Pisces on first date with libra/scorpio male

Hi, as a lot of you are very helpful and know your astrological signs etc,I thought you might be able to help.... Im very confused about someone I dated recently. I am a pisces 26th feb and this man I went on a date with was 22nd October. We emailed backwards and forwards for a good week, as met online, then went out on Saturday near where I live....and had dinner which felt like we were just perfect together....we were there for hours and were the last to leave.

The next day around midday he text to say, had a lovely evening, lovely company and hoped I have a relaxing sunday. To which a few hours later I replied with thank you and likewise. He replies back saying if you ever need a rematch date where I live, more than happy to show you around. I replied, that would be lovely, thank you.

Heard nothing since.....

We chatted, he bought dinner, drinks, many things in common, he is hoping to buy a house and we had a lot to talk about....his emotions are locked tight and he was very serious, I just felt this was the first time in a long time i had met my match......just he isn't texting nothing, or organising a date yet....I thought I would leave it for the middle of this week/end of the week and move on as I don't chase or text.....any ideas when a Libra/Scorpio is interested, heard they keep the communication going, this one hasn't....so he may not be that interested.....

any thoughts?

You said you don't text. Why is that?

Hi, just don't feel comfortable with coming across too keen, prefer to wait for him to suggest a time/date to meet or see if he is genuinely keen...I am a typical pisces...reserved! 🙂

Posted by jojo35
Hi, just don't feel comfortable with coming across too keen, prefer to wait for him to suggest a time/date to meet or see if he is genuinely keen...I am a typical pisces...reserved! 🙂

ugh! why? what have you got to lose if you show how you really feel? just be honest and state what you want. you gotta be direct with a libra.

Posted by jojo35

The next day around midday he text to say, had a lovely evening, lovely company and hoped I have a relaxing sunday. To which a few hours later I replied with thank you and likewise. He replies back saying if you ever need a rematch date where I live, more than happy to show you around. I replied, that would be lovely, thank you.

Heard nothing since.....

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because your response was too dry and too polite without any follow through. you expect him to always initiate what would happen next? you might end up waiting a year with a libra. loool

you could've asked when would be a great time to meet again after saying, "That would be lovely, thank you." was it too hard to ask that?

Posted by jojo35
Hi, just don't feel comfortable with coming across too keen, prefer to wait for him to suggest a time/date to meet or see if he is genuinely keen...I am a typical pisces...reserved! 🙂

Nice to be reserved but we tend to mirror behaviour. If you are reserved, so are we! I think there is no harm in showing you would like to be asked and you probably will be. Otherwise how else will he know?

Posted by LIb4Life
Yep, everyone is correct....I'm a Libra/Scorpio FEMALE and even though male and female Libra's are a little different on some things, we also share a lot of similarities. You said he text you to say the date was nice and you exchanged pleasantries, but nothing else after that. Unfortunately , like Aesma said, he's probably mirroring you and he's not going to keep texting you if he feels you're not interested. If you really like him, don't play games, just text and say hello, how are you, and then leave the ball in his court. Ego and pride is a helluva drug_??_

Sorry...I meant to say Jeanne......about the mirroring.

Quit causing your own damned problems and maybe you wouldn't be here asking this.

Posted by tiziani
It's just text messaging. I'd take him more seriously if he calls. Plus if you don't bother to get in touch, he just won't think you're interested anyway. It sounds like you two had a good time as acquaintances, nothing more. Call it a good evening spent in good company and leave it at that I'm guessing.

Thats what I am thinking too!!

Except he suggested a "rematch" date... If she's already worried about seeming too interest maybe he knew she was holding back. I'm slow too. If i go out with someone and ain't interested, I'm not suggesting another date. If i suggest another date and receive a reluctant "yeah, maybe...that'd be nice", I'm not chasing more. Especially if I don't hear from her after that.

Posted by LibraSid
Except he suggested a "rematch" date... If she's already worried about seeming too interest maybe he knew she was holding back. I'm slow too. If i go out with someone and ain't interested, I'm not suggesting another date. If i suggest another date and receive a reluctant "yeah, maybe...that'd be nice", I'm not chasing more. Especially if I don't hear from her after that.

We have the same reaction. Well, we're both leeb sun with aries moon, maybe that's why. I was thinking the same thing, the guy said he'd like another date and this bloke just says, "That'd be lovely." That's it— I think they're both guys, I'm not sure.

Posted by jojo35

The next day around midday he text to say, had a lovely evening, lovely company and hoped I have a relaxing sunday. To which a few hours later I replied with thank you and likewise. He replies back saying if you ever need a rematch date where I live, more than happy to show you around. I replied, that would be lovely, thank you.

Heard nothing since.....

No wonder.

What are you waiting for? Him to do every step of the way?

If you care, toss him a message, give him the yellow if not green light that you are interested in seeing him again. By the answer on his the day after message, I'd say you are not particularly interested, only polite. I'd give you time and chance to make your own move, if you want it. If not, I would think twice about contacting you again.

Posted by LibraSid
Except he suggested a "rematch" date... If she's already worried about seeming too interest maybe he knew she was holding back. I'm slow too. If i go out with someone and ain't interested, I'm not suggesting another date. If i suggest another date and receive a reluctant "yeah, maybe...that'd be nice", I'm not chasing more. Especially if I don't hear from her after that.

Yep. And this isn't exactly a "Libra" thing, it's a human thing. People respond to body language/cues more than verbal stuff sometimes.

if you don't convey interest, then they won't know what to do. All they'll think more likely is you aren't interested.

Don't be so robotic. Show some interest. If he shy's away you can't blame yourself as you did nothing wrong.

But if you don't show interest, that is doing something wrong and it will be your fault.