Scorpio woman falling for a Capricorn guy

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Tini
@Tini
13 Years

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Hello everyone, I am new to this site and I was intrigued by some of the scorpio/cap stories that I decided to write my own and hopes of getting some good feedback. Im a 23 year old scorp head over hills with a 21 year old cappy. I met this Capricorn guy back in sept. He always came into my job and spoke but I never quite notice him until he actually introduced himself with a handshake and a bright smile. From there on I was mysteriously hooked. We had mutual friends so they helped us connect within a couple of days. He called me everyday multiple times a day and made sure he seen me. I wasn't use to this type of attention and was a little sacred off at first but I melted on the inside. Within a week I made the big mistake and slept with him, at first things seemed like nothing changed but then they did as a typical guy reaction he figured I was too easy. However we still remained on talking and hanging out terms and he still came into my job but I had to initiate everything! Just when I thought I was probably bugging him he told me he really liked our relationship and how we can talk about things and just chill, suggesting we should stop having sex. My heart dropped because I seen this as a sign that just maybe it was still a chance for something to blossom. Feeling pretty confident, I thought everything was good until he did the —disappearing act?? for the next week. When we met up again things just seemed really tensed for no reason and the vibe was all wrong and then it happened we clashed. As a scorpio, I tend to let out all my frustrations like a bomb, he backed away because Ive became —attached??. Things never really became back to normal after but he would come around here and there to just leave again and again would still come into my job to sometimes speak and to something just look stupid like he wants to say something. The last time we talked we laughed we talked we hugged then again he disappeared. I always wondered did me graduating college and moving back to my hometown had to do with anything because he was quite frequently brought up in almost all our arguments. — youre about to graduate?? —your there and im still going to be here?? —why cant you say forget me and move on— little things like that. I said I was done with him but I am so smitten with this guy its crazy.......
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Tini
@Tini
13 Years

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Cont: As far as a simple text that says —happy birthday?? or —merry Christmas?? I have not spoken to him since the day I left until I called him today for an opinion. I was so nervous but surprised he picked up the phone because at one point he completely stopped. Not only did he give me an unbiased honest opinion we made small talk for a min afterwards. Maybe I am just desperate and looking for a little hope but I do believe if I just sit on my hands for a min and not be so aggressive backing him into a corner that says my way now! That he may just come around someday. Have any of you had any similar experiences?

Thanks everyone for reading my situation I really appreciate it 🙂
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Tini
@Tini
13 Years

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Sorry for the late response I had some computer difficulties 😢 anywho! everyone perspective is really appreciated, it feels great to get a more wiser point of view. I do feel like it could be a toss up on what it could really be and my patience is running low with the "what ifs" I've been giving myself. I plan on taking a trip down there to catch up with some friends so I guess if he doesn't respond to me being in town and seeing that the distance isn't really a big deal to me then I'll officially have an answer to just give him the boot.

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