goldielocs1990
@goldielocs1990
8 Years
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Scorpios Moving on after Breakups!!
The obvious question--why did you ask him to leave if you didn't want him to?
Wow! You've been awfully rude to the guy.
N it wouldn't take me long to drop someone if I so decide. If I know someone has been stringing me along, maybe a day!
N it wouldn't take me long to drop someone if I so decide. If I know someone has been stringing me along, maybe a day!
Posted by ScorpFemmeClearly I said it because I was mad and he's not innocent. People don't get mad for no reason.
The obvious question--why did you ask him to leave if you didn't want him to?
Posted by MagicMonaExactly! Not too many people can take it! But when we love we love hard and when its good, we are definitely the best people to be around but when it's bad my mouth is just wreckless. I will try harder whenever I'm ready to do this again with someone else!
not everyone, if anyone, can take our nonsense. i get like that too, rude and mean when i cannot handle feelings. i never made it a secret - i am absolute shit at those things. i never mean to hurt my loved ones; when we love, it's great, but when we hurt, it makes people leave. a lot of internal shit we have to work on, and it's not pretty. this is why i leave or send my loved ones away when i feel those nasty emotions creeping up on me.
Posted by tiziani
"I said no if you cant live with me you can't be with me."
That's a no-win situation.
I get it now but at the moment it was meant as like we already living together so if you tell me that you don't want to turn your back on me and but you can't live with me that doesn't make sense to me if we already lived together. If you already lived with me you can live with me. So If u can't live with me you can't be with me.. I'm sticking to my point.
Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.click to expand
Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
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Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
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Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.click to expand
Posted by GemitatiOk!!Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.click to expand
Worth it anyway!
Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!click to expand
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.
Posted by GemitatiLol what does my enjoyment of dxp have to do with me being 'not good'. Cause then what does that make you...? Seeing as your here as well...Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou've mentioned Scorpio84 cheated when he is cuisidal— You are sick Fk!Posted by GemitatiLol what does my enjoyment of dxp have to do with me being 'not good'. Cause then what does that make you...? Seeing as your here as well...Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.click to expand
Get over you being cheated on! It's too obvious. Keep denying it moronessa!
Gee you are screwed up!!!
Posted by GemitatiWut?Posted by LadyNeptuneYou've mentioned Scorpio84 cheated when he is cuisidal— You are sick Fk!Posted by GemitatiLol what does my enjoyment of dxp have to do with me being 'not good'. Cause then what does that make you...? Seeing as your here as well...Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.
Get over you being cheated on! It's too obvious. Keep denying it moronessa!
Gee you are screwed up!!!click to expand
Posted by LadyNeptuneYou know what! You can't even shut up when person said he is ready to end his life! He had some 'cheating' done!Posted by GemitatiWut?Posted by LadyNeptuneYou've mentioned Scorpio84 cheated when he is cuisidal— You are sick Fk!Posted by GemitatiLol what does my enjoyment of dxp have to do with me being 'not good'. Cause then what does that make you...? Seeing as your here as well...Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.
Get over you being cheated on! It's too obvious. Keep denying it moronessa!
Gee you are screwed up!!!click to expand
So before you give an advise you must had bring it up—
So it is obvious you bitter and destroyed by cheating. But you need to GET TA FK OVER IT!!!
Posted by GemitatiYou've lost me. Again.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou know what! You can't even shut up when person said he is ready to end his life! He had some 'cheating' done!Posted by GemitatiWut?Posted by LadyNeptuneYou've mentioned Scorpio84 cheated when he is cuisidal— You are sick Fk!Posted by GemitatiLol what does my enjoyment of dxp have to do with me being 'not good'. Cause then what does that make you...? Seeing as your here as well...Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.
Get over you being cheated on! It's too obvious. Keep denying it moronessa!
Gee you are screwed up!!!
So before you give an advise you must had bring it up—
So it is obvious you bitter and destroyed by cheating. But you need to GET TA FK OVER IT!!!click to expand
Take a chill pill grandma, calm your tits.
Posted by LadyNeptuneSee? You ARE an idiot!Posted by GemitatiYou've lost me. Again.Posted by LadyNeptuneYou know what! You can't even shut up when person said he is ready to end his life! He had some 'cheating' done!Posted by GemitatiWut?Posted by LadyNeptuneYou've mentioned Scorpio84 cheated when he is cuisidal— You are sick Fk!Posted by GemitatiLol what does my enjoyment of dxp have to do with me being 'not good'. Cause then what does that make you...? Seeing as your here as well...Posted by LadyNeptuneIf you were good you wouldn't be here.Posted by GemitatiNaw I'm good. Keep speculatingPosted by LadyNeptuneYou are an idiot with issues you wont admit! You need to make a thread and pour your soul out. Maybe it'll help or if not I am sure we going to have a good laugh!Posted by GemitatiThe irony —Posted by goldielocs1990OMG! You doing a right thing trying to move on and forget this crap.Posted by GemitatiNo I went through his phone and found he was messaging someone inquiring about how to go to swinger parties and get into that life style . And I got upset because I felt like how can you be inquiring about swingers but you can't have sex on a regular basis with your girlfriend?! Take care of home first, right? And the crazy part was if he would have discussed it with me prior to going and looking into it instead of going behind my back and looking into it, I would have been open to going together and trying it.Posted by goldielocs1990I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Best of luck. Just cheating alone is enough to be mad and never wanted to see him again. Just think of how he did you wrong and you will get over it.
Worth it anyway!
Good my ass! ?
Obsessive woman who acting like a broken record. Good? I don't think so.
Get over you being cheated on! It's too obvious. Keep denying it moronessa!
Gee you are screwed up!!!
So before you give an advise you must had bring it up—
So it is obvious you bitter and destroyed by cheating. But you need to GET TA FK OVER IT!!!
Take a chill pill grandma, calm your tits.click to expand
Is your mother looks old like a grandma?
Stupid comments from broken soul...
You exhaust me. Blah blah blah it's all there is from you. No substance no meaning. Bye for now poor heart.
Posted by youngaliYes that was my first Cap but there was definitely a weakness and a dependency. But u right something wasn't right if u holding out on the "d"!
i find that scorpios have a weakness for capricorns.
that dude definitely has bitches...
hence why i've said when dudes deny their woman the "d"... something usually ain't right.
push through ma. push through.
stay up.
Thank you.
Posted by Gemitati
I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?
Why? Are you interested in swinging with them? Is that why you never pick me up on time?? —
Posted by WhorpioNo I am interested in you get your ass on roller skates and start working some dough instead of thinking how to get your kitty out to wet! ?Posted by Gemitati
I feel for you. However why do you finding him looking for swingers? Are you still looking?
Why? Are you interested in swinging with them? Is that why you never pick me up on time?? —click to expand
Posted by ScorpioTruthYes and it's even harder to trust Caps because of their logic. I noticed that he was a very good liar and he knew how to manipulate situations by talking his way through them. Its funny how u start to see things once you take a step back. And he hardly ever expressed his feelings it always seemed like calculated answers with no emotion.Posted by goldielocs1990I understand now.. Especially about the underlying anger. I can relate.. My cap has also cheated on me and I know all too well about that resentment. It's really difficult to feel warm and fuzzy toward someone who has betrayed you.!Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Why do you want him back?
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I WANTED him back because when we were good we were really good. He had many good qualities in a man. And he was very family oriented and I grew to really like his family and friends. But I know deep down it's over and I have to accept that and I shouldn't even want it back because I can't trust him. And he hasn't reached out to me at all anyways. I just want him to come get the rest of his things so I don't have to look at them and I can move on. I feel like seeing those things he left (on purpose I think) is just like a little piece of my heart saying there's still a chance but once it's gone I know for sure I'll get through it.
Posted by ScorpioTruthThank you for all the advice.Posted by goldielocs1990Drink ensure or protein shakes when you can't eat. I went through that stage where the thought of food made me nauseous..Posted by GemitatiActually I did. But since being given the silent treatment and pretty much blamed for everything I've accepted the facts and I'm just wondering how long before I get past this. This is not my first breakup at 25 but it's definitely the first one that I really have felt. Not eating not getting much if any sleep, all these things I never felt and I just wanna get over it and get back to the good me! Where I'm in control of my emotions, confident, I don't keep checking my phone to see if he has text me, and if He does I don't feel the need to respond or seem extra needy. That's all I want!Posted by goldielocs1990...and you want him back...Posted by ScorpioTruth
What did he do to make you so angry to the point you would say all of those things?
And if you were really that unhappy, why do you want him back? I would ask myself that first. If it's a toxic relationship and if you were both bad for each other, I'd say let it go. As far as the time it takes for you to move on, that's all subjective. You have a lot of "fixed" in your chart.. (Lots of scorp + Taurus moon) so it might take you a while.
I'm also a Scorpio sun/Virgo Venus but you have a whole lot more scorp in your chart than I do. I've been with a Capricorn man for almost 10 years and they are some of the most logical, forgiving, laid back men I've dealt with. But Respect is important to any man, and they can be pushed to a point of no return. If you have a good reason for lashing out at him, like if he cheated or disrespected you then I can understand using him as your verbal punching bag. But if you simply took your bad day out on him, I wouldn't hold your breath waiting on him to come back. Capricorns are patient and understanding but like anyone else, there is a point of no return.
He has cheated on me in the past and I recently found some disturbing things about him on the internet looking into swinger parties. But we hardly ever have sex so that's confusing to me and the whole argument started over me saying I wanted to have sex and we didn't. I have underlying anger towards him, from many things he has done in the past even though I am not perfect either. So even though I have forgiven him, small situations like no sex when u are looking for sex parties are reasons for me to blow up on him. I would never lash out because I'm having a bad day, I'm the type to step back and take space if I have an attitude just so I don't lash out on anyone.
Occupy yourself with feel good music (I know as Scorpios we tend to lean into Beyoncé and other anti-men music that makes us feel "strong" for the moment but in the long run its just causing us to keep the pain as our focus. I don't know what your spiritual beliefs are but if you have any spiritual faith, I would lean into that instead. Keep your mind focused on healing yourself. These are all things I kinda wish I had done. I wish I had spent more time healing myself instead of trying to repair the broken relationship. The relationship was spared and now he's talking marriage but I'm over here still broken as fuck.. And he's oblivious.
The resentment never goes away and so what's the point in staying in a relationship if you'll be miserable and suspicious everyday?
At the end of the day you are better off without him. I wish you peace and well being sis.
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I hope your situation gets better as well and I hope u find some sort of peace in the situation. Maybe you all should try counseling before taking the next steps. It's ok to say how you feel sometimes. I know as Scorpio's we tend to keep things to ourselves because we need to feel like we are in control of our emotions and we are fine. But believe me if you hold that resentment in it will drive you crazy and u will eventually lash out and everything will blow up. Before any marriage you have to let go of the feelings from when he betrayed you or you have to decide if you can even let go. Capricorns have a way of getting in our heads I've noticed that but u can't let someone or their bad actions live rent free in your head!!
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