scorps on the water triad?

Imho I'd much rather pick cancer as a partner.
I value much of their traits. Family, loyalty, staying at home and watching netflix.

Pisces is good for sexual stuff but in relationships they remind me of the those little parasitic fishes that feed on your shit..

I suppose it can be beneficial for some...
Venus in leeb ideals yearns for equal partnership not a big a little fish scenario .

I thought Gemini's were the perfect match for Scorpio women? You girls can't resist them?

no gemini can't resist us. A cancer guy I met last year grew on me a little made me start liking cancer guys. He is not emotional though he is fire dominate with a taurus moon YUM 😉

Posted by exoskeleton
stihl, are you daft?

we don't love them hoes.

Seeing if I would get a reaction from you Scorps

I know Scorp and Gemini relationships don't work I'm watching one and its not a healthy relationship she is too controlling for her BF to handle. If you are a weak man its wise not to be with a Scorpio woman. Maybe its my Taurus moon but I'm not a weak Cancer.

Posted by exoskeleton
i kinda like cancers, but i get creepy vibes from them. like one day they'll snap and try to eat me.

gimme a pisces any day.

Posted by Stihl46
I thought Gemini's were the perfect match for Scorpio women? You girls can't resist them?

Who told you that lie?!

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Posted by Stihl46
I thought Gemini's were the perfect match for Scorpio women? You girls can't resist them?

Who told you that lie?!

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Like I said earlier post I know that pairing doesn't work to well I'm seeing what happens in that relationship no I'm not a Gem man I'm a Cancer.

Posted by exoskeleton
i kinda like cancers, but i get creepy vibes from them. like one day they'll snap and try to eat me.

gimme a pisces any day.

Scorpios have hotter tempers than an Cancer, what I'm finding with Scorpios is they go away and sulk and stew on what's p*ssing them off, plotting revenge. Scorpio are the most revengeful people I have ever met.

Posted by Reincarnation
With Pisces currently.

This Cancer woman at work who is 4'11'' and talks excessively brings me food when I'm quietly working alone in the corner - wishing to be left alone.

I told her I'm in a relationship but she keeps bringing me food. Last Friday was a piece of salmon with carrots and broccoli.

I told the Pisces about her and she angrily said that I should refuse the food next time.

I'm not going to lie; food has an effect on me.

LMAO

I don't know. I've been thinking about it for awhile now and I'm starting to think that maybe I would be better off with a Cancer woman instead of Pisces. The Pisces has too much me and not enough HER. I can't stand that. I don't like to be smothered! At least the Cancer woman has her own identity. I'm not trying to bash on Pisces women because they're awesome! I was just explaining myself.

I can't believe I just said that I sided with a Cancer woman over a Pisces...

Posted by Reincarnation
With Pisces currently.

This Cancer woman at work who is 4'11'' and talks excessively brings me food when I'm quietly working alone in the corner - wishing to be left alone.

I told her I'm in a relationship but she keeps bringing me food. Last Friday was a piece of salmon with carrots and broccoli.

I told the Pisces about her and she angrily said that I should refuse the food next time.

I'm not going to lie; food has an effect on me.

Who says she wants in your pants? Maybe she's just wanting to mother you and you look like you need some mothering.

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Posted by exoskeleton
i kinda like cancers, but i get creepy vibes from them. like one day they'll snap and try to eat me.

gimme a pisces any day.

@_@ i can't.

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But the creeeeeepy vibes WANT you to! 😄

Posted by SilverScorpio
I don't know. I've been thinking about it for awhile now and I'm starting to think that maybe I would be better off with a Cancer woman instead of Pisces. The Pisces has too much me and not enough HER. I can't stand that. I don't like to be smothered! At least the Cancer woman has her own identity. I'm not trying to bash on Pisces women because they're awesome! I was just explaining myself.

I can't believe I just said that I sided with a Cancer woman over a Pisces...

I knew you'd join the dark side....we have cookies, after all.

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Posted by SilverScorpio
I don't know. I've been thinking about it for awhile now and I'm starting to think that maybe I would be better off with a Cancer woman instead of Pisces. The Pisces has too much me and not enough HER. I can't stand that. I don't like to be smothered! At least the Cancer woman has her own identity. I'm not trying to bash on Pisces women because they're awesome! I was just explaining myself.

I can't believe I just said that I sided with a Cancer woman over a Pisces...

I knew you'd join the dark side....we have cookies, after all.

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Yeah, it's just something I've been thinking about.

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Posted by Stihl46
I know Scorp and Gemini relationships don't work I'm watching one and its not a healthy relationship she is too controlling for her BF to handle. If you are a weak man its wise not to be with a Scorpio woman. Maybe its my Taurus moon but I'm not a weak Cancer.

Dude, I remember you. You've been watching that relationship for a looong time now.

You had that thread in the Gemini board saying negative things about the Gemini. I believe we concluded that you want her for yourself.

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Yes I have watched the relationship and I have watched a man that was always happy change, I've seen what happens in a toxic relationship.

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Posted by Stihl46
I know Scorp and Gemini relationships don't work I'm watching one and its not a healthy relationship she is too controlling for her BF to handle. If you are a weak man its wise not to be with a Scorpio woman. Maybe its my Taurus moon but I'm not a weak Cancer.

Dude, I remember you. You've been watching that relationship for a looong time now.

You had that thread in the Gemini board saying negative things about the Gemini. I believe we concluded that you want her for yourself.

Yes I have watched the relationship and I have watched a man that was always happy change, I've seen what happens in a toxic relationship.

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come on, GG. Get QUICK! on the move! 😄 😄

Liz Taylor and Richard Burton were a toxic couple just for starters 😄 😄 😄

Yeah I'm not looking for toxic obsession.

Love to me is not obsession.
I've had that with Pisces.
Just obsession.. from my part..

Leo moon/Libra venus desires love in the purest sense.
Even though i noticed scorps like that toxic intense affairs.

Love to me is even if s.o other falls in love with someone else you would let them ago because you want them to be happy.

technically I feel mutable ends up hurting fixed modality.
Scorpio tends to see black and white and Pisces Technicolor, like Gemini but in cgi tf.
Cardinal signs have authority with both fixed and mutable.

My choice is still cancer if I had to choose.
The mutable I have in my chart is Asc which is pisces but my personal planets are all fixed or cardinal

I wonder that those scorps that chose pisces have mutable influences in their chart.
Personal planets maybe?

Sag is the next sign over after all.
Maybe a mutable moon too.

Posted by warmwaters
Love to me is even if s.o other falls in love with someone else you would let them ago because you want them to be happy.

Just so you are aware..this is a very mutable mindset.

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why and how is that only a mutable mindset?

Posted by exoskeleton
i kinda like cancers, but i get creepy vibes from them. like one day they'll snap and try to eat me.

gimme a pisces any day.

Noooo they mean no harm 😢 From my observations all they need is love. They don't ask for much.

Despite me feeling that way.
Loyalty is still important which is a fixed trait.

I'm not so transfixed on the idea "emotion cheating" because apart of life is connecting with others and growing bonds.
That is just a fact of life, we are social being.

If there is romantic undertones, especially sexual it is very offensive to me at least..
I think mutable mindset is not very strict in that regard.

simply because it's disrespecting the romantic/ sexual exclusive relation you are currently in.
No one said you can't develop relationships with other people and if fall happens then it is what it is.
You can be a man or woman about it and tell your partner that you have developed greater romantic feelings for another.

I think in the case of pisces at least my situation was confusion to able to decipher who was more important and so just two timing lol.
Mutable flaw is that they can love everyone equally especially Pisces. Thing conflicts with fixed mentality.
I for one have ranks of who is more important to me hahah

Posted by warmwaters
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why and how is that only a mutable mindset?

I didn't say only, I said very.

I heard that exact line of thought mainly from the 4 mutables. A live and let live kind of mindset.

You have planets in mutable houses?

Posted by warmwaters
I think mutable mindset is not very strict in that regard.

Yes, the mindset shifts all the time. We cannot properly define things in absolute value.

Nothing to do with being loyal but I hear you on that.

not any personal planets. just old saturn chilling in the 12th house
But my ascendant is in my pisces and some people think the way we interact with the world is through our ascendant.

Oh but I have venus conjunct Jupiter in the 7th.
with rules sag/9th house.

I always have this idea of love in the purest sense.
My ideas of love is more esoteric, true love is forgiveness.
I think that's why me not being able to forgive my ex is why I was never in love but obsessed with the idea of love.

I don't mean. Forgiveness as in take back.
Oh hell no.
It's easy to burn bridges with me.

With all the concentrated scorpio/8th house stuff I can be a dark cloud in peoples lives.

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Posted by Reincarnation
With Pisces currently.

This Cancer woman at work who is 4'11'' and talks excessively brings me food when I'm quietly working alone in the corner - wishing to be left alone.

I told her I'm in a relationship but she keeps bringing me food. Last Friday was a piece of salmon with carrots and broccoli.

I told the Pisces about her and she angrily said that I should refuse the food next time.

I'm not going to lie; food has an effect on me.

Who says she wants in your pants? Maybe she's just wanting to mother you and you look like you need some mothering.

My intuition tells me. Not "in your pants," but some interest perhaps.

But - yes - when I brood I may look like I need feminine support of some sort. I don't know.

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Add that you're a water sign and you'll be the first she mothers. But in general, anyone looking lonely will get smothered in cancer nurturing tactics.

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Posted by warmwaters
Love to me is even if s.o other falls in love with someone else you would let them ago because you want them to be happy.

Just so you are aware..this is a very mutable mindset.

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Dammie, look at this from a slightly different perspective-


It is also quite a fixed stance to hold as well, instead of it being but a "let go and let live" attitude, it is continually loving a person and choosing to, even after they are gone. To affirmatively place their happiness above ours in a way because that serves to make us happy. To forever leave a piece of our hearts locked up/reserved for this individual even when they are long gone and we have moved passed it, onwards to another love that will last. To let go of a soulmate but to find someone who can be our lover, best friend and confidante. Instead of a spark, we let go and find an ember.

That is a very fixed mindset.

^

Yeah I believe in soul mates too.
I guess that's why I'm okay by the idea.

Fixed signs don't always think they own people.

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Posted by warmwaters
Love to me is even if s.o other falls in love with someone else you would let them ago because you want them to be happy.

Just so you are aware..this is a very mutable mindset.

Dammie, look at this from a slightly different perspective-


It is also quite a fixed stance to hold as well, instead of it being but a "let go and let live" attitude, it is continually loving a person and choosing to, even after they are gone. To affirmatively place their happiness above ours in a way because that serves to make us happy. To forever leave a piece of our hearts locked up/reserved for this individual even when they are long gone and we have moved passed it, onwards to another love that will last. To let go of a soulmate but to find someone who can be our lover, best friend and confidante. Instead of a spark, we let go and find an ember.

That is a very fixed mindset.

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I see that too. But if there's one modality that does "let go" better..it's the mutable signs.

I wouldn't associate "let go" with heavy fixed influence in a chart at all. But I will say when enough is enough..probably fixed signs let go faster.

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Unlike what people like to believe, mutables have very much a sense of loyalty. We're just not as loud about it as fixed signs, or hold it over your head as if one should be loyal to you just because you decided to be loyal to them.

To fixed signs it's an entitlement whereas with mutables *if* we decide to be loyal, we just are.

+1

This like a mutherfucker.

Posted by warmwaters
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Yeah I believe in soul mates too.
I guess that's why I'm okay by the idea.

Fixed signs don't always think they own people.

True, I believe in soul mates. However, I believe in soul mates as individuals who come into our lives with a purpose, to teach us lessons.

A soul mate cannot be a lover, a partner, nor a significant other.
They are not meant to be with us forever, or for the long term either.
They merely come and go as we journey on our personal grand adventure.
They show us a side of us we must face or to overcome but they would destroy us if they stayed beyond whatever purpose they served.

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Posted by warmwaters
Love to me is even if s.o other falls in love with someone else you would let them ago because you want them to be happy.

Just so you are aware..this is a very mutable mindset.

Dammie, look at this from a slightly different perspective-


It is also quite a fixed stance to hold as well, instead of it being but a "let go and let live" attitude, it is continually loving a person and choosing to, even after they are gone. To affirmatively place their happiness above ours in a way because that serves to make us happy. To forever leave a piece of our hearts locked up/reserved for this individual even when they are long gone and we have moved passed it, onwards to another love that will last. To let go of a soulmate but to find someone who can be our lover, best friend and confidante. Instead of a spark, we let go and find an ember.

That is a very fixed mindset.

I see that too. But if there's one modality that does "let go" better..it's the mutable signs.

I wouldn't associate "let go" with heavy fixed influence in a chart at all. But I will say when enough is enough..probably fixed signs let go faster.

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I completely agree.

We are far less easy-going when we let go, where as they are slightly more blas?e about it.
When we let go, we sever bonds completely, abruptly...where as mutable signs, they really begin to be but indifferent and often already drifting off yonder.

^Yeah, the way I see it..when a fixed sign lets go..they're walking out the door, out of your life.

When a mutable lets go..they can still be in the room and mind/soul a million miles away. At this point it's not about walking out of the physical door because mentally we already walked a while ago.

Posted by Damnata
^Yeah, the way I see it..when a fixed sign lets go..they're walking out the door, out of your life.

When a mutable lets go..they can still be in the room and mind/soul a million miles away. At this point it's not about walking out of the physical door because mentally we already walked a while ago.

Personally, when it is bad enough to the point I need to abruptly cut an individual out. They are far beyond the 'indifferent' category, they are completely erased from my memory as if they never existed and even if they were in trouble or dying I could care less. Though very few have ever reached that point of no return in my life.

As they say- push a fixed sign far enough till the brink, that is the end. Good luck to them, they are as good as dead to us.