Scorpio woman would like advice......

Has anyone learned the best way to tell a cancer man who says he loves you to get his act together or get out and stay out of their lives? Second time around with this one and he is displaying the same behavior that caused the ending the first time around. What, if anything, works? Ultimatum, straight talk, hit the road and don't look back....what works, or does anything work. I blew my cool and acted a fool over something he did that blindsided me...don't like feeling that way, don't like acting that way...we are way past the "trying to figure it out years" and too old for that crap..........

I dated a Cancer for 4 years. I'm a scorpio too..

If he loves you, anything should work. Give an ultimatum, if it doesn't work, say it's over and walk away. If he lets you walk away and doesn't respond right away or in a day or 2, then he probably doesn't love you.

I hate this with cancers though. They act like kids sometimes. They do something wrong(I'm not talking about cheating) although you have warned them 1000 times about it, then they look at you with their puppy eyes and ask for forgiveness. But you know they love you because you treat them like crap for a while and they still stick around..

Playing head games is stupid.

First of all, the question is not whether he loves you. But whether you love him.
If you have to play head games to find out how he feels, then you are not mature enough
for a relationship.