Should I Rethink My No Scorpio Policy?

Happy holidays to all! Wondering if some of you can shine some light on my situation.

I had a bad experience with a Scorpio in the past - my ex-husband was one. It all started out great, fell in love quickly, great physical chemistry, lived out pretty wild sexual fantasies together, always had my eyes only on him, etc., but him losing his temper about every single thing, yelling and screaming did a horrible damage to relationship and it was pointless to even try to get my point across any time we argued. He was super paranoid and suspicious even though I never gave him a reason (until things went downhill and at the end of our marriage I completely checked out of the relationship emotionally). We had a really bad falling out and ended up divorcing.

Since then I vowed to myself to never be in another relationship with a Scorpio. Maintained that for years until a couple weeks ago??_met this guy who is a Scorp and it's like I am being magnetically drawn to him. Hard to explain. I feel super comfortable in his company, we joke and laugh a lot, he is being dorky and I am being silly too, he has this intense stare and I often catch myself staring back at him and then having to look away because it gets too intense. Overall we just seem to click, nothing in particular, but it just flows with us. However, we have yet to kiss. Went on two dates, both were great and although I am all for a man being a gentleman and not kissing a woman on a first date, when he didn't do it on the second date, I was a bit disappointed. In my mind, if a man doesn't try to kiss a woman, he may not be all that attracted to her??_he did say on the first date that it takes him a while to get to know someone, especially when it comes to being intimate with someone (and I really liked to hear that, because I am the same way — I don't do sex just for the sake of feeling good and sex without a deep connection with a man on all levels doesn't interest me), but again, him not trying to kiss me on the second date made me wonder if maybe it's just me feeling all this excited about him and he is not feeling it??_.and I know it's only been a couple of weeks and two dates, but I guess it's the Venus in Scorpio in me — when I like someone, I go all in and want to know if the other person feels something for me(usually that gets me into trouble and men leave because they say it's too too much or it gets to heavy, too intense for them, basically they can't handle me, lol)

Continued??_.

Any input from Scorpios would be greatly appreciated!

Below are a few details about both of our horoscope placements:

He/I: Sun - Scorpio/Virgo
Moon: Both Capricorn
Venus: Both Scorpio
Mars: He is Aquarius and I am Libra

Is this potentially a good match? And should I play it cool and I sit back and let him initiate things and show me if he is interested? Asking because I am very interested in this guy but I've never dated a Scorpio besides my husband being one and we got married too fast without a true dating/courting period between us. Thank you!

Not a scorpio, no scorpio placements, but scorps are awesome, don't get ruined on a whole sun sign based on 1 relationship. It's probably better that y'all are holding off on physical stuff, including kissing (I guess.) This is your time to make sure he doesn't have any abusive tendencies like your ex-husband. Yes, I think you should let him initiate.

Well you fell in love with your ex-husand "quickly" as you put it and that failed.

Now you want to rush this one along.

Do you think that's a good idea or do you think maybe you should do what this new guy is doing and get to know him better, take it slow and allow him to be the man?

Read the last paragraph you typed again and you tell us.

P.S. Please drop the "Scorpio" thing and look at the reality. You might get less fuzzier answers for yourself.

Intimacy is not limited to sex. I personally will not kiss, touch, hold hand, etc until I feel comfortable. Perhaps he feels the same way.

Very few Scorps subscribe to rules of dating (eg. it's the end of the date, therefore we should kiss). We move towards (or away from) someone based on our feelings for them.

Intimacy involves all physical contact and then some. The eye f*ckin' you mentioned is an example.

Be careful what you wish for....

Thank you all for responding.

Of course, I realize that it sounds ridiculous to make one's decision about being with someone based solely on their astrological sign. But we are all here posting on this board which is mainly dedicated to discussing people's signs.

And as we all know, there are certain generic traits that are possessed by each sign, regardless of sex, ethnicity, upbringing, etc.

That's why I posted his and my placings in hopes someone who dabs into astrology in depth would tell me if this is even a good match, everything else aside, from the stars point of view. I'm just a bit confused as to how to be around a double Sun/Venus Scorpio - be honest and open about my liking him or hold back and so forth. Thank you again!

Posted by OneLove78
Happy holidays to all! Wondering if some of you can shine some light on my situation.

I had a bad experience with a Scorpio in the past -

No avoid them pls.

Would you please elaborate as to why?

Have you dated a man with Sun/Venus in Scorpio in the past?

Thank you for all your replies. He hasn't made any plans for a third date since we saw each other last, so I guess I've got my answer as to why he didn't kiss me on the second date. Feeling sad coz I really liked him. Just don't get why he was saying certain things that were suggestive of his interest in me...But at least it was only two dates...Happy New Year to you all!