Scorpio Seeking Advice Re: Virgo

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SinEmIn
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Allow me to introduce myself: I am a proud, yet unstable scorpio(f). My rising is in Leo which I believe is the reason I have so much swag and flare! My moon is in Aries which I believe is what makes me pursue all my desires in an all-or-nothing fashion. I'm a boss ass bitch. I get what I want when I want & if my plans fail, I'll more than likely cry about it in a corner then carry on to the next venture.

So let me tell you about this virgo female from class. We sat within close proximity to each other. We didn't speak to each other until about a month or so into the semester. Our first conversation she criticized me for being a huge flirt. This started my attraction towards her, but my ways were too aggressive for her. The thing is, she made me nervous! I would put on extra confidence when talking to her which would come off as forceful. She told me to chill and I did just that. I didn't look at her or speak to her for 2 weeks. The next time we spoke I apologized to her and kind of asked for a restart. Dude, she turned red. That was such a confidence booster for me. Another time in class her and a classmate of ours were talking and laughing. I just sat back and watched and again she turned red. Our classmate asked "why are you red?" and the virgo goes "idk!" I could tell she didn't like that our classmate pointed it out. She then looks at me with intense eyes and tells me to stop!

As the semester continued I became more stressed and quiet, but I would take what opportunities were available to speak to the virgo. She is quiet, modest and beautiful. She also knew a lot about me. I asked her what she thought about me. She told me shit about myself I didn't even realize, like internal shit! It made me defensive but also intrigued me. Our conversations have been therapy sessions with the virgo telling me about my short-comings and how I can be better. I like it so far, but I would love to hear a compliment!

Anyways, this girl is a year older than me. She's in a relationship and lives with her boyfriend. She's been apprehensive about forming a friendship and told me that she was stubborn and had her mind made up about me. Since then, we've talked more and I think I've charmed my way into softening her up. Although I am coming here to seek positivity, I would like practicality. The semester just ended so I won't be seeing her until January. I have plans to email her this Monday to see if she is willing to talk.

What do you guys think about the situation?
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You want practicality? Imma be real with you chief.

That whole getting red in the face thing? Virgos hate being called out, especially when we aren’t quick enough to think of something to deflect the attention from ourselves. So all of that has put you on her radar. Probably annoyed her at first but the Scorpio magnetism lured her back in.

Yes she is intuitive enough to know you better than you think, and yes, it also feels like therapy when you two speak. She’s been observing and analyzing you since you’ve been on her radar.

BUT. The largest overall factor here: she has a boyfriend, who she lives with. What’s her bf’s sign?

She probably genuinely really likes your person and sees you as a good friend. But that doesn’t necessarily mean she would risk it all.
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Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.
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SinEmIn
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Ayeeee, I appreciate it boss. I love my magnetism, I just sit back and watch the girls come to me. It seems that her intuitive nature has labeled me a player, but the more we speak I show her my introspective/intelligent side. Yes, she has a boyfriend and it doesn't bother me. My plan is for us to become confidants and I know that will take a lot of time, tests and trust.

I don't know her boyfriends sign and tbh idk if she's straight or not. BUT I have a keen radar for a potential bae.

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You want practicality? Imma be real with you chief.

That whole getting red in the face thing? Virgos hate being called out, especially when we aren’t quick enough to think of something to deflect the attention from ourselves. So all of that has put you on her radar. Probably annoyed her at first but the Scorpio magnetism lured her back in.

Yes she is intuitive enough to know you better than you think, and yes, it also feels like therapy when you two speak. She’s been observing and analyzing you since you’ve been on her radar.

BUT. The largest overall factor here: she has a boyfriend, who she lives with. What’s her bf’s sign?

She probably genuinely really likes your person and sees you as a good friend. But that doesn’t necessarily mean she would risk it all.

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SinEmIn
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I spoke first. I had been talking about astrology with classmates nearby then leaned over to the quiet virgo and asked her sign. She told me to guess. I took a beat and my first guess was virgo. I was too hype I got that right in the first go.

Most of our conversations have been her critiquing me. I like it because it allows me to reflect on who I am. It's weird that she knows so much though because when she comes to class she sits in her corner, opens her laptop and kicks back.

A question: why not email her? I figured by doing this I could stay on her radar.

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Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.

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Posted by fireinmysoul

I spoke first. I had been talking about astrology with classmates nearby then leaned over to the quiet virgo and asked her sign. She told me to guess. I took a beat and my first guess was virgo. I was too hype I got that right in the first go.

Most of our conversations have been her critiquing me. I like it because it allows me to reflect on who I am. It's weird that she knows so much though because when she comes to class she sits in her corner, opens her laptop and kicks back.

A question: why not email her? I figured by doing this I could stay on her radar.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.

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As I said, you were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything. 
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Posted by fireinmysoul

I spoke first. I had been talking about astrology with classmates nearby then leaned over to the quiet virgo and asked her sign. She told me to guess. I took a beat and my first guess was virgo. I was too hype I got that right in the first go.

Most of our conversations have been her critiquing me. I like it because it allows me to reflect on who I am. It's weird that she knows so much though because when she comes to class she sits in her corner, opens her laptop and kicks back.

A question: why not email her? I figured by doing this I could stay on her radar.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.

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Ah, but the best seat in the house is in the corner, quiet, under the impression that all she does is “kick back” and stay to herself. It’s where virgos thrive. Gives us a great chance to observe everyone else.
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SinEmIn
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hing: I have no chill. Since becoming aware of her and gaining interest, all I want is to know more about her. In my perspective, you telling me not to do anything is like telling me to dead it and move on. Do you think she may be interested in forming a friendship?

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Posted by fireinmysoul

I spoke first. I had been talking about astrology with classmates nearby then leaned over to the quiet virgo and asked her sign. She told me to guess. I took a beat and my first guess was virgo. I was too hype I got that right in the first go.

Most of our conversations have been her critiquing me. I like it because it allows me to reflect on who I am. It's weird that she knows so much though because when she comes to class she sits in her corner, opens her laptop and kicks back.

A question: why not email her? I figured by doing this I could stay on her radar.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.


As I said, you were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything. 
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Posted by fireinmysoul

Here's the thing: I have no chill. Since becoming aware of her and gaining interest, all I want is to know more about her. In my perspective, you telling me not to do anything is like telling me to dead it and move on. Do you think she may be interested in forming a friendship?

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by fireinmysoul

I spoke first. I had been talking about astrology with classmates nearby then leaned over to the quiet virgo and asked her sign. She told me to guess. I took a beat and my first guess was virgo. I was too hype I got that right in the first go.

Most of our conversations have been her critiquing me. I like it because it allows me to reflect on who I am. It's weird that she knows so much though because when she comes to class she sits in her corner, opens her laptop and kicks back.

A question: why not email her? I figured by doing this I could stay on her radar.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.


As I said, you were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything. 

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I absolutely thinks she interested in a friendship.

And well, you went two weeks w/o looking at her or speaking to her. So, evidence shows you are able. Besides, she already told you to chill once. And, you showed her.

She has a boyfriend which, in my opinion, doesn't matter. However, it probably matters to her. Odds are you'll get rejected but you seem resilient and willing to take chances.
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Also... I don’t mean to pry, but i just realized something... is she straight? You said she has a boyfriend. So... 🤔 is she bi? LMFAOO


She has hots for him like nobody’s business! And bfs exist so they can become a history...

She wouldn’t be blushing if her feelings for her bf were strong!

So...let’s wait and see. And YES for email...she probably wouldn’t reply but that day she wouldn’t have sex with her bf for sure. Poor prey...
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Posted by fireinmysoul

Here's the thing: I have no chill. Since becoming aware of her and gaining interest, all I want is to know more about her. In my perspective, you telling me not to do anything is like telling me to dead it and move on. Do you think she may be interested in forming a friendship?

Posted by VenusAquarius

Posted by fireinmysoul

I spoke first. I had been talking about astrology with classmates nearby then leaned over to the quiet virgo and asked her sign. She told me to guess. I took a beat and my first guess was virgo. I was too hype I got that right in the first go.

Most of our conversations have been her critiquing me. I like it because it allows me to reflect on who I am. It's weird that she knows so much though because when she comes to class she sits in her corner, opens her laptop and kicks back.

A question: why not email her? I figured by doing this I could stay on her radar.

Posted by VenusAquarius

Who spoke to whom first?

Decide if you like criticism on a daily basis. I do. You were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything.

It was foolish not to look or speak to her for two weeks. Common courtesy is a sinple hello after being acquainted. You revealed how unstable, emtional you are. Virgos don't like that much.

Do not email her.

Caution your heart. You just might be an interesting study and no more.


As I said, you were under examination longer than you think. So, with that, you don't need to do anything. 

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Mars in Leo and Venus in Scorpio lol. You won’t stop till you get it anyways lol.

I have the same placements. Good luck! 👍🏽

You got this in the bag 😁😝
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Posted by fireinmysoul

Anyways, this girl is a year older than me. She's in a relationship and lives with her boyfriend. She's been apprehensive about forming a friendship and told me that she was stubborn and had her mind made up about me. Since then, we've talked more and I think I've charmed my way into softening her up. Although I am coming here to seek positivity, I would like practicality. The semester just ended so I won't be seeing her until January. I have plans to email her this Monday to see if she is willing to talk.

What do you guys think about the situation?

Find someone that is single.

She enjoys your attention, may even genuine like the energy you bring, but more than likely won't ruin what she know is real, for what you "might offer".

PS, Did I mention to find some single draws to play with? Leave the girl alone.