scorpio vs scorpio

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Nataliaaa
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I've been dating an sun in scorpio, moon in capricorn guy for a a month and a half.

He's a good guy, however he's extremely suspicious and careful especially in love. That makes sense due to his venus and mercury in scorpio. The problem here is that I have the same placements and we're fighting all the time, (it's fun but at times is tiring) he's also very jealous and possessive. But there's a lot of passion going on there. As you can imagine.

The thing here is I don't know how to stop this war or if it's ever going to stop.

Please help
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Nataliaaa
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Posted by TaurusinTexas
What are you guys fighting about?


He's very serious and stubborn ( a lot ). So I'm always telling him that he should relax more. And he always takes that as a threat or something. He says he can't be open like me and stuff like that.

But mostly he's jealous from a german guy from my work I dated once. I already told him that I'm not interested in him, but he doesn't believe it.

He's really intelligent and complex that's what I like about him, I mean we are just getting to know each other but is very difficult to do it if he's doesn't allow the feeling of trust.

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Girl, that ISN'T love!

1 Corinthians 13:4-8New International Version (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Is this the type of love you want? Good luck if you do. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by EvatheDiva
Girl, that ISN'T love!

1 Corinthians 13:4-8New International Version (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Is this the type of love you want? Good luck if you do. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
thanks for your insight Eva 🙂

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Posted by Nataliaaa
Posted by EvatheDiva
Girl, that ISN'T love!

1 Corinthians 13:4-8New International Version (NIV)

4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away.

Is this the type of love you want? Good luck if you do. 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
thanks for your insight Eva 🙂

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Any time, girl, any time! 🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva
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Posted by Fox
In time it might get easier and he might get more comfortable around you. (he'll still have moments of jealousy or possessiveness) but it should occur less the more open he feels with you. Scorpio sun/Cap moons sometimes expect the worst from people because they either want to prepare themselves for the worst possible scenarios or they find it difficult accepting that another person can love them. Cap moons are normally painfully aware of their faults and they normally see themselves as a work in progress. It's a lot of insecurity to deal with imo, so if you feel that you love him enough to build something together then i say keep at it and call him out when he makes assumptions about you from his pessimistic mindset. You have a mutable moon, so you are able to go with the flow more - able to let go of certain boundaries that his moon finds extremely difficult to do. You can both learn a lot about yourselves and each other in the long-run, however if he tries to put too many constraints on you - never back down and stand your ground. Show him the mutable side to life.

My experience

Me - Scorp sun/cap moon

bae - Scorp sun/sag moon.



Thanks! That's really interesting coming from someone who carries these energies.