Scorpio venus people and/or venus conjunct pluto

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I've read in many places that venus in scorpio and venus conjunct pluto people sometimes get to a point in their life where they seek to mate for life instead of having the intense passionate affairs that end with pain and anger.

Excuse me if I sound like I don't know what I'm talking about because I probably don't, I don't have venus in scorpio or venus conjunct pluto and wouldn't want to offend anyone who does.

So, I've also read that sometimes these individuals get a really strong gut feeling about a person when they first look at them or meet them, a strong gut feeling that tells them that this person is the one. I have a scorpio husband who has venus in scorpio conjunct pluto and he's told me that when he met me he just knew that I was "the one" and the person he wanted to be with, spend his life with and marry. And I didn't know he felt like that at the time obviously, but I felt the exact same way as he did.

So I wanted to see if there are any other people with these placement that can relate or have had experiences like this and what you think it means for you. I also was wondering if these individuals only feel like this about one person in their lifetime or if they can feel like this about different people in the lifetime?
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Posted by Impulsv
I have this Venus Scorpio n yes I e encountered what ur husband explained but I'm not fortunate to be with this person. Sometimes I'm think I'm bound to walk this earth alone because it's a one in a lifetime experience not sure if it can occur again. But no I won't settle with life mate just so I won't be alone
I'm not afraid of being alone.
Hm, so the feelings you had for this person felt like they could only happen once in a lifetime, they were that special? Even though it may be possible to feel it again with someone. Do you think that if you ever did have similar feelings for someone else that it would be, like "lesser" in a way? If you get what I mean.
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I'm Scorpio Venus, sun and Jupiter, all conjunct.

Mating for life has been my ideal since I was a teenager, but now I think it's likely that won't happen for me. I've had long term relationships, and dated some very good people, so it isn't from a place of being jaded about relationships that I state this. Realistically I know it's rather rare to have long term compatibility with a romantic partner, no matter how much the people involved may work for it.

I've never had a "the one" feeling about anyone when first meeting them. I will get a sense of potential compatibility only.
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I have this Venus Scorpio n yes I e encountered what ur husband explained but I'm not fortunate to be with this person. Sometimes I'm think I'm bound to walk this earth alone because it's a one in a lifetime experience not sure if it can occur again. But no I won't settle with life mate just so I won't be alone
I'm not afraid of being alone.
Hm, so the feelings you had for this person felt like they could only happen once in a lifetime, they were that special? Even though it may be possible to feel it again with someone. Do you think that if you ever did have similar feelings for someone else that it would be, like "lesser" in a way? If you get what I mean.
Truly I feel none will match but it's a depressing sentence. So I choose to be hopeful but I accept the bleak possibility I might walk this journey on my own.
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That scares me to hear that, but I do hope that that isn't the case for you and that it's only a journey through a dark time until you do meet someone that is you feel much greater/better about. If you don't mind me asking, what are your thoughts about a scorpio like my husband, saying what he said to me or ANY scorpio for that matter telling someone that?
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Posted by Impulsv
I have this Venus Scorpio n yes I e encountered what ur husband explained but I'm not fortunate to be with this person. Sometimes I'm think I'm bound to walk this earth alone because it's a one in a lifetime experience not sure if it can occur again. But no I won't settle with life mate just so I won't be alone
I'm not afraid of being alone.
Hm, so the feelings you had for this person felt like they could only happen once in a lifetime, they were that special? Even though it may be possible to feel it again with someone. Do you think that if you ever did have similar feelings for someone else that it would be, like "lesser" in a way? If you get what I mean.
Truly I feel none will match but it's a depressing sentence. So I choose to be hopeful but I accept the bleak possibility I might walk this journey on my own.
That scares me to hear that, but I do hope that that isn't the case for you and that it's only a journey through a dark time until you do meet someone that is you feel much greater/better about. If you don't mind me asking, what are your thoughts about a scorpio like my husband, saying what he said to me or ANY scorpio for that matter telling someone that?
It comes from the depths of his soul
Do u not believe him?
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I do believe him underneath always, but I have baseless fears and insecurities sometimes that cloud my judgement..