Scorpios & our personal space......

We are known to be obsessive, passionate, compulsive at times & private...yes! We love our privacy...we don't like to feel invaded,smothered or forced...how do you feel about your personal space? I hate when someone I don't know well is all up in my face or all touchy feely with me....I've insulted many people because although I almost always take the other persons feelings into consideration even strangers! Its one time I just cannot seem to keep my cool....invade my space and your sure to get stung! I'm curious as to how sacred other scorps consider their space to be....I personally like my box and only allow chosen few in it =)

Rite! You need to be in my inner circle already for it to mesh! If your not....then I aint feeling it & back the f off!!!!

You've never once evaded a personal question with me LOLOLOLOOLOLOLOLOLOL

I'm a female from where the time flies. I enjoy getting abused by boyfriends so I can call myself a victim and long walks on the beach.

How would you define our relationship?

~*~*~*~*~QuIcK lOoK oVeR hErE~*~*~*~*~*~*~

I fixed the fucking pilot light, by the way. All by myself. And I did it with a stick I found in the backyard and one small, broken & used match. That's how fucking awesome I am. And on the way to the water heater, I had to face 7 overbearing spiders with 15 legs each. They were clearly from Hell but I killed them with my Christian-ness God damnit!

Now I am enjoying the refreshing sensation of my satisfied shower.

Im not a scorpio but my boyfriend is. He was exactly like that in the start. He didn't like the Q&A I was needing from him. Natuarlly im a curious person and I like to know things and in order to know you ask questions and observe. He would get mad and irritated with me some nights. Well I wasn't apart of his inner circle either so he kept me at bay for months. He often lied to me about the things I questioned him on and when I look back at it today it seems like he did that because he felt like I was getting to close to fast and he wasn't ready to open all doors.

Now im apart of his life and now he answers any question I have with a warm heart. It did take time and patience to get where I am with him today. I think space is needed by everyone and everyone uses it differently. Lesson learned with my scorp.

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Im not a scorpio but my boyfriend is. He was exactly like that in the start. He didn't like the Q&A I was needing from him. Natuarlly im a curious person and I like to know things and in order to know you ask questions and observe. He would get mad and irritated with me some nights. Well I wasn't apart of his inner circle either so he kept me at bay for months. He often lied to me about the things I questioned him on and when I look back at it today it seems like he did that because he felt like I was getting to close to fast and he wasn't ready to open all doors.

Now im apart of his life and now he answers any question I have with a warm heart. It did take time and patience to get where I am with him today. I think space is needed by everyone and everyone uses it differently. Lesson learned with my scorp.

This is so true! I can text my male Scorp friend anytime and ask him any weird question I may have and he'll answer it. There was one time when I asked him about a situation with his dad and he kind of lashed out at me. But he later apologized for being rude. So if it's something they have deep hurt feelings about then it won't be discussed! lol

I tend to be very private with whom I share even the smallest details of on-goings in my life and can become quicly agitated in some cases should someone continuously try to dig..its just bothersome to me & can feel like some type of intrusion. I need to trust you & then you get the inside scoop =) and I devulge only & when I feel comfortable enough to...with my SO they get all of me..maybe to much so...but if your my BF & I love you then its what I share..100% of myself...my personal space is sacred to me....if I don't know you and your standing too close I can be bothered and have trouble hiding it!!! or someone touching my face or my hair or my waist when just passing by can set me off..its my private space don't f with it! With my close friends & family I am completely different...I'm not so sheltered `)

so where does the balance between being possessive and needing space at the same time fall?

At lady aries...just know this.....its a very fine line....emphasizing "fine line" hahaha! =) I too can become very possesive but only with the people I love....wait more protective with the people I love and possesive when I'm suspicious and 9 times out of 10 our suspicions are dead on

Super fine line indeed! xp The only Scorpio I dated was ready for me to move in within the first couple of weeks of us dating. I was so excited after all that I read about the Cancer/Scorpio match that I was almost ready to jump...but my gut forced me to wait a little bit...Then things got ugly real fast. Things only lasted three months.

I appreciate that it depends on the person and that not every person/sign is the same, so I have hope in the union, but watch out for that stinger.

The personal time had me curious because I always wanted to know when to back off. To simply sense the need for space was hard to feel out so I would ask her to tell me when she needed some time and I would back off...but she just got mean and rude...meh...what ya gonna do.

only thing you mutha fuckas need is a smack up side yo heads with a mutha fuckin tea kettle, quit talkin about that stinging shit with ur little stingers i wear steel toed boots mother fuckas come sting me...

on a serious note...

fuck yo privacy.

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Posted by BloodofAries


on a serious note...

fuck yo privacy.

Don't you ever need to just be alone? It's refreshing🙂.

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haha i know 🙂 i'm just messing. i get plenty of alone time tho, 🙂 being a 20yr old bachelor does that. sometimes its too much hehe.

Like food for my soul....I'm always at my best in social circles because I've had my alone time and can genuinely appreciate the social times =) I'm the homebody/social butterfly!