She's concerned

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Brandonb55
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Hello so me(cancer) and my gf(scorp) are both falling for eachother.... Hard. But she is concerned that my ex is trying to get me back, keeps telling me that she is worried ill choose my ex over her wich is quite a huge shot for me even to consider. But im wondering if you fellow scorp women have any advice on how i can show her that when i say im in it for good and shes the only one on my mind 24/7 that i mean it? Id greatly appreciate any advice, good or bad on the matter. Thank you.
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Allright, allright. I get my prevois posts and this one slightly contradict eachother, but all is pure in my mind and heart on the matter. Im over my ex, havebeen for a while now, and that huge shot bit was basically a way of saying it somewhat nicer than how i told my gf wich did ease her mind slightly but not enough fue to a past bf did this shiza and thats what brings her concern on it. Id rather be done with my ex and send her down the river to a bottomless waterfall (also much nicer) and in the words of horton, "i ment what i said and said what i ment" im just trying to ease her mind more of this possibility happening, ya know? Ive cheated on one girl and it drove me to near suicide because how much of a POS i felt. So this scenario that she has in her wonderful mind will never happen.
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Scorpio is an intuitive Water sign, too.

Just like you Brandon.

If strangers on DXPNET knew that you were not over your ex, then the Scorp definitely sees it too.

This is EXACTLY why I suggested you get closure with this Taurus woman.

But you were adamant and refused to.

The Taurus wants closure, and the Scorpio wants the Taurus situation to be over with.

You're the only one who refuses to emotionally close that chapter.

I knew this was going to be an issue in your current relationship.

Avoiding an issue isn't going to make it go away....especially for a clairvoyant girlfriend like your Scorp.
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Posted by leavesofp


many taurus women keep coming back when the have been the ones to break up with you...mine came over too during the last week...hmmmmm what is going on?

As for a scorpio woman (my sister is one) just keep repeating that you only love her. And lock the taurus out. There is nothhing else you can do.


The truth was the Taurus never wanted a reconciliation. She is currently in a relationship. They share the same friends and are often bumping into one another at social gatherings. She wanted to be certain that there was closure between the both of them, so that there wasn't any feeling of awkwardness.

She reached out to him for a meetup because she sensed that he wasn't over her, and she needed to make sure that everything was cool between them.

Brandon told us that he wasn't ready to take that step with her emotionally just yet, and that it would just be easier for him to block her.
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Posted by littlenanobyte
You sound like one of those dudes who will probably be secretly talking to your ex anyway because you lack the will power to simply not.

From 12 days ago pining over your ex to now being "in it for good" with the scorp... Nahhh, I can see straight through you. And I don't think you necessarily are evil or have bad intentions, you just lack basic self control and self awareness. She can probably pick on that weakness too.

Don't even fuck with the scorp until you are 1000% committed to start something with her and are mentally and emotionally 1000% done with Taurus.
Well considering that my ex basically told me i need to be in a padded room with a coat that allows me to hug myself 24/7 ive been done with her for a while. The spinning because of the taurus is because she told me that it was the end of the line and that theres nothing even acquaintances there or allowed. So the previous shit ive said was me just confused and wondering why she is wanting to be freindly after all the bs that both of us have pulled throughout this year just to hurt one annother. Im fucked, and in my group of friends being fucked is basically "your in love" so with the scorp, yeah im beyond fucked. So fucked i will feel the schlong of this for the next 20 years. I hide nothing from her. I cried when i thought she turned all of my freinds agaist me because shes just that kind of person. She had my best friend question my moral even tho i showed her every single txt voicemail and recorded phonecall that ever happened since she left me. So there isnt anything to see through. What u see now is what i am. Im wont lie, the whole thing fucked me up, left me a thousand peices spread throughout a frozen tundra. And my beautiful scorp wasnt asked, no, she asked if i would allow her over my ever growing wall to find and collect the peices to make a semi complete me. So you saying that ima still talk to her is honestly bs, i have zero intent to bring her around me what so ever. And its the truth.
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Posted by littlenanobyte
You sound like one of those dudes who will probably be secretly talking to your ex anyway because you lack the will power to simply not.

From 12 days ago pining over your ex to now being "in it for good" with the scorp... Nahhh, I can see straight through you. And I don't think you necessarily are evil or have bad intentions, you just lack basic self control and self awareness. She can probably pick on that weakness too.

Don't even fuck with the scorp until you are 1000% committed to start something with her and are mentally and emotionally 1000% done with Taurus.
Well considering that my ex basically told me i need to be in a padded room with a coat that allows me to hug myself 24/7 ive been done with her for a while. The spinning because of the taurus is because she told me that it was the end of the line and that theres nothing even acquaintances there or allowed. So the previous shit ive said was me just confused and wondering why she is wanting to be freindly after all the bs that both of us have pulled throughout this year just to hurt one annother. Im fucked, and in my group of friends being fucked is basically "your in love" so with the scorp, yeah im beyond fucked. So fucked i will feel the schlong of this for the next 20 years. I hide nothing from her. I cried when i thought she turned all of my freinds agaist me because shes just that kind of person. She had my best friend question my moral even tho i showed her every single txt voicemail and recorded phonecall that ever happened since she left me. So there isnt anything to see through. What u see now is what i am. Im wont lie, the whole thing fucked me up, left me a thousand peices spread throughout a frozen tundra. And my beautiful scorp wasnt asked, no, she asked if i would allow her over my ever growing wall to find and collect the peices to make a semi complete me. So you saying that ima still talk to her is honestly bs, i have zero intent to bring her around me what so ever. And its the truth.
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Sorry not a while. Im done completely. An answer to my gf got mixed into this about a friend that royally pissed me off last night.
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Posted by nanachander
It is really depressing for Scorpion Woman if their BF still have connection with Ex.

3 months ago I was in relationship with Gemini Man. We love each other... Hard, until one of his Ex girlfriend texted me. She said that she still love my BF and wanted him back. I asked my BF but he always change the topic to comfort me. He also hugged me, kissed me in the forehead that I love the most. Okay, I believe in Him. Until one day his Ex text me again that she met my BF and still contact each other.

Oh He's the worst. I asked him countless time but He didn't response at all. I didn't know who should I believe. I wanted a clear explanation. Until I heard from his Ex that he visit her often. I'm really mad, and want to cry out loud but Scorpio Woman has pride. Calmly I told him that I wanna break up. With smile eventhough my heart break in to pieces. I hope He stopped me but He didn't. It's clear that I'm just replacement.

Scorpio Woman need a clear explaination, and prove. Don't try to lie because we know everything. It's better a bitter truth than a sweet lie. If you love her, try to look in to her eyes. Grab her hands, comfort her with gentle smile.
Always do. Also sorry to hear about that. Cuz thats fucked. The only ex's i keep in contact with is my "sister" and my friend who now lives a few thousand miles away. Brit(sis) and me broke up cuz we fought like brother and sister and it just felt weird to kiss my sister lol. But i never keep in contact with ex's the only connection i have to my most current one is the house (its a group of people that love to party and go to events to get sloshed) its the only thing i allow to have and even then its just a half hearted hello and i wonder off. I dont like lying, i find it to be a vial and a terrible way to avoid shit you dont want to do, so i dont. Ive lied to her once so i could drive my friend home when i was much more intoxicated than i should of been to drive, but i was the only one with a license so..... Yeah. Lol