Scorpio Women-- A Challenge??

Hello to all my wonderful SCORPs.

I read this statement in another forum:

Ive always envied scorpio girls for being so strong willed and their ability to challenge their men and always get what they want, even if they act mean, rude or extreme!

To all SCORPIOs, is THIS TRUE?

Please do tell ur secrets of HOW u challenge ur men? And does ur TECHNIQUE work?
And please give out examples. Thank you all.

Posted by HoneyJ
Hello to all my wonderful SCORPs.

I read this statement in another forum:

Ive always envied scorpio girls for being so strong willed and their ability to challenge their men and always get what they want, even if they act mean, rude or extreme!

To all SCORPIOs, is THIS TRUE?

Please do tell ur secrets of HOW u challenge ur men? And does ur TECHNIQUE work?
And please give out examples. Thank you all.

I tend to challenge myself more than anything.

I am mean/rude when I have already told a guy (who I am not interested in) to leave me alone. This is not an effective way of getting something from a man I want to be around.

Posted by exoskeleton
how to challenge a man: be who you are and see if he can handle/accept that.

does it work? usually. 😛

Very nice. 🙂

Thank u all for ur comments!

Posted by starlover
I wont take any nonsense from a guy, he has to be honest and faithful. If he can be neither of these things, i just tell him i am gone...its up to him. Men are like kids and need strong boundaries. Its only very mature men that can handle a Scorp woman...there aint too many out there.

And what do you consider a mature man?

Posted by HoneyJ
Hello to all my wonderful SCORPs.

I read this statement in another forum:

Ive always envied scorpio girls for being so strong willed and their ability to challenge their men and always get what they want, even if they act mean, rude or extreme!

To all SCORPIOs, is THIS TRUE?

Please do tell ur secrets of HOW u challenge ur men? And does ur TECHNIQUE work?
And please give out examples. Thank you all.

This is interesting.. I am going to read the responses. I am a scorp but I dont really have any stories.

I HAVE observed a scorp girl at work talking on the phone with her fairly new leo boyfriend. She speaks to him so mean sometimes, it scares me! lol. It makes me wonder how a leo male could take it. I never said anything to her, and its funny because I never hear her speaking to anyone else like that except him. I guess scorp women just have that power lol

It is natural i guess. This what i have been told by many people including my sis. They always tell me that i get everything i want even when i am rude or mean.

Well, as a scorpio i am not rude or mean, but i am simply serious when i want something. Scorpios are strong-willed and stubborn and they do not give up on anything. I can not say how do i do the challenge, it is all natural 🙂

its either you love me , or leave me alone bases......

I actually don't think this is true for all Scorpio women. As far as the stereotypical Scorpio lady goes I'm pretty docile and passive- which some may find strange as my sun, moon, and venus are all Scorp. I don't use tactics, or manipulation tricks to get what I want- nor am I rude or abrasive towards my man. I find that if I am genuinely kind towards him- give him exactly what I would want to be given- the same comes my way. Another virtue of us Scorpio women is the maturity to control our sometimes volatile emotions or desires, and filter them out in a more positive way. Yes, at one point in most of our lives we are very demanding, but we grow from that. Our strength and passion will never fade- only mature to become more selfless and graceful.

I agree with Eris. I like to challenge myself more. Whether its intellectually or my strong will.

I can tell you this. Once I make up my mind no one can change it or convince me otherwise

I am very sympathetic and compassionate 🙂

^^^ I am like this in that I am stubborn when I want something. I don't quit till I give all of myself to get it. Sometimes works sometimes doesn't. At least I knew I gave all of myself and didn't give up too soon.

I am learning as I get older that I am more sympathetic and compassionate than when I was younger. Maybe life experiences have something to do with that.

I'm a Scorpio sun/rising female and I like to challenge my man in the bedroom and intellectually. I observe every single detail and store them away, but some things you need to experiment with to see who you are really dealing with. With sex, I must feel the partner is willing to try different things and is really into me physically. I can tell they are into me physically by how they react to my requests. I want a guy that is dominant, open, exciting, but highly in tune with what I like and when I like it. Intuition in the bedroom is a must and there will be no excitement if its lacking. It's not mind-reading, it's a skill, and they need to have it. Intellectually, I challenge my partner OFTEN with hypothetical situations and expect honesty in each case. If there's something I can say to a guy that will make them uncomfortable...I won't waste my time with them. Yes, this means the subject matter may get deeper and deeper the more I delve, but I respect partners that aren't afraid to dive in with an objective and subjective approach all on their own accord.
In short, be interesting and open. I won't bother 'challenging' guys that I know won't meet the bar, so if I'm challenging you, you're in the sweet zone. Take it lightly and seriously at the same time, I don't care how contradictory, and you've pretty much got me. 🙂