Scorpios, what do you think of jealousy?

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Last night me and the good ol' scorpio were hanging out at a party and one of his flings kept coming up to him. I found out later she wanted to sleep with him last night, but of course he picked me. I'd been drinking whiskey tho and I get agressive and I guess jealous when I drink whiskey cus I was pretty jealous when she kept coming up to him. I mean to the point where I almost ranted to my friend about it at the party. Scorpio caught onto this and told me what was up with her and how he rejected her.

So, you scorpios seems to have that jealous thing going on. What say you guys about your loved one feeling jealous about another hanging on them?
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Posted by pigeonpie
Ummm, at least you didn't hit her ?



Hahaha no not at all. I talked to her a little and she doesn't seem like a bad person...well except the fact that she has a bf and wants to fuck the guys I like 😆 no big right?
I go for the other approach, the ol', go talk to another guy. Which he did catch and made sure I knew he'd seen it. Not one of my finer moments. Honestly the guy I was talking to was one of my bff's exes and I kept talking to him because she was coming to the party later and wanted to warn him since they're not on good terms. Also I'm pretty sure he's done stuff with guys. Ew! I guess it didn't help my case tho when he put his hand on my waist while I was talking to him. I was too drunk to care or I would have swatted it away 😆
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Posted by pigeonpie
Finally, you did this to get a reaction out of your beau instead of facing your problem (this other girl) directly.



Yeah I don't like how I responded to the whole jealousy thing. I don't usually do that. Stupid whiskey.

I can't really just go up to the girl and say "hey I like him, stay away". One, I don't know her that well. And B, he's not really mine to say that. I have no idea how he'd react if I did that. We're not together so what right do I have.
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Posted by QuietSt0rm
When your scorp told you that he turned her down I think that was his way of telling you that you have nothing to worry about.



Yeah that's how I felt too when he told me. And I respect that. I don't like it to get all ugly and I like the guy to prove himself to me that he's not a pig. I kinda wish one of the reasons why he had turned her down was because he didn't want to hurt me, but Idk, maybe we aren't to that point yet. Or maybe he's just not ready to show he cares that much
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Posted by QuietSt0rm
I secretly like when he's possessive of me. It makes me feel like he wants me for himself, which is certainly not a bad thing. 🙂 Not sure if that's my scorp sun or cancer moon talking.

Now I wouldn't like insanely jealous men who would snap, act barbaric and make a scene. I don't like when people make a scene or embarrass me. I'd expect him to trust me to speak up for myself & turn the man down.



Guessing its the Scorp sun.. cuz I'm the same way, and I have Gem moon.

Oh you know what? Fuck this being nice shit. Yeah she may not be my gf or whatnot, but if I have my interest in someone then you best recognize this fact, and in times long before these I would've stabbed you if you even looked at her.

So nowadays we are all polite and Victorian like, with fagtalk and being nice and polite. No, fuck you. I won't just sit there while you hitting on my crush. I will either a) remove myself from the situation if the crush seems to be interested in you, b) confront you if the crush seems to be resistant or hesitant to your advances,
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^^I'd like this too. ^.^ Course I'm the flirtatious type.. don't go calling me a whore because I'm friendly.
Idk, if some chick was hitting on 'my' man, I would go, walk inbetween them, and grab his hand and lead him away from her. It's a very bold statement, but at the same time doesn't make a huge scene. She dares to make a scene after that, I will stand up for myself. I won't start the fight, but I will end it.
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Posted by Skykomish

if some chick was hitting on 'my' man, I would go, walk inbetween them, and grab his hand and lead him away from her. It's a very bold statement, but at the same time doesn't make a huge scene. She dares to make a scene after that, I will stand up for myself. I won't start the fight, but I will end it.



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+2 on the ending it. Me likey.
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Posted by happykitsune
Last night me and the good ol' scorpio were hanging out at a party and one of his flings kept coming up to him. I found out later she wanted to sleep with him last night, but of course he picked me. I'd been drinking whiskey tho and I get agressive and I guess jealous when I drink whiskey cus I was pretty jealous when she kept coming up to him. I mean to the point where I almost ranted to my friend about it at the party. Scorpio caught onto this and told me what was up with her and how he rejected her.

So, you scorpios seems to have that jealous thing going on. What say you guys about your loved one feeling jealous about another hanging on them?



Your Scorpio KNOWS she only wanted to see if she COULD
screw him ...

... and only BECAUSE you were there.

Just compliment him on how he handled it
and he'll BE SURE do deny her NEXT TIME, too

... and it will be easier for you to ignore it.

You can of course tell him HOW INSANELY JEALOUS you were
but that you trust him ( but not her. )