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sweet_cancer
joined January 11, 2017
  • But should I be honest with him?
    Like ask him why he's being cold or telling him that I missed him if we don't talk for a while?
    I prefer straight answers but that will show that I'm weak and needy. Is that bad?
  • Ok maybe I didn't explain myself well. I want to be independent because of my own decision but not to play a game. The thing with this Scorpio is that sometimes he's hot and cold and it makes me wonder how much interested he is.
    I'm an insecure Cancer and if I don't feel that someone is into me, I withdraw for my own sake and to avoid getting hurt. I consider myself totally transparent and honest but I feel like I need reassurance.
    I want to try not being needy and keeping some space to see if he's really that interested or I'm making things up in my head.
  • You all are attracted to mystery.
    I already have a Scorpio guy's interest but I want to KEEP it.
    How can I keep him intrigued and be curious about me? If I'm independent and not too available will he chase me more?
  • Hi
    So I think it's typical for men to use bad words when they talk but I want to know what's the main reason behind this behavior.
    Does that make you feel more tough and manly? Sometimes I don't like it but it's so rare for men to speak correctly like most women do.
    Can you just tell me why you do it?
    Even here I've noticed that they have to say treetrunk or something like that. 😳
  • Sorry for my stupid question but do you think animals also have a zodiac sign and their characteristics.
    My labrador dog is a Pisces 🐢❀️ Born in March.
    And I realized that she's super affectionate, has a sad expression often, but she's the sweetest dog ever!!! She likes cuddling a lot. And I think Pisces are affectionate people. I've had other dogs but she's different for some reason.
    So does astrology apply to dogs, cats or other animals? 🀣
  • I can't let go!!!! I'm SUPER attached to my past, which is a characteristic that Cancers have.
    First I wasn't but now that I'm getting older I keep thinking of my younger years and how I wish I could go back and I feel super sad when I think about that πŸ˜‚
    And the worst thing is that for some stupid reason I listen to old songs instead of modern music, which takes me back to my past and makes things worst for me 🎧🎢
    This guy that I like started ignoring me so I decided to move on but I keep thinking about him. I think I will NEVER get over him.
    I guess it's bad that we're too attached to our past. It's more harder for us to let go and move on unlike most signs
  • I read that Scorpio's favorite colors are RED, BLACK or PURPLE.
    Is this true???? What color do you like???
  • When I was in high school I was approached by the hottest guy in my Spanish class! A lot of girls liked him and he was so good looking that he intimidated me. I NEVER thought he would even look at me.
    He even called me cute in front of the whole class and complimented me a lot!!!! The most surprising thing is that I was the nerdy shy girl πŸ€“ not the hottest girl like him.
    He freaked me out a little because I couldn't believe he wanted to talk to me. Most hot guys are arrogant so it took me by surprise that he noticed me. I guess life is full of surprises
  • This question is more for the guys.
    I don't understand why most of you say you want a serious girl but still have eyes for the slutty ones.
    On social media, for example when a girl is half naked she gets thousands of compliments from men saying stuff like: "you're gorgeous, beautiful, MARRY ME! 😳
    A serious girl, on the other hand, that looks good but descent never receives a bold compliment from a guy. It's so sad!!! So how come you say you want a serious girl when you go out of your way to compliment an easy girl?
    The last thing I saw was an older woman in her 40s posting a picture in a super short dress that showed her panties. Of course she had millions of comments from men. She had an ugly face but it didn't seem to matter as long as she showed her panties!!!
    Men, what's up with this? Sorry but I don't get it
  • I don't know what's wrong with me but I consider myself super jealous even with guys I like.
    For example, I like this guy and I know he's into shy and quiet girls. I consider myself shy but I do like to talk and I have a personality. Well there's this girl I know that is even more shy than me. But she's really pretty and smart.
    I know it's going to sound ridiculous but I feel like I hate her!!! Because I feel that she's the ideal type of girl my crush would like.
    I'm always thinking "I'm sure if he met her he'll choose her over me and ask her out". Ridiculous right???
    I just can't keep those thoughts out of my head and feel that this girl is a threat or something even though my crush doesn't even know. I feel bad for hating someone that hasn't done anything to me. I stalk this girl on social media because I feel she's better and more interesting than me and I when I imagine my crush meeting her I want to kill her. I'm a huge psycho right? How can I stop thinking about all this nonsense stuff? I feel stupid and childlish
  • I just feel comfortable talking to him but it bothers me that I can't count on him when I need him. If he's my friend, he shouldn't be cold when I aporoach him.
    I do feel like its better to not expect anything from him and not consider him an intimate friend to share my problems with 😒
  • I have a Scorpio friend that I really enjoy talking to. The problem is that I feel like he's only nice with me on his own terms.

    One time I talked to him because I needed him but he didn't seem like the person that would go out of his way to listen to me or be there for me. He was a little cold and I felt like I was bothering him that day because he told me he had things to do and even went distant right after.

    He's still nice to me but, as I said, on his own terms. Right now I feel like I need him because I'm going through a lot of personal problems. I wish I could talk to him but it feels like I can't count on him because he's cold if I approach him. I'm a loyal person even when it comes to friendship and I would like his advice and help instead of somebody else's but if he's never going to be there for me, what's the point?
    should I forget about his friendship and look elsewhere for someone who's willing to be there in good and bad times? He's a great guy but I just can't understand him. He seems heartless at times.
  • I'm not a Scorpio but I'm a water sign. CANCER!!! I had an Aquarius boyfriend and from my personal experience they're sweet but at least for me it didn't work out. Water and air signs are really different. He was the type of guy that had many female friends. If you're okay with this, then you're fine but you might not be the only woman in his eyes. Aquarius people like freedom and have lots of friends. They're not reserved like Scorpios or Cancers
  • I asked Scorpios because my crush seems obsessed with social media and he's a Scorpio. He's on Facebook every day. I see him online almost all day!!! and I thought Scorpios were deep people and social media is just fake and shallow. At least for me. I hate those people taking showing their bodies just to get more likes. It's ridiculous.
    So I was just wondering what you guys think.
  • Hi. I'm just curious to know what Scorpios think about social media. I have a Facebook account but I don't use it as much as before. I kinda got sick of it. Someone said Instagram is better but I feel like its the same crap! What I don't like about social media is that people pretend to have awesome lives when I'm sure we all go through problems. I go through problems a lot and I feel like I have to be fake on Facebook and pretend everything is great and my life is perfect. I'd rather be honest and not post things as if nothing is happening.
    What is your opinion? Are you on social media?
  • Oh my God I totally understand you!!!
    I'm a Cancer going through a roller coaster with a Scorpio. He does pretty much the same thing. He's sweet and my intuition tells me he likes me but he doesn't do anything else!!!! I'm all confused all the time but now I'm starting to think I'm making things up in my head. I'm starting to realize I need to move on. Like other Scorpio's said he would be DIRECT. And your Scorpio and mine are not 😒 Maybe they just like to flirt but they don't want anything serious but it doesn't make sense to me because there's this STRONG connection between us. That's why I can't accept the fact that he doesn't like me. It's so difficult. I understand you!!!
  • I'm a Cancer female and I really like Scorpios. I'm very deep in love and relationships and I feel that it's the only sign that understands me. I like deep people that take love seriously.
    Good luck with your Cancer man ❀️
  • I have this question for Scorpio males.
    If you had to choose between these two girls, which one would you prefer to date and have a relationship with. And please say why.

    (A) A girl who works but is not very ambitious and is more submissive. She depends more on you and needs you to take care of her needs.

    (B) A girl who has a successful job, has goals and ambitions and is more independent. She wants a man in her life but doesn't depend on him.
  • Hi Scorpio04.
    I think I've read some of your threads about the cancer woman you are interested in. I believe, if I'm not mistaken she has some Leo on her chart too.
    Well i'm a Cancer sun and my moon and ascendant are Leo. And I'm going through ups and downs with a Scorpio guy too. Hahaha 🀣 I've always liked him but I don't know if he likes me back and its just painful. But to answer your question heck yessss. I'm SUPER sensitive. I get hurt over the smallest things. Like if the Scorpio I like ignores me or acts like he doesn't care it makes me think he doesn't love me because Cancers are very insecure. I know I am. We don't like to feel like people are playing with us or taking us for granted. I'm also very proud and I think its my Leo moon. I will rather die in pain rather than put my feelings out there. Again because I don't want to get hurt. I'm sensitive and it hurts!!!
  • I don't know about the selfish part of us Cancers but speaking for myself I just like to protect myself from getting hurt. We have our shell, you know!!
    Sometimes I've acted like I don't care but its because I don't like to waist my time with people that aren't worth it (just like Scorpios). But if the other person treats me well they can be sure my heart will be theirs ❀️ Maybe it can work out between these two signs depending on the whole chart. But I feel like Scorpios need to trust more instead of testing people. Otherwise they may lose a lot of opportunities with us Cancers.