Scorps cut-off date & all the reasons behind it

Im as scorp as they come....in more ways than I care to admit in some instances but in no way do I fail to recognize......I have time and time again...cut people out of my life like a cut-out paper doll almost for sometimes days, mos, many,many years & sometimes completely altogether.....there are so many reasons why and then there maybe no reason at all.....reasons only known to me......my reasons always make complete sense go me, but leave many feeling hurt, baffled, bewildered ......To all the other scorps that do this and why & to the people on the other side....

I mean no disrespect to missscorp

But that photo has me rofling,

No disrespect taken...=)

I've done this. I was tired of the same shit different day routine. It was a test set up only for the truest of friends. Sure as hell tightened up my circle and did some good for me.

Okay I admit. It's only because I'm a self centered goal oriented asshole and didn't want to have to spare any more emotional energy than I have to. Oh hai capricorn ascendant and aquarius saturn in the first house...

My chart was not meant for love of others. Yet it's the one thing I endear the most.

hahaha that. fucking. picture. Hysterical is the only word

Posted by XanderEmpyre


Okay I admit. It's only because I'm a self centered goal oriented asshole and didn't want to have to spare any more emotional energy than I have to. Oh hai capricorn ascendant and aquarius saturn in the first house...

My chart was not meant for love of others. Yet it's the one thing I endear the most.

As a person on the *other side* of being cut out, I find this telling. Yes, the scorpio who amputated me after a year is self-admittedly self centered, absorbed and sensitive to the extreme and cannot endure any criticism nor handle any confrontative discussion. Hence, he bailed without a word. Cowardice to the extreme. No offense intended to you guys who have done the same, but it is what it is. Cruelly hurtful and leaving a lasting scar.

But I do appreciate your posting this, having your acknowledgement of this behavior is appreciated.

wow what a story, Kaleidoscorp. You have endured more than you should. You are such a gentle person, I have enjoyed a lot of your posts. You have overcome so much. Good for you!!

BGP...in many ways it can be considered cowardly depending on the scorp.....depending the circumstance & reason(s)why I may have chosen to handle in this manner...like cheeky..... mainly self preservation as to not over extend myself as I in so many instances do....I too avoid confrontational situations....too much drama for this scorp! I have Diligently executed this type of behavior for many different reasons.....maybe I was deeply hurt or betrayed....I cut you out.....maybe our friendship draining & I find you too needy....Im always upbeat/happy for the most part....your not gonna bring me down...some can call this selfish....but know when your at your lowest neediest points, I am still there.....I will be your crutch, your shoulder.....I will do what I can to build you back up to the point of it affecting me drastically my spirits....we are very giving.....give you the last of ehat we have....but once your all better I will quietly make my exit because I know I couldnt do it again....one exam.

"Friends that I have cut off have happened only after many attempts by me to connect with them, and realizing it was never reciprocated. This would occur over several years worth of attempts to connect, and cutting them off was done lightly. I was the one having to travel to see them, call them, contact them, without them ever making the effort to return the attempts at contact. I've had a few of them contact me later to find out what was going on and would try to re-connect with them again as a friend, but it's never been successful because I realized I no longer trusted them as a friend."-Keleidoscorp


This is usually one of my main reasons to dis-connect from someone. I just figure, if a person doesn't reciprocate the attention while im around, then maybe they wouldn't care or notice when i leave; so , i just feel like maybe its time to go on a "HIATUS" . Either way, this is normal for scorps , we understand that we appear and disappear into peoples lives to complete a mission ( be a catalyst or facilitate with some transendence ) in a person's life, then we are off and out of the way for you to continue your journey. Think about Pluto, it a planet that stays visible in our solar system for a time and then its off and disappears for a few years. Persephone (queen of the underworld), she would spend six months of the year above ground and then the other six month in the underworld.

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Are you saying one should allow themselves to be used? Repeatedly? The definition of stupidity is doing the same thing over and over, expecting a different result.

Actually that's the definition of insanity. Which is most definitely worse.

Wait what is this thread about?

Sometimes we just need space and our world gets too crowded....we weed out people......but we alwsys have our reasons

Posted by aliennation
Yeah. On my 18th birthday, in one afternoon while my parents were at work, I packed all my sh.t and left within 3 hours, leaving them a note and a voicemail to inform them I left voluntarily, and never want any contact again.

I've also walked right off of a job once - my 'boss' snapped her fingers in my face to tell me to "get moving", and I couldn't tolerate that kind of disrespect. I just don't tolerate it.

I'm also quick to leave relationships, even my friends think I should "work things out". Work things out? No. This is my life, why should I sacrifice any of my happiness for someone else?

I've also suddenly ended close friendships from childhood because of something they did, or if they said something truly disrespectful.

Life is too short to tolerate others' BS.

OMG, we are sisters from another mister alien haha

My mother is very controlling, one night shortly after I graduated highschool, I pulled the car into the garage at midnight (my curfew), left a note on the door telling her and my stepdad I was moving out because I could no longer handle her and her controlling ways.

Whenever I have listened to my girlfriends to give the guy a chance, I end up kicking myself and get into a huge mess. Dont do that anymore. When I feel that switch coming, I let it switch and Im done.

Ended a friendship with a gal where it always felt like she was using me. The final straw was when I asked back my playpen I had loaned her to I could loan it to another friend that needed one. She blamed me for having to spend her car insurance money on a new playpen because they really didnt need it like she did, she was using it as a crib. Okay fine. Right? The night I called for it back? She was putting together an entertainment center for her new TV she bought because she was hosting a football party that weekend. Bitch, bring me my shit and fuck you. Ungrateful disrespectful rat. Didnt talk to her for over 20 years.

I forgot the job one too haha

Worked as a busgirl just out of highschool at a finer dining restuarant. The owner was a complete dousche and always yelled at his employees in front of patrons. One Sat morning, we had a large wedding group who was coming in for brunch, and I began setting filled water glasses on the table as the guests were starting to arrive. In front of everyone, he yelled at me for not waiting until everyone had arrived. I went back to the breakroom, took off my apron and walked out the back door. Apparently he had to help bus himself! lol

So in retaliation, he said I never returned a skirt therefore held my final paycheck. I told him I did, and which date I had and that I had given it to his wife. He said they couldnt find it, and wouldnt let me replace it. Well this is where Karma comes in. Less than a year later he was escorted back to town from Las Vegas by two IRS agents for tax fraud and evasion. 😄

Posted by everevolvingepithet
^double boom !

I think that's where some come unstuck, not having the correct policies and procedures in place and avarice lol

I agree LOL

And the thing is, is after all of that, I guess it really humbled him. But for many it was too late, he had a hard time and for a long time no one in our area trusted him let alone wanted their name associated with him. Both with by how he had treated people, and of course for illegal business practices. And caused the rest of his family a lot of embarrassment throughout the community. Much of their other business ventures failed because of it.

Well his wife had her own consulting company for a few things... one was party planning and one other thing that I dont recall, I think home interior. They also were involved in real estate, all of which suffered or completely dissolved. Afterwards, he worked in sales for a reputable fireplace company, but his sales of course were low because people remembered him from before. It took quite a few years, and basically the work of his wife and their son...he rode on their shirttails from there on out. I talk about him like he's dead lol He's still alive, but I think still in real estate. Higher end commissioned homes mind you 😉


SN: I realized I said I didnt talk to that gal for over 20 years, I meant to type over 10. 😛

I dis-connected from a highschool friend of mines because all the times I was her friend, we would share personal stuff, secrets ,problems with one another. I would give her advice and she would give me " oh, c'mon your issues are not a big deal" "your dumb and stupid"; while i never treated her in such careless ways, when she needed a shoulder to lean on. Then it turns out she was spreading all my personal business to any and everyone around school making it sound like i was a parent-less hoe (i told her i lost my virginity to my bf at the age of 17) and comparing her life to mines. she always wanted to appear like GOD's gift to humanity, like if she was the virgin MAry (we were in a parochial school). So, i had to do what was right and cut-off that TOXIC FRIENDSHIP. Sometimes it's better to be alone than to be with toxic company.

Interesting enough tho, I found out from my boyfriend dat she was sucking, fucking, and etc all his homeboys; most of the times it was during school hours too. hmm, go figure!:/

@Odeep.....laughing! Love the way you put it! Thats rite dammit! Snakes among us......but beware of the stinger!....or fin....or horns, pincers haha!

@Sparta....exactly about toxic people.....I dont have room for toxic in my life....not even my family members....you get cut off too.....

I can cut so many people completely out......but what about that (1) you just cant seem to kick?!.....it happens.......once......on a blue moon.....this happen to you?

Ever....very true....Hoping this too shall pass.....and quickly!!!

Choppity chop applies only to the people who do not compliment my style ...it can be negative attributes, drama, gossip....etc. and some you keep around because you love their smile, you love their heart, they make you laugh....Im 100% for! Everything in life.......they happen for a reason....=)

Seems no matter how I try I can not and wont have this person out of my life but if they want me out of it then I will be out of it and never speak to them again. I hope that never happens but I shall respect this persons decision and get on with my life.

Another reason we cut people out of our life: fake/phony....only the genuine...the keeping it real, the sincere do we hold on to

^ ........ =) haha!