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Scorpio man turning his back on me when I need him the most
That is what female friends are for ...... emotional support
You can't put all your shit on one person. I don't know the extent of your problems but sometimes it's just too much for another person to deal with.
Men are good for sexy fun times and companionship and making babies with 😛
Women are good for discussing emotional issues with
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Women are good for discussing emotional issues with
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I agree with Plutonian and MyStarsShine. But at the same time I prefer being the friend that takes you out to do fun things that takes your mind off your hurt, rather than the one who gives advice.
The most I can do in the emotional realm is listen to your story (I don’t have the energy to read a long af message unless I really care about you) and offer emotional support/empathy (I’ll tell you things like “he’s such a douche bag” or “I can’t believe she did that” and occasionally offer message ideas to resolve disputes). But yeah for the most part I’d rather get you active and out into the world to take your mind off things than get my energy drained by trying to solve your issues.
The most I can do in the emotional realm is listen to your story (I don’t have the energy to read a long af message unless I really care about you) and offer emotional support/empathy (I’ll tell you things like “he’s such a douche bag” or “I can’t believe she did that” and occasionally offer message ideas to resolve disputes). But yeah for the most part I’d rather get you active and out into the world to take your mind off things than get my energy drained by trying to solve your issues.
Posted by KoniuchaaCan be.....but some really can't identify with some female issuesPosted by MyStarsShineMen can be there for emotional support too
That is what female friends are for ...... emotional support
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Posted by peachy06Don't be sorry for being youPosted by MyStarsShineSorry but I'm not a baby machine, nor a bitch to call when you want to talk about your emotional issues.
Men are good for sexy fun times and companionship and making babies with 😛
Women are good for discussing emotional issues with
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Posted by PlutonianThis is the mistake people make.....I did......it's just too much for one person at times when the other is going through heavy stuff
You can't put all your shit on one person. I don't know the extent of your problems but sometimes it's just too much for another person to deal with.
Posted by KoniuchaaThen you are a lucky lady.....my issues were too heavy to handle I guess.....death, near death in childbirth, losing all my family etcPosted by MyStarsShineShe didn't say they were female issues. I have relied on the men in my life many times for emotional support.Posted by KoniuchaaCan be.....but some really can't identify with some female issuesPosted by MyStarsShineMen can be there for emotional support too
That is what female friends are for ...... emotional support
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I just feel comfortable talking to him but it bothers me that I can't count on him when I need him. If he's my friend, he shouldn't be cold when I aporoach him.
I do feel like its better to not expect anything from him and not consider him an intimate friend to share my problems with 😢
I do feel like its better to not expect anything from him and not consider him an intimate friend to share my problems with 😢
Posted by TaniwhaTrue, I have the feeling he is avoiding her for a reason.
Don't tell me your trying to talk to him about a relationship issue with another man, sounds like you are.
Posted by LibraMudraThis. I dont want to offend sweet cancer but is it possible that you come across as whiny and dependent?
It's much easier when you stop expecting people to be there for you. When you let go of expectation, it seems to happen naturally anyways.
You really don't NEED anyone.
It's something I am still learning.
Dont forget that you are talking to a men. Maybe you are repelling him.
Besides that, I think you should ask him straight up why he is doing that. The only thing we can do here is guess.
dump him sis, a man who loves you regardless of sign, will be there for you.
A scorpio would move mountains for you
A scorpio would move mountains for you
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