Scorpio women.. are you attention-seeking?

This friend of mine is always seeking to grab attention of any male, wether he's your friend, bf or husband. She only goes to get the guys' attention. I don't understand where she draws her limit. Also, would you ever go behind a friend's back and befriend her bf or guy friend?

She's not the closest friend but she like attention and showing off how much she knows. She always gets weird when I mention his name. I don't know. It's just I know Scorpios are very secretive. So how would I even know.

No. Sarcastic jokes yes.

Posted by Nemesis
i will admit though, that they do like being noticed, appreciated or looked at - but not being in the spot lite. 🙂

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Posted by Nemesis
i will admit though, that they do like being noticed, appreciated or looked at - but not being in the spot lite. 🙂

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DMV, this +1 has nothing to do with it - but i just wanted to tell you; you??re really growing on me girl! 😄 i read a few of your posts - and i like how you roll lol!

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funny u say that. pisces people have been surrounding me one right after the other. totally changed my outlook on them 🙂

Posted by MidniteStar
Yes, I am an attention seeker, but I blame my Leo Moon....not my Scorpio Sun, Mercury, Venus or Jupiter.

I don't seek attention from another womans man though, and definitely not from my best friends man.

it could be the leo thing. i dont have any leo placement but im a 5th house personality

It's self esteem. There are 3 evolution stages to Scorpio.


First Stage: A "stage one" Scorpio exercises power through emotion and instinct. This Scorpio is symbolized by the scorpion, an insect more likely, in the end, to sting itself rather than others. Aggression and instinct are particular features of the Scorpion aspect, which is where the tendency to potential destructive behaviour and competitiveness resides.

Second Stage: A "stage two" Scorpio is symbolized by the Golden Eagle and exercises power through the intellect. Golden Eagle Scorpios show signs of maturity above Scorpion Scorpios in that they possess the ability to see what others miss, discern hidden motives, and discover deeper truths beneath the surface of life. This can prove to be either beneficial or exploitative, where while Golden Eagles can indeed use these skills to help invent new medicines, save a patient's life, successfully psychoanalyse the problems of others and help them find purpose, etc., because Scorpios also are known for valuing power and wealth as well, Golden Eagles are nonetheless not above exploiting others to suit their own purposes or interests, and can be used deceptively if not guarded.

Third Stage: A "stage three" Scorpio is symbolized by the Dove of Peace and the Phoenix, which exercises power through love, healing and transformation. The Phoenix represents a Scorpio who has been transformed, and has reached deep within him/herself to embrace the more subtle, mystical qualities of the soul, rather than ones ego, and in result soar to spiritual heights like a bird on the wing. The tendency to be judgemental and power-obsessed is gone, and rather the observational talents of Scorpio are fused with compassion rather than judgement, defeating a life of extremes and polarities and finding greater purpose through self-spiritual development.

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Posted by IntriguedScorp
Kindle berry or dingleberry that's what I want to know? Someone giving you a tough time seraph? What up with that?

I just think it would be really awesome to know why I'm apparently obsessing over Virgo men.

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LMAO!!!! What? I'm missing something here....*steal a complete stranger's glasses to read*

I've been around women like that. All boils down to self-esteem issues, methinks.

My ex is a Scorpio. Always seeked attention from every guy before we got involved. Even during our relationship she would flirt with other guys all the time.

Posted by radiohead
My ex is a Scorpio. Always seeked attention from every guy before we got involved. Even during our relationship she would flirt with other guys all the time.

LoL!!! What are you doing here silly? Ummm, you left your account open lol lol. I thought you stayed away from sites like this??

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Posted by radiohead
My ex is a Scorpio. Always seeked attention from every guy before we got involved. Even during our relationship she would flirt with other guys all the time.

Are you sure *you* weren't the cause of that? If you were in a relationship and she would flirt with other men "all the time", and you already knew about it, (which makes one wonder why you entered into one with her in the first place), what wren't you giving or showing her? Why wouldn't it have ended with you? Is this something you've considered? It's a rarity for a woman to flirt around to the degree you're implying (i.e., "all the time") when she's with a confident, secure man.

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Seraph, I'll let "radiohead" lol answer the rest. However, I personally know his ex and she's very attention seeking and flirtatious to begin with.

@angelkiss bahahhaaha whoops change of mind. 😉)))))

@seraph I gave her everything she needed. If she didn't feel that way it was up to her to tell me what's up and what she needed or get out of the relationship. It was disrespectful and didn't stop so I broke it off with her. It's the scorpio insecurity thing.

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@angelkiss bahahhaaha whoops change of mind. 😉)))))

@seraph I gave her everything she needed. If she didn't feel that way it was up to her to tell me what's up and what she needed or get out of the relationship. It was disrespectful and didn't stop so I broke it off with her. It's the scorpio insecurity thing.

I think your more immediate problem is why you're posing as two different people, and figuring out what value there is in addressing yourself from two accounts.

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+1 SMH.

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Posted by radiohead
@angelkiss bahahhaaha whoops change of mind. 😉)))))

@seraph I gave her everything she needed. If she didn't feel that way it was up to her to tell me what's up and what she needed or get out of the relationship. It was disrespectful and didn't stop so I broke it off with her. It's the scorpio insecurity thing.

I think your more immediate problem is why you're posing as two different people, and figuring out what value there is in addressing yourself from two accounts.

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"Radiohead" and I are not the same person. We both use the main computer in the house. We are roommates!

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Posted by radiohead
@angelkiss bahahhaaha whoops change of mind. 😉)))))

@seraph I gave her everything she needed. If she didn't feel that way it was up to her to tell me what's up and what she needed or get out of the relationship. It was disrespectful and didn't stop so I broke it off with her. It's the scorpio insecurity thing.

I think your more immediate problem is why you're posing as two different people, and figuring out what value there is in addressing yourself from two accounts.

"Radiohead" and I are not the same person. We both use the main computer in the house.

Even if that were remotely true, it's obviously a bad idea.

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I have no control over another persons desire to create an account here, and there is only one working computer in the house for now. I do understand what you mean as the internet can create a reaction of jumping to conclusions without knowing the full situation.

Posted by Nemesis
i hate dxp sometimes. *smfh*

I agree with you. Some come here truly looking for advice. I haven't spent a lot of time on the other forums, however, the Cancer forum is filled with tons of negativity of people with lower levels of energy, feeding into a lot of nonsense whether or not the full situaton is conveyed or not. And even if it is, a good dose of people who post there are like bad bacteria spreading rapidly.

The ones who are truly here to help and learn themselves don't bother with it.