Scorpio men - they want to control their partners so badly!

anyone have this problem with Scorpio men plz share your stories.

Their weakness - obsession with control. It's a pity that they're capable of so much love, but it's difficult for them to open their hearts. And because they don't, what's left is to control. There's much more to say here though... isn't it both silly and sweet when both sides act in this way and things don't go anywhere:/

Scorpio women are just as bad control freakiness is just part of the Scorpio nature lol

Posted by Stihl46
Scorpio women are just as bad control freakiness is just part of the Scorpio nature lol

You are boring as hell

Broken record

". Things like helping her wherever possible, holding doors open, carrying heavy items, doing a fair share of the house cleaning. Scorpio men should know that they have to set an example and be a role model for others and especially with their partners. Also, when a crisis happens we have to be there to console and step up to the plate to do anything we can to make things calm again. Call that being a control freak and you really do not understand a Scorpio man and the lengths he would go to prove he loves his mate"
About this part I agree with u totally,but it's belong to Scorpio protective fact than control 🙂 he told me he do like to control everything in his life even his woman.
Sometime it's good because it's make me feel I'm in safe hands ,sometime bad thing happen like when we argue,it turn to "pain in the a**" thing,he keeps asking and think and tell the story by his way ,does not care how his partner feel. And he also like to control the routine when we are dating,but after I said that to him,somehow he change it,now he start asking me how I feel and what do I want to do or where I want to go....lol
But for me,dark side of controlling from them still here...

Posted by Geminariescharmer
Scorpio women are worst trust me but its passionate tho, have a few Scorpio buddies don't really seem the controlling sort but more of nymphoniac lolol

Unless you are fucking somebody or in a relationship with that person at the very least, you will not know if they are the "controlling sort" or not. Things can drastically change when emotions of love/lust take over.

Posted by Rabbit
*facepalm*

Awwh.

Don'tcha hate it when people don't just automatically get you? I mean... especially when they have seen enough of your posts that you think they should know your brand of humour by now? JEEZ.

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Posted by Rabbit
*facepalm*

Awwh.

Don'tcha hate it when people don't just automatically get you? I mean... especially when they have seen enough of your posts that you think they should know your brand of humour by now? JEEZ.

He clearly didn't get my brand of humour either.

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We're all screwed then.

fuck off to neverland and don't come back tinkerwhore

Story of my life with men with strong Scorp in their charts. However as Reincarnation pointed out, "I love it". I need a man to exercise some control over me. It's mostly in regards to my fun time and sex. In regards to fun time, men with prominent Scorp placements demand my time or make sure to occupy enough of my time that others have to take a backseat/get what's left over. In sex, they are controlling in bed. I've been told "Assume the position"..."Slow down"....etc by men with prominent Scorp placements. I guess they sense that I'll do whatever is demanded of me.

My current guy...yes...that weekend that I was upset with him about trying to sneak and talk to another woman...I wouldn't let him touch me the next morning...resisted him. Boy oh boy...let's just say, he put me in my place real quick. I mean...I've NEVER had a man sex me up/down passionately while cussing at me. I was stunned/shocked/subdued. I never mentioned it to him again and I won't ever. Let's just say that I'll never resist him again either. He's brutal...like a simmering volcano. I find it S E X Y.

"Bad boys bad boys, whatchu gonna do, whatchu gonna do - when they come for you..."

Posted by starlover
...control is never a good thing unless it is directed at oneself


anyone who even thinks they have control over another person is deluded

I'm going to have to disagree with this. People can be controlled. I see it all of the time. A beautiful woman and hsndsome man can control someone that is so enamored/enthralled with their beauty. People control others through intimidation/fear ALL of the time. Sex can often be used to control people. All you have to do really is promise to give a person what they REALLY want, even if it's a subtle promise. Everyone can be controlled by at least ONE THING...just need to soul search and honestly answer this question..."what do you REALLY want?". I know what those things are for me, so I make sure to enjoy/seek/indulge in them in moderation so that the power they hold over me is limited...because I'm hypersensitive to who holds what power in dynamics and how they play out. I'm a person that tends to tip the power balance in situations.

Im agree that I love that when the man showing some control skills and u don't even realize that ,it made him way mo for manyly and sexy. The point here they at least can control themself to avoid bad things and avoid the other woman when they are in relationship then I can deal with their controls.not a big deal

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Posted by Rabbit
Why are you not in front of the stove?

Get off the internet and cook for your man.

You sound like reincarnation

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...amazing isn't it?

Yeah,he does not like if I wearing something sexy to go out as short skirts ..etc @.@ he was upset last time when I hang out with him and the other men keep look at me.
The other things I did not complain that I don't like because somehow I feel it come from his caring .

Posted by MsTeeq1974
Story of my life with men with strong Scorp in their charts. However as Reincarnation pointed out, "I love it". I need a man to exercise some control over me. It's mostly in regards to my fun time and sex. In regards to fun time, men with prominent Scorp placements demand my time or make sure to occupy enough of my time that others have to take a backseat/get what's left over. In sex, they are controlling in bed. I've been told "Assume the position"..."Slow down"....etc by men with prominent Scorp placements. I guess they sense that I'll do whatever is demanded of me.

My current guy...yes...that weekend that I was upset with him about trying to sneak and talk to another woman...I wouldn't let him touch me the next morning...resisted him. Boy oh boy...let's just say, he put me in my place real quick. I mean...I've NEVER had a man sex me up/down passionately while cussing at me. I was stunned/shocked/subdued. I never mentioned it to him again and I won't ever. Let's just say that I'll never resist him again either. He's brutal...like a simmering volcano. I find it S E X Y.

"Bad boys bad boys, whatchu gonna do, whatchu gonna do - when they come for you..."

Oh hell no! I would have turned the tables on him so fast he wouldn't know what was happening until after the fact. If he wouldn't hear me out and have open communication about the problem he'd find a healthy dose of his own medicine shoved in his face (me sneaking a talk to another man and making sure he "finds out"), plus a huge dose of being physically shut out if he thinks it's ok for him to pull a stunt like that and I should ignore it, and if there was even a suspicion that he's the cheating type he would be iced out with no chance of anything ever happening again; put on the curb and left there for the garbage man! It might be sexy for a man to take control with the sex thing, but to use sex as a tool to shut someone up so they don't have to face anything uncomfortable, like a confrontation about their behavior? Fuck that shit, it won't fly. I'm definitely not a submissive crab. I blame my leo venus and aries mars. RAWR!!

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Posted by Blood ft. Water
All it boils down to is insecurity

Your boyfriend is a beta faggot who is TERRIFIED some alpha will see your juicy ass in those tight skirts so he forbids you to wear them LOL@you and him. Do you live in Iran?

murican logic.

let your girl dress like a slut for every guy to admire. no sense of humbleness whatsoever.

you sound like the "beta"

Why do you want a woman that dresses like a slut in the first place?

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^^Accept what you voluntarily signed up for.

Besides, women who allow men to walk all over them deserve it because you guys need to snap out of the mentality of thinking that's the best you'll ever find.

Posted by starlover
Moonie, i love your fire!!! Inspirational 😛


At least you wont be pushed around by a guy..

The ex hated that about me because he couldn't get me to comply and leave him be with his lying, abuse, etc. I gave him far too long to be honest and open, to communicate, etc, though. Lesson learned! I've since shortened my bullshit tolerance timeline by miles. Communication is KEY! If someone isn't mature enough to communicate like an adult, don't waste my time. If someone plays games and is a liar, or is abusive they're done and finished.

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Posted by Blood ft. Water
All it boils down to is insecurity

Your boyfriend is a beta faggot who is TERRIFIED some alpha will see your juicy ass in those tight skirts so he forbids you to wear them LOL@you and him. Do you live in Iran?

murican logic.

let your girl dress like a slut for every guy to admire. no sense of humbleness whatsoever.

you sound like the "beta"

Dressing in short skirts does not make one a slut!!!
I like to dress sexy for me n a man will not tell me what not to wear. N it's not for man attention as I'm the least one to seek it but because that's my style. One can dress sexy but classy
I ain't t dressing like a grandmother to appease man insecurity

That same man can't get it up to frumpy gf n look at other women who dress sexy.

short skirts are a no no for me. dressing in a normal skirt doesn't make you a grandma.

I used to have a friend who wanted his gf to wear short skirts so that everyone would be jealous of him. she hated that and would always complain to me. i saw it as fucked up to be honest.

being a scorpy lady, would you get mad if your man wore a wifebeater in public and all the girls stared at his muscles?

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Anyone who is that insecure about what others are looking at in concerns to your partner should stick with being with someone they don't think anyone will look at. If a man or woman is attractive people will look no matter what. Even when dressed in the most modest manner people will notice those that have features that stand out! Don't like it, get a fugly one. 😛

Posted by thestruggle
Don't lie, you secretly like being possessed like a pack of donuts!
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Yes, because I'm the same: I want your heart, mind and soul! But it had better be fair and no double standards. As soon as the manipulation starts, that's when the problems start, and I'm too strong of a personality to let it slide.

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Posted by MsTeeq1974
Story of my life with men with strong Scorp in their charts. However as Reincarnation pointed out, "I love it". In sex, they are controlling in bed. I've been told "Assume the position"..."Slow down"....etc by men with prominent Scorp placements. I guess they sense that I'll do whatever is demanded of me.

My current guy...yes...that weekend that I was upset with him about trying to sneak and talk to another woman...I wouldn't let him touch me the next morning...resisted. He's brutal...like a simmering volcano. I find it S E X Y.

"Bad boys bad boys, whatchu gonna do, whatchu gonna do - when they come for you..."

Oh hell no! I would have turned the tables on him so fast he wouldn't know what was happening until after the fact. If he wouldn't hear me out and have open communication about the problem he'd find a healthy dose of his own medicine shoved in his face (me sneaking a talk to another man and making sure he "finds out"), plus a huge dose of being physically shut out if he thinks it's ok for him to pull a stunt like that and I should ignore it, and if there was even a suspicion that he's the cheating type he would be iced out with no chance of anything ever happening again; put on the curb and left there for the garbage man! It might be sexy for a man to take control with the sex thing, but to use sex as a tool to shut someone up so they don't have to face anything uncomfortable, like a confrontation about their behavior? Fuck that shit, it won't fly. I'm definitely not a submissive crab. I blame my leo venus and aries mars. RAWR!!

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I have no personal planets in the fire element. Only one outer planet. My mars in the first house is all of the aggro that my Pisces moon can handle. Lol ha ha ha I find that it's better for me to allow people to choose their fate after I express how I feel regarding their imperfections. We all have them. It's just a matter of what, when, and towards whom. Me...when it was all said and done, I just left him on the couch to post sex cuddle alone. Strode away unaffected while he was emo/physically spent. He came to me in the bedroom to be held. I like to make my points quietly, calmly, and without breaking my own rules. I'm firmly against the tit for tat, you do this to me...so I'll do that to you, type of behavior. When a relationship comes to that...I'd rather be done.

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Posted by starlover
...why does he need to sneak and talk to other women ms. if he is happy with you?

😐

Scorpio male ego

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This. I get it. It doesn't make it right, but that's something that he needs to figure out. If he can't check his ego, then things won't work out. That's the difference between getting to understand someone...and loving them for them. Either you understand how certain things affect them which means you give them TIME to work those things out or you handle them according to YOUR ego and cut them loose. I'm aware that it just might not work and I'm willing to walk, but not before I give him some time to deal with his demons.

Pisces women have a way of...exposing a man's demons in a way where he finally has the time to deal with them instead of hiding them for fear of rejection. I can't explain it, but it happens with every single man I'm with. So...he has time. At least some time. I want an authentic and real partnership, not something that just looks good or is a relationship worth bragging about. I don't feel like my relationship needs to be "impressive". What the hell for?

Posted by thestruggle

Posted by Blood ft. Water
All it boils down to is insecurity

Your boyfriend is a beta faggot who is TERRIFIED some alpha will see your juicy ass in those tight skirts so he forbids you to wear them LOL@you and him. Do you live in Iran?

murican logic.

let your girl dress like a slut for every guy to admire. no sense of humbleness whatsoever.

you sound like the "beta"

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Wearing a short skirt is not mean u dress like a slut? Omg.which country are u living in? I'm living in Vietnam .
Yes he did not want anyone man look at me at all 🙂))

The Scorp I was dating made small comments about the things I wear like maybe twice. He doesn’t mind if I dress a certain way as long as I’m going to be with him so he can “protect” me. However if I’m going out with the girls, he has a bit of a more watchful eye. It’s cool tho. But I cant lie I love it when he fusses over certain shorts or tops, I think it’s cute. I don’t want any other guy anyway, but to see him battle his ego a little over me is super cute. He has NOTHING to worry about, but there’s no convincing these guys especially if you look like a supermodel,and a lot of guys liked you before he came along. Lol. He doesn’t tell me which friends to hang with and who I can talk to. He might make certain comments about how my friends are, and his only concern is if I have any of their bad habits.

Like one time one of my home girls let it be known in so many words she’s basically cheating on her boyfriend in front of the Scorpio. (I could’ve slapped her) Her and her bf had been getting into a lot lately so she had started doing her own thing. However me her, her bf and my scorp have been on multiple double dates together so even though Scorp and her bf aren’t technically “friends” there’s a certain level of unspoken respect amongst guys. “guy code” I guess, so the minute she mentioned she was basically cheating the Scorp looked at me. OMG I knew exactly what he was thinking. Big mouth Gemini is what she is. She talks too damn much.

Posted by BlackMamba
scorpio men hate me cause im such a bytch to them!

My bestfriend says they like that...lol. Her bd treats her like he hates her, she's a leo and he's a Scorp. .
But even when they "hate" you thats still an emotion towards you right?
And since they take every emotion to the extreame, wouldn't them hating you be kinda spooky? lol. Guess not if your a fire sign.