As a Cancer woman I'm extremely sensitive, especially in relationships. This guy that I've known for a while confessed that he liked me. I never gave him a chance because I wasn't sure about him at first because I don't trust easily but now we chat every day. He seems cool so I decided to get to know him more.
We agreed on going out on a first date but the day before he cancelled because something came up. I was super sad and started having doubts about him. He apologized, took me out for another date and treated me like a princess. And he continued treating me very well every day and told me how much he liked me and wanted to be my boyfriend. He bought me chocolates, a rose, took me to the fair and it was really special.
We planned on going out again but he works on the weekends and has a busy schedule. So he messaged me telling me that he wasn't sure if he was going to be able to see me. I started getting emotional and sad again and now I have all these negative thoughts in my head. I told him "I really wanted to see you but I understand is not easy for you". So I pretended it was ok but inside I feel like butter. I'm sensitive to the point that I'd rather not risk loving a guy to get hurt in the end. It might sound dramatic but I feel like I'm going to end up alone. Anything small like not seeing the guy I like makes me sad. Even if he has reassured me that he likes me and has done so much for me. Am I normal? I don't know how to not let these stupid things affect me.
Yes, I did know him in person but he lives a little far. But why do you say Scorpios are not worth it? I thought they were! I only see two options here....
Option #1 - unfriend him from social media. Yes, it will hurt like hell but at least I won't see him interacting with her.
Option # 2 - give him a taste of his own medicine. Keep him on social media but flirt with other guys or let him know I'm good without him. So he'll wonder why I'm not hurt and he sees what he missed. This doesn't convince me though because I don't want to feel tempted to talk to him again if he comes back.
Maybe I should go for the first options. DO you agree?
Oh my God I feel so embarassed being all dramatic here! You guys are right I should just move on but you're forgetting something..,I'm a freaking Cancer damn it 😭😭😭😭😭 I'm super NEEDY and when we let someone go is almost like our world comes to an end 😨 How can I understand once for all that he's an ass and not prince charming as I thought? I feel like I get blinded when I really like someone and I don't want to face reality.
I posted about about 2 weeks ago that my Scorpio crush had "liked" a picture of a hot girl on social media where she was showing her breasts. I got all upset and thought he was a jerk! Well, today I would like some feedback to know if he could really be serious about her. I wish I knew the answers but maybe you all can help me 🙁
I've been checking his online activity and this girl whom he barely knows and him have been flirting back and forth NON stop. She's the one who started by throwing herself at him and he's giving her all his attention and acting the exact same way he did with me. This guy used to talk to me all the time. He was caring and sweet and seemed deep. I'm a girl who goes to church and he loved that about me because he's also very spiritual. We had a unique connection and tons of things in common. I thought I was the right girl for him because he seemed really into me.
The last time we spoke he said he had been wanting to talk to me more often. Well he didn't and instead of doing what he said he started chasing after this girl and now all his attention is going towards the hot girl with 50 likes and 20 comments, mostly from other males. The popular beautiful girl!!!! I want to ask: "Could he really be serious about her or is this some type of stupid game?" How is it possible that he already likes someone else after almost a year of liking me? Scorpios can't forget easily and they love hard is what they say. This doesn't make sense at all and I don't know how to react.
She's pretty, popular, a party girl, always out, showing cleavage. I'm also pretty but deep, homebody, reserved and not so extroverted. He could like whoever he wants but should I just assume that all this time he lied? He never truly liked me and that's why he changed his mind quickly?
I dated a Capricorn man one time and when we ordered at the restaurant I asked for something simple. Some plates were more expensive but I don't like taking advantage when someone offers to pay so I went for a normal plate. And he said: "Wow, you're a cheap date". But I know Capricorns like fancy things. I'm just not into expensive stuff. Even when I shop, I go to normal places. I could care less if I have a normal purse. It doesn't have to be from Gucci or Coach. Hahaha 😛 The same thing with a guy. He doesn't need fancy wheels when he drives.
The guys I've dated so far have been pretty normal. When I think of a guy that picking me up in a BMW or Porsche I feel weird about it. I think it wouldn't impress me and make me feel uncomfortable. This is so weird right???? I know most girls like men with money but I personally feel that rich guys are arrogant and I prefer simple, humble guys who don't brag about their cars or how much money they make. Besides, I've never been spoiled in my life. I'm not poor or rich but I'm not used to fancy things and I don't think I need them. It's nice to have dinner at fancy restaurants but they're not my favorite. I'd rather eat someplace small and casual with good food and nice background music. Sometimes I feel like I'm weird for not wanting the princess life style but I consider myself simple and material things are not on my top list. I don't think I'll ever date a rich guy even if I had the chance. A guy that makes descent money is okay with me but not more than that. As long as he's a gentleman. That's a BIG plus!!!! 😉👌🏻
I forgot to mention that I'm SUPER insecure. Yeah that's how stupid us Cancers are!!! I consider myself pretty but still feel insecure and if I see that my crush thinks another girl is hot my insecurities become 10 times worst. It's so bad
Uhhh I'm so sad. Maybe I got too distant with him and he gave up 🤷♀️😩 i've been wanting to show interest by finally liking one of his pictures. To show that I'm physically attracted to him but it's a big risk!! I've had bad experiences in the past with other guys 😰
Thanks for your imput. I know it's only Instagram and we're not together but I've been liking him for a long time. As a matter of fact, I fell in love thinking he was a serious guy like me. I haven't shown him a direct sign that I like him but he has liked some of my pictures and he's always the initiator. I've never liked his. I'm just letting him do the chasing but I'm always open and friendly with him. I show him interest but I'm not too forward.
Sometimes he's hot and cold so I've been kind of distant with him to see if he's really into me. The last time we talked he was flirting a lot and telling me that he's been wanting to keep in touch with me. He texts me long paragraphs and I can tell he enjoys talking to me. But yesterday when I opened Instagram I see him liking the girl's picture
I know that guys look and it's normal but he could've avoided liking the picture. It's like saying "you're hot". Maybe I'm different but if I like a guy I flirt with him only!!! I would feel dishonest flirting with two guys at the same time. Should I back off from him completely??? I can't confront him about it but I saw that she likes him and now he's giving her a green light. Scorpio men, would you like a girl who shows her body on social media and has like 30 guys commenting and liking it?
I don't want to offend anyone but I'm so upset 😭 I'm a moody Cancer that's been in love with a Scorpio for almost 2 years. We're not together but we had a spark and he flirted with me. One time I saw that he stalked a girl on Instagram but she seemed normal so I moved on. That happened monthd ago. I also noticed that a pretty Saggitarius girl sometimes liked his photos but I wasn't worried because I thought she was not his type. She seems shallow, parties a lot and has like 100 guys chasing her. Today she posted a selfie in a bikini top and you could see all her goodies. You could see EVERYTHING and he liked her photo. I wanted to cry because I thought he was descent and not into girls that show their bodies. I'm the normal type and I thought he was into me but I guess not so much 😪 I also saw he commented on one of her status with a smiley face. And she's also been flirting with him back and forth. I liked Scorpios but I guess you can't trust anyone no matter their sign. How can I cope with this? I don't want to think about a guy who likes other girls besides me
Sorry but I'm a very private person and I'll rather not say my age I'm not a teenager though. I think i'm kind of innocent for my age though. So you think the Scorpio likes me and why? When he messages me he writes a lot too. Not just a sentence or two but long paragraphs literally!!
Sometimes I talk to a Scorpio guy but I'm not sure if he likes me or is just nice with me. I gave him a compliment about his looks and I think he took it well because now he opened up a lot more. He asks how my day went, he says I hope you have a nice day, and he didn't said these things before. He talked to me like normal but now he asks about my day and everything. And he even told me that sometimes he wants to call me but he has never done it. But he told me twice he wanted to be in touch with me. Are these signs he's interested or likes me???
But should I be honest with him? Like ask him why he's being cold or telling him that I missed him if we don't talk for a while? I prefer straight answers but that will show that I'm weak and needy. Is that bad?
Ok maybe I didn't explain myself well. I want to be independent because of my own decision but not to play a game. The thing with this Scorpio is that sometimes he's hot and cold and it makes me wonder how much interested he is. I'm an insecure Cancer and if I don't feel that someone is into me, I withdraw for my own sake and to avoid getting hurt. I consider myself totally transparent and honest but I feel like I need reassurance. I want to try not being needy and keeping some space to see if he's really that interested or I'm making things up in my head.
You all are attracted to mystery. I already have a Scorpio guy's interest but I want to KEEP it. How can I keep him intrigued and be curious about me? If I'm independent and not too available will he chase me more?
Hi So I think it's typical for men to use bad words when they talk but I want to know what's the main reason behind this behavior. Does that make you feel more tough and manly? Sometimes I don't like it but it's so rare for men to speak correctly like most women do. Can you just tell me why you do it? Even here I've noticed that they have to say treetrunk or something like that. 😳
Sorry for my stupid question but do you think animals also have a zodiac sign and their characteristics. My labrador dog is a Pisces 🐶❤️ Born in March. And I realized that she's super affectionate, has a sad expression often, but she's the sweetest dog ever!!! She likes cuddling a lot. And I think Pisces are affectionate people. I've had other dogs but she's different for some reason. So does astrology apply to dogs, cats or other animals? 🤣
I can't let go!!!! I'm SUPER attached to my past, which is a characteristic that Cancers have. First I wasn't but now that I'm getting older I keep thinking of my younger years and how I wish I could go back and I feel super sad when I think about that 😂 And the worst thing is that for some stupid reason I listen to old songs instead of modern music, which takes me back to my past and makes things worst for me 🎧🎶 This guy that I like started ignoring me so I decided to move on but I keep thinking about him. I think I will NEVER get over him. I guess it's bad that we're too attached to our past. It's more harder for us to let go and move on unlike most signs