards why should women lower standards for you guys.. it goes both ways.

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@mysteriousTaurus
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Noodle
I can only tell you about my personal experience:
Dating one right now, we're coming up on 5 years. As the years progressed I feel like I'm seeing much more of his Venus in Scorpio traits. A bit temperamental, wanting to transform our relationship and to search every corner of my soul. All the while trying to keep the peace - that part must obviously be his Libra conflicting with the Scorpio. Passionate, while playing it cool and more possessive than he lets on but I can see through his supposed nonchalant fa?ade. I'd say he's loyal, but his Libra aspects make him a bit carefree when it comes to him charming the socks off people. I mean, he's a bit flirty but when I feel he's unintentionally about to overstep a boundary I just tell him honestly and he immediately rectifies his behaviour. But all in all he's one of the first men to really see into me, and make me feel that we belong to each other...hope that helps

That is very beautiful, I'm happy for you and I wish you the best of luck. But its so hard sometimes to deal with Libra's flirty ways, I am talking to a Libra boy right now, we are serious but not in a committed relationship, I dont think I can ever be official with him because I cant deal with the constant not knowing if he is flirting behind my back, its sad.

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@Noodle
11 Years

mysteriousTaurus, all I can say is that what I keep bumping into is that once a guy with these kind of placements commits... the flirting will still happen but it'll be his way of connecting with people. Even on a superficial level. It's just how they stimulate themselves socially. But once having committed to one person, and you'll know if that happens, they're all about keeping you happy and maintaining the trust between you. You just need to make use of the Taurus patience, go with the flow and see where this guy wants to go with you. But Libra can be slow like Taurus sometimes, especially with ViS. They take monogamy seriously and want to let things happen gradually...

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@Noodle
11 Years

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Noodle, how much do you feel like your Taurus patience paid off with your libra in the outcome?

Quite a bit. The thing about me is, perhaps this is also a Taurus trait, is that I used to become very anxious when dealing with ambiguity. So in the beginning having uncertainty with my Libra made me nervous, but patience was key. Allowing things to develop naturally, letting the closeness happen on its own. Don't over focus on the future, enjoy what you're creating together.

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@Noodle
11 Years

Forgot to add, having an open mind was important. I think we Taurus can be very result-oriented at times and that can get in the way with more Airy signs who enjoy the process

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@mysteriousTaurus
11 Years1,000+ Posts

Noodle, that was put so perfectly. Thank you so much. You're so right and have great insight when it comes to libras. I also feel anxious when I know things are not 100% official, but patience is key when dealing with a libra, the last thing I want to do is scare him off. Tauruses are so willing to compromise for their S/O, libras are lucky to have us!! Lol

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@Noodle
11 Years

Posted by mysteriousTaurus
Noodle, that was put so perfectly. Thank you so much. You're so right and have great insight when it comes to libras. I also feel anxious when I know things are not 100% official, but patience is key when dealing with a libra, the last thing I want to do is scare him off. Tauruses are so willing to compromise for their S/O, libras are lucky to have us!! Lol

Glad I made sense, mysteriousTaurus πŸ™‚ Yeah, technically Libra and Taurus can be great together πŸ˜‰

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@Eris
15 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

I was in a 3 year relationship with someone that had those placements ... Not sure if the traits I saw were because of those placements or not, but these are the traits I know of... Pathological liar.
Cheated on me with men and women.
Broke up with me several times over text message.
Couldn't ever make up his mind on anything.
Fake.
Manipulation.
Anger issues.

I have a child with this guy and he still lies constantly. He told me I had preeclampsia with my last pregnancy, and that it would be a bad idea for me to have more kids... I went to the doctor for the birth report... What do you know... No preeclampsia.

I really wish I could think of some good traits (because he did have a few) I just can't think of any at the moment. I probably should have started with the good :p